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As much as this is gonna suck, your gonna have to let her go. If she really wants to go there's nothing you can do about it, but what you can decide is how it ends. Just enjoy the remaining time you have with her.

I have entered a rather new relationship, which it has been going on for about 2 months. In this time we have fallen in love, worked through alot of weird issues. Right now she is going through a bad time in her life, and she pretty much has said to me that I am the best thing she has here, and she does love me. Then recently she got in contact with an old friend (which happens to be an ex) who now lives in Missouri (I live in California for the record), and he found her a job and an appartment in Missouri. It is almost a dream job for her working for a Multiple Sclerosis foundation (she has MS and lost some one close to her to a genetic disorder related to MS). It took her alittle more than a week to decided to leave. I have asked her not to leave as selfish as it maybe, she said she was still leaving (This was over tears), and of course I am hurt. So right now I am in a total state of confusion. Right now I have not talked to her since she told me, I need some opinions on what to do. Should I just cut her off and let her go? Should I try and be friends with her and support her which I most likely will never get over her? Should I do the whole romantic movie thing and wait for her at the bus station and ask her to stay one last time? Should I fly to Missouri and kick the guys ass and fly home with her (I don't think I have the money to do that one, as much as I would like to)?

She leaves in about a week.