Do very sexual women turn you off??

Post by **Darth Wong** » 2003-06-24 02:40am

Acacia wrote:Maybe not, but it may not be an accurate one. For example, I may be adventurous now, but when I am in a committed relationship I am completely faithful. Adventurous does not automatically mean lacking in morals, or an uncontrollable sexual acting out.

No it doesn't necessarily mean that, but it's certainly a possibility, and if a guy is interested in lowering risk factors, that's one of them. Just trying to explain why so many men prefer women who seem reasonably demure (but not overly so; I don't know a lot of guys who get hot for Amish women).

UltraViolence83 · Post by **UltraViolence83** » 2003-06-24 02:43am

I'm not one for casual sex or whoring. Although my stance becomes wobbly to nil depending on how drunk I am. Absolutely no self-control when plastered...Good thing I couldn't get laid even if I paid someone.

UltraViolence83 · Post by **UltraViolence83** » 2003-06-24 02:44am

Darth Wong wrote:No it doesn't necessarily mean that, but it's certainly a possibility, and if a guy is interested in lowering risk factors, that's one of them. Just trying to explain why so many men prefer women who seem reasonably demure (but not overly so; I don't know a lot of guys who get hot for Amish women).

I must confess that I have never seen nor heard of Amish fetish porn. This must be rather rare, then.

EDIT: Oops, I didn't see the "don't" in that sentence. Oh well.

Jabba the Hutt · Post by **Jabba the Hutt** » 2003-06-24 02:46am

Darth Wong wrote:
Acacia wrote:Maybe not, but it may not be an accurate one. For example, I may be adventurous now, but when I am in a committed relationship I am completely faithful. Adventurous does not automatically mean lacking in morals, or an uncontrollable sexual acting out.
No it doesn't necessarily mean that, but it's certainly a possibility, and if a guy is interested in lowering risk factors, that's one of them. Just trying to explain why so many men prefer women who seem reasonably demure (but not overly so; I don't know a lot of guys who get hot for Amish women).

If the Amish women look like Kelly McGillis from Witness, I don't blame the,

pellaeons_scion · Post by **pellaeons_scion** » 2003-06-24 02:47am

I must confess that I have never seen nor heard of Amish fetish porn. This must be rather rare, then.

However, in the vast and perverted world of the Internet, Im sure its out there somewhere....I just dont want to run into it. Id be scarred for life and have to tear out my eyes on principle

UltraViolence83 · Post by **UltraViolence83** » 2003-06-24 02:49am

I see Amish people about every week over here. I go out to eat and they show up. Hell, the one guy goes out for a cigarette smoke, even!

If I ever need a barn raised, they're the ones to call.

Acacia · Post by **Acacia** » 2003-06-24 02:52am

Darth Wong wrote:No it doesn't necessarily mean that, but it's certainly a possibility, and if a guy is interested in lowering risk factors, that's one of them. Just trying to explain why so many men prefer women who seem reasonably demure (but not overly so; I don't know a lot of guys who get hot for Amish women).

Yes, it's a possibility. My point is that this is not necessarily an accurate way to lower risk factors of sexual acting out in a committed relationship. I know of several women and men for that matter who had affairs out of curiousity because of lack of previous experience.

In my experience, the majority of affairs occured not for sexual motivations but for emotional ones, anyway. Probably this topic would be best served by it's own thread if it were to continue.

I do see where you are coming from, however, some men may avoid an adventurous woman because of an erroneous assumption that sexual freedom equals an inability to commit or control oneself.

Jabba the Hutt · Post by **Jabba the Hutt** » 2003-06-24 02:55am

I like women don't take everything I say seriously, women that can flirt without meaning anything by it, women who can fool around without looking like sluts, women who wear shiny metal bikinis.

Yes Lucas got the bill for my psychologist.

Arthur_Tuxedo · Post by **Arthur_Tuxedo** » 2003-06-24 03:26am

Acacia wrote:If a woman is sexually free and adventurous, does it turn you off? Do men really prefer the chaste type?

I know I tend to be somewhat aggressive sexually, am I setting myself up for disappointment by being so open with my desires and experiences?

Actually it's the opposite for me. Demure and/or submissive women are a turnoff.

Peregrin Toker · Post by **Peregrin Toker** » 2003-06-24 03:36am

Acacia wrote:If a woman is sexually free and adventurous, does it turn you off? Do men really prefer the chaste type?

I know I tend to be somewhat aggressive sexually, am I setting myself up for disappointment by being so open with my desires and experiences?

Personally, I don't care much. I have searched for a girlfriend without success in over half a year, so any personality type will do well for me - unless the girl in question happens to be really annoying and/or arrogant. In fact, I should consider myself lucky if a female of my age even listens to me in the first place.

Gil Hamilton · Post by **Gil Hamilton** » 2003-06-24 03:38am

Hrm... no sexually active girls don't turn me off, though I'm more the type that likes to drive the action, being the sort of gentleman that hits on anyone female, human, and with a pulse, in real life. Not that I'm not commited to my girlfriend, mind you, since I don't go beyond flirting, but it's sort of how I feel women out when getting to know them.

CaptainChewbacca · Post by **CaptainChewbacca** » 2003-06-24 03:40am

mmmmm... Amish girls... always tempting me with their ankles...

Acacia · Post by **Acacia** » 2003-06-24 03:43am

You misspelled "memoriam", Captain Chewbacca.

How adventurous and open are the males here? And how does it compare to what you expect from a woman?

Jabba the Hutt · Post by **Jabba the Hutt** » 2003-06-24 04:01am

Acacia wrote:You misspelled "memoriam", Captain Chewbacca.

How adventurous and open are the males here? And how does it compare to what you expect from a woman?

I'd say the population here ranges between sex-starved 14 year olds and 30ish year old anal sex freaks.

Stuart Mackey · Post by **Stuart Mackey** » 2003-06-24 04:04am

I wish I could find a woman like that..mind you in a relationship I would expect her to be free and open only with me...

Post by **The Yosemite Bear** » 2003-06-24 04:05am

Me I like "She who hunts" (clan of the cave bear refrence)

InnerBrat · Post by **InnerBrat** » 2003-06-24 04:11am

I've never encountered any problems with being an openly sexual woman - alhtough I am in a committed and monogamous long term relationship, so maybe it's my inaccessablilty that's working here.

Although, come to think of it, a lot of the guys with whom I talk frankly and openly about sex consider me one of the lads.

DPDarkPrimus · Post by **DPDarkPrimus** » 2003-06-24 06:50am

Shit, I know that this comment will probably lead to a split topic, but I can`t think of a better place to make it...

CC, do you honestly think that Storm Rucker deserves a "memorium"? What did he contribute to this website? Why should he be remembered for anything other than what he has shown himself to be, a lying, fallicous, obtuse man-child who thinks that calling someone potty names and making a fake account to mock them with on their own message board is both mature, and means that he won the "battle" he thinks he is waging with SD.net?

Post by **Edi** » 2003-06-24 07:42am

I don't mind a woman who isn't afraid of showing her sexuality, that doesn't automatically mean being a whore or being unable to commit to a relationship. I've had several female friends who were that way, not the least bit shy about who and what they were, and could be quite aggressive sexually if they wanted to. All of them were trustworthy too. I'd actually liked to have had a relationship with a number of them, but either they already were in one, or weren't interested.

It isn't difficult to spot the difference between that type of woman and the ones who really will spread them for anyone anytime anywhere. I've seen a couple of examples of that sort, urrrghh!

Edi

LordShaithis · Post by **LordShaithis** » 2003-06-24 07:59am

A purported female has arrived and brought up the topic of sex, but the males here have yet to fall drooling upon her in embarassing fashion.

I gape in awe.

Kudos to you, SD net geeks, for your restraint. lol

Robert Treder · Post by **Robert Treder** » 2003-06-24 08:08am

GrandAdmiralPrawn wrote:A purported female has arrived and brought up the topic of sex, but the males here have yet to fall drooling upon her in embarassing fashion.

I gape in awe.

Kudos to you, SD net geeks, for your restraint. lol

Yeah, maybe they finally realized that there're few things more pitiful than fawning over people on a message board who you'll likely never meet in person.

Tosho · Post by **Tosho** » 2003-06-24 08:15am

Mmm... Amish women.

j/k

Driven by curiousity I searched the internet and didn't find any amish porn. thank god.

Robert Treder · Post by **Robert Treder** » 2003-06-24 08:21am

Tosho wrote:Mmm... Amish women. j/k

Driven by curiousity I searched the internet and didn't find any amish porn. thank god.

Hm. I decided I'd try and show you up by finding some Amish porn, but I was stumped, too. Granted, I didn't look very hard. At all. But still, I guess there isn't much to be had.

Anybody ever seen Devil's Playground? It's a documentary about Amish teens who reach the age where they must choose whether or not to remain Amish, and they're given like a week to live un-Amish. They do drugs and fuck and stuff like that, and surprisingly, a lot of them decide to stay Amish. Stupid brainwashing.

Next of Kin · Post by **Next of Kin** » 2003-06-24 09:00am

Acacia wrote:If a woman is sexually free and adventurous, does it turn you off? Do men really prefer the chaste type?

Now that would depend. Are you the type that like to fool around with someone else in a relationship?

...am I setting myself up for disappointment by being so open with my desires and experiences?

That all depends on what you are looking for. What do you want in guy? Do you want some pretty boy who glosses over his hair or do you prefer the big, bad biker straight out of zz-top?

Durandal · Post by **Durandal** » 2003-06-24 09:37am

If anything, I prefer a sexually open woman. Honestly, in a society where men and women play stupid relationship games, it's nice to meet someone who is up front and confident about her sexuality and intentions.

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