StarDestroyer.Net BBS

would you cheat in a romance if you thot you could get away with it? assume you would never ever be caught.

me, I wouldn't. I prefer to break up instead.

You know, I thought this was the same one, and that you had simply mispelled paper when you meant partner. Stoopid me.

again, no. really no, this time. If I wanted to sleep with other people, I'd be in an open relationship

no.

on a side note, is cybersex cheating? i mean i think it is, because someone else is getting you off...even though you are doing it yourself.. ..or something.

Col. Crackpot wrote:no.

on a side note, is cybersex cheating? i mean i think it is, because someone else is getting you off...even though you are doing it yourself.. ..or something.

You're getting of on what someone wrote, so, is readin erotic fiction/porn cheating?

On the other hand, if there' an emotional attchment as well, then it's cheating emotionally (which I think is more important, anyway)

innerbrat wrote:

Col. Crackpot wrote:no.

on a side note, is cybersex cheating? i mean i think it is, because someone else is getting you off...even though you are doing it yourself.. ..or something.

You're getting of on what someone wrote, so, is readin erotic fiction/porn cheating?

On the other hand, if there' an emotional attchment as well, then it's cheating emotionally (which I think is more important, anyway)

That is it exactly. it is an intimate emotional contact with another person, albeit in the form of an instant message. i don't get why people don't understand that, and default to the logic of 'how can it be cheating? i'm typing!'

Col. Crackpot wrote: That is it exactly. it is an intimate emotional contact with another person, albeit in the form of an instant message. i don't get why people don't understand that, and default to the logic of 'how can it be cheating? i'm typing!'

But it's not always emotional. Sometimes it's just getting off on what someone else has written (and what you've written).
Only when it's part of a serious emotional affair is it cheating.

innerbrat wrote:

Col. Crackpot wrote: That is it exactly. it is an intimate emotional contact with another person, albeit in the form of an instant message. i don't get why people don't understand that, and default to the logic of 'how can it be cheating? i'm typing!'

But it's not always emotional. Sometimes it's just getting off on what someone else has written (and what you've written).
Only when it's part of a serious emotional affair is it cheating.

so by that logic, if you have no emotional feeling for someone (love, caring, affection, whatever) but you have sex for the sole purpose of satisfying your physical sexual needs, it's not cheating. i don't know if i buy into that.

Col. Crackpot wrote: so by that logic, if you have no emotional feeling for someone (love, caring, affection, whatever) but you have sex for the sole purpose of satisfying your physical sexual needs, it's not cheating. i don't know if i buy into that.

I refer you back to the cheating (forgiveness) thread where I declared "it's only sex, for Bob's sake"
Not that I go around having meaningless sex while I'm in a relationship, but I'd consider it an insult if I wasn't fulfilling my partner's sexual needs.

Hang on, let me put it this way - if your partner considers it cheating, then it's cheating.
If you've lied to your partner, then it's cheating.
If your partner knows about it, and has no problems with it, it's not cheating.

Col. Crackpot wrote:no.

on a side note, is cybersex cheating? i mean i think it is, because someone else is getting you off...even though you are doing it yourself.. ..or something.

I treat it as such, cuz its interaction on intimate levels. reading erotica on the other hand, is just reading.

Enforcer Talen wrote: would you cheat in a romance if you thot you could get away with it? assume you would never ever be caught.

Nope

No, I wouldn't. Because even if they never knew I would and it woulldn't be right and I'd know it.

Why would I want to do that? If there's something missing in my marriage, I'll talk to my wife about it.

Well, I wouldn't cheat:

a) Because I love my g/f a lot. Like more than a whole fucking bunch.

b) The sex is fucking great.


And I might cheat if presented with Jessica Alba, Denise Richards, Kate Winslet and about 20 other insanely beautiful women all naked and prepared to be involved in a huge bi-sexual extravaganza. And even then, I'd call up my g/f and ask if a) she wanted to come along and b) whether or not I could get started without her. However the likelihood of this ever happening is so remote that I can pretty much eliminate the possibility. And as such, I would not cheat.

No, haven't done, won't do it.

If I'm unhappy in something in the relationship, I'll talk about it.

weemadando wrote:Well, I wouldn't cheat:

a) Because I love my g/f a lot. Like more than a whole fucking bunch.

b) The sex is fucking great.


And I might cheat if presented with Jessica Alba, Denise Richards, Kate Winslet and about 20 other insanely beautiful women all naked and prepared to be involved in a huge bi-sexual extravaganza. And even then, I'd call up my g/f and ask if a) she wanted to come along and b) whether or not I could get started without her. However the likelihood of this ever happening is so remote that I can pretty much eliminate the possibility. And as such, I would not cheat.

Ando, i think you speak to the 13 year old boy in all of us with that post....oh fuck, i gotta run to the...um...bathroom. yeah thats right, the bathroom.

In a word.
No.

weemadando wrote:Well, I wouldn't cheat:

a) Because I love my g/f a lot. Like more than a whole fucking bunch.

b) The sex is fucking great.


And I might cheat if presented with Jessica Alba, Denise Richards, Kate Winslet and about 20 other insanely beautiful women all naked and prepared to be involved in a huge bi-sexual extravaganza. And even then, I'd call up my g/f and ask if a) she wanted to come along and b) whether or not I could get started without her. However the likelihood of this ever happening is so remote that I can pretty much eliminate the possibility. And as such, I would not cheat.

Awwww.

I wouldn't cheat either, for the record. The only way I'd have sexual relations with someone other than my man would be if he was included in some group thing, like what Ando was describing. I wouldn't do it without him, so there would be no cheating-type activity.

Zaia wrote:

weemadando wrote:Well, I wouldn't cheat:

a) Because I love my g/f a lot. Like more than a whole fucking bunch.

b) The sex is fucking great.


And I might cheat if presented with Jessica Alba, Denise Richards, Kate Winslet and about 20 other insanely beautiful women all naked and prepared to be involved in a huge bi-sexual extravaganza. And even then, I'd call up my g/f and ask if a) she wanted to come along and b) whether or not I could get started without her. However the likelihood of this ever happening is so remote that I can pretty much eliminate the possibility. And as such, I would not cheat.

Awwww.

I wouldn't cheat either, for the record. The only way I'd have sexual relations with someone other than my man would be if he was included in some group thing, like what Ando was describing. I wouldn't do it without him, so there would be no cheating-type activity.

note to self: zaia open to threesomes

My last g\f cheated on me. The way it made me feel will make me never to cause that pain to anyone. I will never cheat!

No, I wouldn't.

Not a chance. I may flirt online, but I'd rather swim naked through a sea of HCl than hurt Betsy.

No, never, not a chance.

I'm considered to be nieve when it comes to relationships so my opinion my not count for much. I can count my serious physical relationships on one hand. However i consider cheating cold, nasty and selfish. There are so many people in the world like me who want to find someone so bad every day hurts a little more. And then i see assholes stringing 2 or 3 girls at one time and it makes me sick. The bottom line is cheating on your partner is just being a plain greedy fucker.

see, I flirt all the time, but would feel guilty bout doing anymore. course, Im not with anyone at the moment, which means free cuddles with random girls are completely ok. ^^