Gil Hamilton wrote:I didn't say anything about "crushen zie den untermenschen", I was saying it came across as "we are set aside and special to God Almighty and you aren't, but we'll be polite about it. Just don't ask out daughter out. Or hang out with her too much." Unless you actually read and believe the Torah, which is full of "crushen zie den untermenschen", as you colorfully put it, depicted as a positive thing with orders coming straight from on high and to this day is referred to when Jewish groups condemn intermarriage, refuse Gentile foods, and most pressingly to this thread, think that Israel was literally granted to them by God.
Well, now we're moving into things like Biblical Literalism, which is a whole 'nother can of worms, I think, and I'm not going to defend Biblical Literalism because I don't believe it is literal. If the Jews are supposed to "crush the untermenschen" they really chose a stupid way to go about it-- they don't encourage converts and never really had much of a warrior tradition, arguably until recently.
These weren't Orthodox Jews either. I believe the congregation most of them belonged to were Conservative, but the conceit was there none the less. Incidentally, I DARE you to claim that Orthodox Jews don't take the Chosen People thing to mean that they are far more special than everyone else or that they are open to any sort of assimilation. Further, I'd ask why the Baal Teshuva movement is so popular, even in the United States, if the Jewish population was so open to assimilation, given that the specific goal of Baal Teshuva is a return to orthodoxy. Hell, they even play the game of More Hebrew Than Thou with the Conservative sects.
Do they take the "special" thing too far? Yes, a lot of them do. Are you under the impression that I like and support this? It seems to me you're getting really riled up about something that happened to you years ago as a kid, for which I'm sorry about it, but I had nothing to do with it and I'm not defending or condoning it. It can be hard for a young person, still forming ideas about the world, to be rejected so vehemently and under such arbitrary circumstances, but I do kinda wish you'd see me on my own merits rather than as a mouthpiece for this kind of behavior.
Tell me, how often do you see Conservative and particularly Orthodox Jews ever hanging around Gentiles?
Quite a bit, actually, or I used to. There's not a lot of Orthodox here in Boise, so I don't really get to rub elbows with them overmuch. True, that doesn't negate the fact that there are some incredibly assholish Orthodox who would turn their faces and shield their eyes when they saw a perfectly normal Jewish woman walking down the street who was wearing a halter and tight pants. But not all are like that. I don't want to pound the matter overmuch because it'll sound like I'm trying to make a "no true Scotsman" argument, which I'm not.
Coyote wrote:There's not much you can really do except police your own group(s) as an individual. Sure, I like hanging around Jews because I have a lot in common with them. But if I heard one of my students say "I won't play with him because he's not Jewish" then I'll ask him where he gets such a notion and try to correct such an idea. In that logical, ideal world, my group isn't threatened by your group, we can visit from time to time and learn interesting things, and if anyone in our respective groups start badmouthing the others, others within our own groups will step in and tell that person to STFU.
I think it's more their parents you have to worry about then, rather than the kids. I know I'm pounding my own anecdotal evidence alot in this tangent the thread has gone, but I never had any issue getting along with kids. It was their parents telling them not to get close to the Goyim kid that was the issue.
OK, when Orthodox Jewish groups actually call intermarriage with Goyim a complete rejection of Judaism, who in Judaism tells them to STFU? When they say that gays are an abomination and Palestinians should be kicked off Hebrew lands because they think the Torah is a legally binding land grant straight from Yahu, who tells them to STFU? You don't seem to see that, but you do see large movements like Baal Teshuva.
Well, I for one tell people to STFU when I come across asinine attitudes like that, so I can at least assure you of that. I've actually studied the Arab-Israeli issue quite a bit and delved deep into studies of Islam and Islam's effects on the political realm in the Middle East and so I can see the points being made by the Palestinian side as well as the Israeli side.
But what about when non-Jewish parents reject their kids for dating or marrying a Jew? This isn't entirely one-sided here. There are racist assholes in Judaism, I never denied that. You ran across a bunch of them, and I tend to think that a lot of these exclusionary assholes in the Orthodox movement are fucked up.
As for the
Baal Teshuva movement, there is a concerted effort among Reform and Conservative Jews that I know of to get back some of what they cut loose as far as traditions and observances. Paying more attention to the dietary laws, for example. In my synagogue here in Boise, after services there's the
oneg, the social hour with snacks and goodies, and schmoozing, etc. People used to bring shrimp salads, beenies and weenies, that sort of thing, 20+ years ago. There was a concerted effort to break with traditions that some found to be 'silly' and 'anal retentive', and being picky about eating seemed one way to go about that. Lots of Jews put up Christmas trees even though they didn't celebrate Christmas per se.
But many people felt it sort of lost the spirit (note small 's', not capitol 'S') of the whole thing, and was so watered-down as to be meanigless. membership dwindled. Eventually we got a new Rabbi and he's no Orthodox by any stretch (he was married to a female Rabbi for years) but he advocated getting back to some of the basics and do simple things like
kashrut (for the unknowing: keeping kosher, the whole meat-cheese/pork/shellfish thing) to remind folks that we have our own traditions.
Now I'm sure folks will pounce on this and use this as "evidence" that "we Jews feel we're better'n everybody else" but I say that there's "better than" and then there's just "different". There's nothing wrong with "different". "Different" can be fun, I say, even interesting. It's one thing to say "we don't eat pork, so that makes us better than you, you filthy Gentile!" and it is entirely another thing (IMO) to say "we don't eat pork because we're different. Ahmed over there also doesn't eat pork, nor does he drink alcohol; Brigham here doesn't drink coffee; and Mr. O'Malley down the street doesn't eat meat on Friday."
Anyhow, to bring it to a circle here, the
Baal Teshuva movement has a purpose (I know most people here will find it stupid and pointless, sure, but we're talking about a religion here, which by definition isn't supposed to make sense) but if someone is using it as a means to point out "racial superiority" then I'd call them on it, if I were you. If I were there hearing that nonsense, I would.
I don't have any problem with other groups and cultures either. The book on top my nightstand right now is on the topic of Shinto. Heck, I even own a CD from that Hasidic Jewish Raggae guy Matisyahu because knew it was way too awesome to pass up.
I always liked Rav Carlebach, and 'the Moshav Band' popular around Jerusalem, or they were back in '99-'01 at least.
I do, however, have a problem with bigots and people who say with a straight face "Israel must be Jewish or dead! A non-Jewish Israel is suicide! Jewish culture only!" as though their rhetoric is any better than the asshats who go around dressing up Curious George dolls with Obama paraphernalia and go on TV talking about how no damn black Muslim terrorist should be President of America, by god.
I'm with you there, really. As with all religion, ideally it is something you carry inside you, and is not necessarily reliant on a piece of land or a necklace, artifact, or pendant. "Faith" does not need physical proofs, or it isn't faith at all. In my version of an ideal world, there wouldn't even be political borders, and the only way you'd know when you passed into another land was when you started noticing the culture, language, architecture and customs changed... but that's not anytime soon, unfortunately.