People start for different reasons. My mom socially with a friend she worked with. My cousin in high school. My friend who didn't start in high school where most people usually do, but in the army where he used to see it all the time.Somehow, I knew this would come up sooner or later.
I speak as a former smoker. Not an ex-smoker, mind you - being an ex-smoker implies that the habit might start again in the future.
It was a chemical way for me to find solace, emotional support, and comfort when I wasn't able to give any of the above to myself.
Since I began taking Qigong nearly a year ago, I worked on replacing the reasons I smoke, one at a time, and replacing them directly with things that added to or enhanced my life, not poisoning and killing myself.
I began to drink good tea all the time to help me keep calm and at peace. I began to take walks and exercise to shed stress. I began to eat better, and more often.
Now, it's been nearly four months since I've left cigarettes in my past. I don't miss them or feel any inclination to go back - I happen to like breathing well.
For all other arguments on this topic, I'll quote a friend of mine: "Those who lack courage will always find a philosophy to justify it."
It is true though, it seems what is said about childrens parents who smoke. withm my Maternal side of the family, both my grandfather and grandmother smoked and all my aunts and uncles are current or former smokers. One of my aunt's quit because she refused to expose her children to it, my uncle just plain quit cold turkey, not sure why.
In Stark Contrast, my paternal side of the family, where neither my grandmother or grandfather smoked, NONE of my aunts or uncle smoke.........well, at least not cigarettes, some of my uncles on that side smoke cigars sometimes, and not as often as cigarette smokers smoke cigarettes, though two of my cousin's currently smoke cigarettes.
It seems what you did is rare. I usually hear that with former smokers (and former alcoholics) the need to get a drink or cigarette is very compelling far after they quit. One woman told me she had quit in 88 (this was in 94) and that she'd smoke tommorrow if she could.
Speaking of smoking in the military, I heard that half of marines smoke, couldn't this be quite a disadvantage in combat? Do half of the Chinese military smoke?[/quote]