Thanas wrote:Shep, please take a breather. Neither you nor I, not being transgendered ourselves, can know how they feel.
By that intepretation, nobody in this thread can understand how I feel, not being deaf themselves.
You come off as a major jerk in this thread, especially as you have yet to show one transsexual serving in one of the areas of employment you listed.
Why should I have to?
Why is it that they can't have a bit of patience like everyone else, instead of demanding everything up front?
I've seen the surgery required - it is not really great or pretty and definitely not something a sane person would just select out of a passing fancy.
My view is brutally simple.
They are born with a functional body that works, and they want to maim that functional body as a form of extreme body modification.
I really do not give a damn if they do it or not; if they want to fuck up their functional body in pursuit of a chimaerical dream, go ahead, see if I care.
What I do give a damn about is their endless whining over opression. You said it yourself; the surgery is not something a sane person would select out of a passing fancy.
They made their choice, they can lie in their goddamn bed when they find out that life isn't exactly all free cake and candy afterwards.
Even more so because their condition is a
decidedly non-life threatening/non-life impacting one, so they're pretty far down on my list of people I give a damn about, due to simple triage.
FYI, if you want to know who tops my 'give a damn' triage list, it's blind people. Interestingly enough, Ray Charles' "give a damn list" had deaf people on the top of it, rather than blind people; since he couldn't imagine what it would be like not to hear music.