Flagg wrote:Yeah, you're 100% correct, it's just that so many assholes in ER's and some other doctors I've seen use "dependent" and "addicted" as if they are the same thing.
Yes, well, that is a problem - my spouse was more than once viewed first as a drug-seeker/addict until the magic words "cancer diagnosis" were spoken. Even then, we had a problem with an ER nurse who protested he'd been given too much painkiller. I'm sorry, honey, it was an actual emergency, that's what it took to get things under control long enough to get him a procedure to deal with the acute problem, and afterwards he needed a hell of a lot less. Yes, sometimes when trying to figure out the appropriate dose you overshoot, that doesn't instantly turn someone into an addict and competent medical professionals adjust the next dose to something a little better.
Also, there are plenty of medical types who, while presumably competent in one area, are pretty awful outside it. Like the dude who was covering for our regular primary care physician my husband's last week of life who
clearly did not handle dying and death at all well. Barely came into the room, almost ran off as soon as he could. Fortunately, we could get someone else to take over that role who could deal with it.
Unfortunately, if you're in pain and ask for someone to replace a doctor or nurse who isn't up to speed with your problem you're accused of "doctor shopping".
And then there is the issues of people who are both true addicts AND have genuine medical conditions that legitimately require pain relief - hoo boy, that's a mess....!