Yes, and I am living proof that THEY are not 100% effective either!Alyrium Denryle wrote:There are these things, they are composed of latex, called condoms they come in both male and female varieties. If other forms of birth control are problematic, they have been shown to be very very effective at reducing the risk of pregnancy if used correctly, and wouldnt you know it, unlike some methods of hormonal birth control, they dont prevent implantation which alleviates some of her abortion anxiety.
Right - but you are ASSUMING that she was not practicing birth control when neither you nor I have any way of knowing those details of her private life.It is perfectly OK to be a bit touchy on the subject of reproduction. I am not going to get angry at you over this, as it is... inherently contentions and open to a lot of discussion. My thing is though, people in high risk categories for a wide variety of birth defects, should not be having kids, for the sake of said children.
I am no objections to risk management, what I'm objecting to is your kneejerk assumption that she got pregnant either deliberately or because she used no birth control whatsoever.There is the very real possibility that I am abnormally risk averse, comes with being in a high risk sexual category perhaps. Who knows?
But you have no evidence that she isn't using birth control. The fact she is NOT getting pregnant over and over like the quiverfuls would seem to indicate she does use some sort of birth control.But if a pattern of behavior can be established that points to the idea that she is an irresponsible person, then there are no excuses.
I am not disputing the poor wisdom of that sequence of events. In fact, I have mentioned it as a negative several times already. How does this support your assertion that she either got pregnant delibrately or stopped using birth control?Look at what she did when she had the kid... her water broke, she gave her speech anyway. Then flew back to alaska, and drove back to wasilla, when she was having a baby significantly prematurely. If she did prenatal testing and knew the kid was going to have downs, then that is an extra layer of irresponsible behavior. If she did not, it is still bad because she is in a high risk category and thus should have.
Are you saying the baby's father is somehow incapable of acting as parent? "Family" includes more than just the mother.Support this one will be at least somewhat deprived of during the min 4 years of moms vice presidency if she wins...Yes, Downs syndrome carries some nasty baggage, but that hardly means it's not a worthwhile life for those who live it, particularly with modern medicine and family support.
But, as I keep pointing out, no birth control is 100% perfect. When it fails, a person who is completely morally opposed to abortion will have that child regardless of defect found in that child.But still, we live in a society where we can, one way or another, control our reproduction. Is it responsible to knowingly put yourself in a position where the risk to your child becomes that high? Where they have a 5% chance of having a debilitating disorder? Bear in mind, I am a utilitarian and that determines my answer, which is no. (as utilitarianism forces me to maximize utility, not just...not...minimize it)
Unless you are insisting that she delibrately became pregnant I fail to see where she "put" herself in such a position.
My parents did not "put" themselves in position to conceive a child when my mother was more than 35 years old - AND she was known to have heart disease of a sort that would have permitted her to have an abortion in her state even pre Roe v. Wade as it posed a threat to her. They were using birth control, but it failed. And here I am. You act as if this sort of pregnancy is 100% avoidable and it is not.
Of course, back then there was no test for Downs pre-birth. You didn't find out until the child arrived. Apparently, some folks - even an atheist such as my mother (which she was and still is) - will take that 5% risk.
Yes, well, living with someone with a birth defect that, when it appears these days, parents are routinely counseled to abort also alters my perspective. My husband's disability impacts him every day of his life and also causes me some inconvenience. Nonetheless, I'm glad he's here and he isn't walking around wishing he'd never been born. He wishes he didn't have that particular problem, of course, but arguably he's had a better life than many of his physically normal relatives.Self reports are interesting that way. I hate to sound trite, but there are all manner of biases that could go into that which might nullify the results.People with disabilities consistently rate their "quality of life" higher than outside observers do. While I would not wish Down's syndrome on anyone, once that person is here I try to be optimistic that they will be one of the lucky ones until proven otherwise.
A lot depends on her church's stance, or her own (because people don't always follow church teachings, of course). Protestant Fundies tend to be much more open to birth control within the context of marriage than, say, Catholics. Quite a few of them are abstinence-only outside of marriage but have no problems with a married couple using birth control.I will wait to hear back on that. I would love to think it was a failure of birth control (it would restore some of my faith in humanity) but seeing as the chances are good that she opposes reproductive decision making.... I will partially abdicate my position and withhold judgementIt is more likely that she had a birth control failure than a deliberate pregnancy.
The spacing of her other children, and the gap between #4 and #5, would seem to indicate SOME sort of birth control. Thus, my inclination to think it's something along the lines of "the rubber broke".