Kodiak wrote:Is it my imagination, or does the religious far-right reduce homosexuals to sociopaths who can't control their urges for more than 30 minutes?
It's not your imagination. I actually ran into a guy face-to-face who tried to peddle that line on me once. The exchange was like this:
HIM: Homosexuals seem to have an unhealthy urge to be pedophiles.
ME: What do you base that on?
HIM: I don't know how to explain it, but you have to look at the facts. Most pedophiles are homosexual.
ME: And what do you base that on?
HIM: Just look at the news. Look at all the homosexual pedophiles they catch in the news! Don't you watch the news?
ME: Sure I do. I saw the news about Elizabeth Smart. I saw the news about Cecilia Zhang. I saw the news about Leslie Mahafee and Kristen French. Again, what are you basing this on?
HIM: Hmmm, now that I think about it, you may be right. There are a lot of heterosexual pedophiles too.
This guy was actually more reasonable than the norm, in the sense that he actually conceded the point. But it's still a real problem that he was so sure of himself before our little discussion, even though he had obviously not bothered putting much thought into it.
A gay man would have as much desire to molest a young boy as a hetero man would to molest a young girl, and yet they're constantly characiturized as sexual deviants with no control. It makes me sad to be a Christian.
People like me believe that pedophilia is a psychological disorder: the result of a malformed or disturbed mind. Normal people don't have these urges.
People like James Dobson believe that pedophilia is the result of "weakness", or people "falling to temptation": an argument which (disturbingly enough) presumes that we
all have these urges, and some of us are just better at
controlling them (presumably with God's help) than others. Personally, I think this implies that if they think everyone has these urges, they probably have these urges themselves.