Love in a Cab - Egyptian Style

[Stravo]

Love grows from back seat of NY cab
Cabbie moonlights as matchmaker
Monday, January 31, 2005 Posted: 8:28 AM EST (1328 GMT)

NEW YORK (AP) -- If you look hard enough, you can find anything in New York.

So for the lovelorn who are burned out by the bar scene, fed up with personal ads or tired of scouring the Internet, there's another place to look for that perfect date: the back seat of a taxicab.

Specifically, Ahmed Ibrahim's cab.

The 50-year-old Egyptian immigrant sets up blind dates for his single passengers through a free, impromptu matchmaking service he runs out of his yellow cab. He said he finds mates, or at least dates, for about eight people a week.

"New York is a very tough city for dating," Ibrahim mused while driving through the West Village recently. "I have heard a lot of crying in this cab, a lot of fighting and a lot of broken hearts."

"Sometimes great people were just missing each other by minutes; one would get in my cab just as another had gotten out," he said.

Funny thing is, it works.

Ask Natalie Dillon. She hopped into Ibrahim's cab with friends on the way to a party one day last April. When their conversation switched to how hard it was to find a decent guy, Ibrahim chimed in through the bulletproof partition: "Hey ladies, I make matches."

"He really got our attention when he said that," Dillon said. "I was kind of skeptical at first but then I figured, 'Oh, this is New York, what the hell.' I figured he must meet a ton of people."

So Dillon -- a single, 33-year-old media studies grad student -- described what she was looking for in a guy, and gave Ibrahim her cell phone number. About six weeks later he called her and said: "Natalie, I have a guy for you."

"I couldn't believe it," she said.

She soon exchanged several phone calls with Martin Karamon, a 34-year-old lawyer. A few weeks later they went on a date. Six months later, the lovebirds are still going strong.

"It's very surreal, but that's the way it happened," she said.

New Yorkers have long poured their hearts out to cab drivers, but during his 21 years on the streets, Ibrahim has built deeper relationships with many of his fares. During the holiday season, he decorates his cab with Christmas lights and ornaments. He routinely sends birthday cards to passengers he has befriended and even hands out roses on Valentine's Day.

Playing matchmaker comes naturally to Ibrahim, though he stumbled across the part accidentally.

"I was joking around with this girl ... who said she couldn't find a boyfriend," he recalled. Ibrahim took her number.

Three days later, a man got in his cab and bemoaned his bad luck finding a woman. Ibrahim called the woman and gave her the man's number. Three weeks later, she called back and said they had gone on a date and were getting along great.

"I thought, 'Oh my God, this is my new project,"' he said.

So he set about it with gusto, attempting matches for doctors, lawyers and students.

Since then, he has been featured on Fox News Channel and NBC's "Today" show and in The Wall Street Journal. He even has an agent shopping his story to producers in Hollywood.

Ibrahim doesn't charge for his service; he does it for fun, he said. But he doesn't offer his help to just anybody who gets into his cab.

First, they must be serious about looking to settle down. Men in their early 20s are usually ruled out as being too young and wild. Older men who are "looking for Britney Spears" are crossed off the list for just being creepy. They must be gainfully employed: No one looking for a meal ticket is invited.

Try as hard as he may, his work is about love and chemistry, so not all of his matches have been successful.

"The guy I met was a very nice person but he just wasn't for me," Dana Rosen, 26, said of the one date Ibrahim set her up on. "But I'm very picky and it's hard to meet someone right away."

She's willing, however, to let Ibrahim set her up again.

"I trust Ahmed because he knows what I want and he knows that I'm picky," she said. "Besides, I'm always up for something different."

Ibrahim said he will keep working on setting his passengers up for as long as it takes to find them the perfect match.

"I hope I can accomplish a few marriages," he said. "I'm an old-fashioned guy."

And what about for himself?

"Marriage is not for me," declared Ibrahim, who is divorced. But he has a girlfriend -- a woman he picked up in his cab.

Wow. This story has it all, humor, love, and even a positive muslim role model. Is love REALLY that hard to find in NYC that you have to resort to your cabby hooking you up?

[Phil Skayhan]

Wow. This story has it all, humor, love, and even a positive muslim role model. Is love REALLY that hard to find in NYC that you have to resort to your cabby hooking you up?

Actually, I'd put it that in NYC you can find love EVEN through a cabby.

[Robert Walper]

Wow. This story has it all, humor, love, and even a positive muslim role model. Is love REALLY that hard to find in NYC that you have to resort to your cabby hooking you up?

I think love is hard to find because you have to sift through so many shitty people to find the decent ones. Seems to be especially true for women. I swear every girl friend I know has had major boyfriend problems, from just plain dicks to abusive behavior.

[Slartibartfast]

Guess I'll look him up when I visit New York.