So let me get this straight: the mother was on Medicaid because she was too poor to pay $3800(!) for her childbirth, and now the state is demanding that this poor couple pay $3800 unless they get married?CBC wrote:A Michigan dad has been told by court to pay for child's birth or wed mom
Published: Monday, January 19, 2009 | 8:39 AM ET
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FLINT, Mich. - The state of Michigan is giving a father a choice: pay the medical cost of his daughter's birth or marry the girl's mother.
Gary Johnson was billed $3,800 for the birth of his daughter JaeLyn. Johnson is not married to the child's mother, Rebecca Witt. The Michigan legislature amended the state's paternity act five years ago to waive birthing costs for a father, if he married the child's mother.
A year later, Witt gave birth to JaeLyn. The state paid for the hospital costs because Witt was on Medicaid at the time and is now trying to recover the money.
Jack Battles, the Genesee County Friend of the Court, said the law is an incentive to maintain the sanctity of marriage.
Battles' office enforces paternity rulings, child support and other aspects of family law. He says until Johnson can produce a marriage license, he faces the costs.
Johnson and Witt said they want to marry eventually, but Witt said she wants her marriage date to be her choice.
"I don't think anybody should tell me when to get married," said Witt. "I would like to have a nice wedding, and I can wait for it."
Witt and Johnson said they have been struggling since the state started coming after Johnson for the hospital costs.
Johnson said he was told he would be billed $500 a month and planned to meet with a caseworker to work out a solution.
"Losing just $10 hurts us," said Johnson, who makes $8 an hour at a Grand Blanc-area nursery. "We don't have a car, we don't even have an oven."
Johnson said he understood the state wants to promote marriage for parents but he respects Witt's position. "It's a woman's dream to have the best wedding she can have," he said.
Is this what the fundies mean by "supporting the institution of marriage"? Blackmailing couples into marrying by threatening them with thousands of dollars in what are effectively fines for living in sin?