Jub wrote: ↑2019-05-30 08:31pm
Broomstick wrote: ↑2019-05-30 08:23pmI never said it was
impossible, just that I had great reservations about it. Frankly, I have had some issues with how the Netherlands do things but it's not my country and I'll be the first to admit I don't have all the facts. How Luxenbourg goes about these things I have no idea. I am VERY concerned, however, that "option to die" can become "duty to die". I also don't like the notion of suicide on general principles. To me it's like cannibalism - there are some very limited and extreme circumstances where it can be justified/tolerated but it's never a
good thing (because if you've gotten to the point where that action is tolerable some really horrible things must have happened/be happening) and not at all something I want to become common.
I expect Canada will have it within the next 20 years, given how these social issues tend to go. Then the US will get it within 30 years of us getting it.
Wouldn't be too sure about the US - still lots of religious types who forbid suicide on religious grounds. I don't see that changing any time soon (although I've been wrong before). If it does exist it will most likely be only in certain states with the highly rural, highly religious "flyover" country still forbidding it. Federal law says nothing about this issue, it would be a state matter (as is most crime) and thus we'd have 50+ separate laws on it.
As for your duty to die comment, you'd have to prove that one to me. I doubt you're inclined to put in the effort required to prove your fears founded, so I'll agree to drop the subject if you'll agree that this is just one person's worries.
Mostly it's one person's worries, but it arises out of several things in my background. What follows is a dissertation length essay on where I'm coming from, if you care to read it. After which I'm done and we can agree to disagree.
First of all, in the 1930's Germany practiced involuntary euthanasia beginning with the handicapped then, as we all know, it was moved onto a massive scale. Of course, the motivations of that government were based in a very different set of goals than current advocates of assisted suicide for the terminally ill and/or hopeless crippled, the word "voluntary" being a key distinction, but what happened once before could happen again. Thus, part of my concern. Also the concern of many handicapped people who don't want to be murdered and have it labeled a mercy kill.
Second, I was married three decades to a man with a pretty significant birth defect. Granted, in his case is was on the more mild end of the spectrum, but you can imagine how he felt when people would say things like "I wouldn't want my child to live with that disorder - it's too painful and too limiting" when he's off running his own business, had traveled extensively, married, and
very much wanted to live despite, yes, chronic daily pain, suffering, and limitations. MANY people view the lives of the disabled as being more horrible than they really are. I fear a push, coming out of an altruistic but mistaken place, towards ending situations before a person really gets a chance to figure out whether the situation is tolerable or not, or to disbelieving that someone has adapted to a situation. Hearing people say "Well, I'd rather die than live like that!" when you yourself are living like that and OK with it is toxic at best. Too often I hear assisted suicide advocates talk as if their opinions on something are the only correct ones and those in those situations who are disagreeing with them are mistaken or somehow victims of ethics the advocates disagree with. Again, this is something many disabled people fear - that they will be subjected to "I'd rather die than be like you" and/or be pressured to give up deeply held beliefs that they should deal with their situation rather than kill themselves. It is NOT an irrational fear given the history of how society has dealt with the handicapped, from infanticide of defective infants to the Nazis to stories of doctors or nurses that
euthanize people against their will murder the patients they are supposed to be caring for.
Then there is the possibility that in a health care "system" like the US has there could be financial incentives for people to kill themselves rather than continue living or seek expensive treatments. Which is why I think the default decision should continue to be towards preserving life rather than ending. You have to make a case for suicide each and every time. You have to justify it each and every time.
Now, IF there was a system that very carefully determined that a person wishing voluntary suicide was of sufficient competence to make such a decision - which does not necessarily mean entirely sane or without some deficits, but there has to be some minimum - and truly was not pressured by any outside influence be that financial or social/family, that it was a decision that was not momentary or likely to change, then ... well, no, I'm not going to approve of it because I don't think suicide is a good thing, at best it would be the least evil thing... then it would be something tolerable.
I am aware that in localities where this is permitted there are people who sign up for the program, get a bottle of pills and instructions, and never use them at all, they wind up dying of natural causes. What they
really wanted there was not so much an instant end but a security that, if it DID get too bad they had an out, an option, and it was under their control. So, on that level I'm OK with it. It seems to be functioning as it should. I do view it as a necessary evil, and far preferable to alternatives where you have people attempting to kill themselves and botching the job, making things much worse for all concerned, or friends/relatives going to jail for murder, and the like. As I said, I don't approve of suicide but I disapprove
more of those alternatives.
But when you start involving not the ill/handicapped person in administering the means to the end but another human being I get nervous. If the person requesting suicide is the one to actually do the deed - swallow the pill, push the button, whatever - then yes, it was
voluntary. If someone else is doing the final act of killing the situation can get questionable.
Part of my thinking on this involves a victim of Dr. Jack Kevorkian. Unfortunately, due to US laws on medical confidentiality I am unable to provide supporting details. At the time I was working as a disability benefits administrator (basically, I made sure the people assigned to me got their monthly benefit and tried to resolve any issues that came up in that regard) and said person was on my caseload. I only ever dealt with the patient's spouse because the patient was completely disabled due to a deteriorating and eventually terminal condition. The patient was
unable to communicate. At all. And had been in that state for at least two years.
According to Dr. Kevorkian, the patient had given consent to be killed. Having had access to the person's medical records and history I can't possibly believe that. Either he lied, or he was delusional.
Mind you, I completely understand the distress of the spouse - after all, I had spoken with that person, listened to tears over the phone, tears of frustration and despair. I understand that
many people truly would not want to live in that state. Even back then I understood the physical, mental, emotional, and dare I say spiritual exhaustion involved in caring for a dying loved one, and I understand it on an even more visceral level now. But the patient concerned COULD NOT have given consent. It was impossible. If the person was still capable of consciousness at all the person still had no means to communicate with others.
Kevorkian said he had consent. He did not. He murdered that person, plain and simple. He didn't even have the decency to claim the
spouse gave consent, he claimed the patient did. He lied. He murdered. He was, eventually, convicted of murder and sent to jail, although it was not over the patient I had involvement with, it was because he had videotaped the death of someone else he killed.
Now, I am also fully aware that there will always be edge cases, exceptions. Those should go to a court of law to make a determination because that is the mechanism society has set up for that sort of decision making. As an example, in the 1970's when C. Everett Koop was asked to separate a dying set of conjoined twins and it was painfully apparent that in order to save even one of the two the other must die, and that the surgery would entail the deliberate killing of one human being to save another, Koop went to court BEFORE the surgery to resolve the legal issues involved. THAT is the proper way to resolve such an issue involving patients who can not give consent. Koop did get consent and himself severed the blood vessel connections between a shared heart that could support only one person and a little girl that only a few hours before had been a fully conscious and aware human being in an
attempt to save the life of her sister. I can't say that was a good thing, but it was an ethical thing and an example of how to make hard medical and end-of-life decisions.
A big difference is that Kevorkian acted alone. Koop pulled in all sorts of people to help in his decision making - hospital ethics committee, the courts, a rabbi or two (the family was Jewish)... One act was done in a furtive, secretive manner. The other was subject to the harsh light of society and law. If we're going to have physician assisted suicide it MUST involve multiple people and a LOT of scrutiny. Death is irreversible, we
have to be right if that's the path we want to take.
Now, I want to make clear my view on advance consent (yeah, I am long-winded). In the case of the patient I mentioned, the one both Kevorkian and I had some connection to, that person had never made clear their wants or intentions regarding end of life. Which is actually pretty typical. In such cases the decision making is then put on the head of the spouse (or other nearest next of kin if there is no spouse). But we're all human - absent other instruction the spouse is likely going to make assumptions based on what he or she would desire in similar circumstances which may or may not be congruent with what the patient would want. I know this from experience - my dying spouse was able to give me instructions before he became incapacitated, some of which differed from what I would have wanted. When the time came, even knowing what he wanted it was sometimes difficult for me to carry out those wishes where they clashed with what I would have wanted. If he had not given me those instructions I would have guessed wrong. I am uncomfortable with a spouse, absent other supporting evidence, advocating for euthanasia for that reason. Now, if a person had,
in advance specified that they would prefer euthanasia to a particular sort of existence, preferably in a legal document, then I could support it for that particular case, still subject to a proper ethical review. I mean, I don't agree with Jehovah's Witnesses' opposition to any and all blood transfusions, but I would not force one on an adult of that religion who had made his/her opposition to that treatment clear even if it meant the death of that person. I think it's wrong, but I think it would be even more wrong to usurp that person's decisions about their body.
But, again, it can't be spur of the moment. As an example, most people rendered quadriplegic go through a period of desiring death. In fact, it's so common a reaction that it's consider
abnormal not to have those thoughts upon such a devastating injury. It's a combination of shock, pain, a side effect of some of the drugs they give you to minimize further injury to nerves, and so forth. It's also not a time to kill people, even if they state they want it. Quite a few people get through that phase and wind up wanting to continue to live afterward, even with severe limitations. It's not until after the person heals from the acute injury and undergoes some rehabilitation that a decision can really be made, and even then only in a context where the person is able to receive adequate care and assistance in regards to living. People who are paralyzed from the neck down should have the opportunity to live meaningful lives. On the other hand, if such a person decides that no, it's still intolerable, that's a situation where assisted suicide might be an option, arguably
should be an option, but I've spoken long enough already on that.
I actually support ritualistic cannibalism in the societies that practice it. It can help people grieve and, risk of disease aside doesn't seem any worse than other ways of dealing with the dead.
The Fore tribe of New Guinea might disagree with you - the few that are left. Prion diseases are such a bitch and eating the dead is a good way to pass them on. Fortunately, with the end of cannibalistic funeral practices the final kuru infected individual is believed to have died in 2009 so we don't have to worry about that disease any more. But it very nearly wiped them out.
That said - I can't say I'm fond of the notion of eating the dead, but eating someone already dead is different than killing someone for the purpose of eating them. If it's a long-established funeral custom OK, sure - can't say I approve but it's not my culture. And there are people in the West who eat the cremated remains of loved ones in various ways, but again, that's different than killing someone with the intent to eat them. It's certainly not MY cup of tea, but I'll shut up around folks with customs I don't agree with so long as no one else it getting hurt.