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what does it mean when a female says she loves and cant talk to you cause she is confused as to her feelings then when you do talk to her two days later she says "oops i forgot to tell you i am now dating this guy i just met"

That's a cop out. You don't forget about people that you care about or are interested in.

Means one of two things:

1) She really is a confused bubblehead with the memory retention of Dory from Finding Nemo

2) (more likely) She isn't confused at all, she wants to dump you, but she's

...a) too chickenshit to tell you directly
...b) wants you to do the breaking up, so you're the bad guy
...c) has some fucked up notion about "nice girls" not saying things to disturb someone or possibly cause confrontation (but apparently acting like an asshat is OK)
...d) a self-centered bitch who doesn't care about your feelings
...e) some combination of a through d

Is this chick really a loss? Find someone of better quality to spend time with.

Most people have been through that crap at least once.

Best to let it slide as she is someone who can't come out and tell anyone straight up yes or no. And yes it has happened to me. Fuck 'em. Their loss. I know I have better people to waste my time on.

Look man, she's not interested in you. Get a new chick.

Superman wrote:Look man, she's not interested in you. Get a new chick.

ah the bluntness of superman

mantakai wrote:what does it mean when a female says she loves and cant talk to you cause she is confused as to her feelings then when you do talk to her two days later she says "oops i forgot to tell you i am now dating this guy i just met"

Two possibilities:

1) It's her way of ditching you.

2) She's that fucking stupid

No good can come of either.

You know what's funny? If girls are not 100% clear about everything, then guys are like 'yes but what do you mean?' A girl could say, "...I just don't think we have a future together" and the guy would be like "so does that mean we are still together now..." We guys are like the stray dog that comes around. If you feed it ANYTHING AT ALL, it will just keep coming back.

That, and the fact that we're awfully obedient to our feeder ¬_¬

Female advice: dump her. Like everyone else was saying, she's either pussyfooting around the issue or a complete idiot.

Is it just me, or are a lot of girls taught to be indecisive or act that way? I had a lot of problems understanding girls at school because they were always pulling crap like that, not just in romantic issues either.

Me: "Hey, joining marching band again next year?"
Girl: "Oh, I don't know."
Me: "What do you mean, you don't know? You DID like it, didn't you? It always seemed you enjoyed it."
Girl: "Well yes, but...I don't know."
Me: "What, were you faking it or something? We always have a great time."
Girl: "I don't know what I think. Maybe I feel like I don't really want to."
Me:
And then we lost the first chair clarinet.

I wasn't brought up that way, so I never understood it. People confuse me.

Girls are better at reading between the lines. In fact, they SPEAK between the lines. The mistake that they make is assuming that guys do this as well.

Superman wrote:Girls are better at reading between the lines. In fact, they SPEAK between the lines. The mistake that they make is assuming that guys do this as well.

Interesting. Something to remember...

mantakai wrote:what does it mean when a female says she loves and cant talk to you cause she is confused as to her feelings then when you do talk to her two days later she says "oops i forgot to tell you i am now dating this guy i just met"

It means she's been brainwashed from reading too many female lifestyle magazines such as Cosmo. Those things make girls into airheads and give them severely distorted views on relationships and body image. Either that or she's just severely misguided and doesn't know what she wants. It's sad seeing these people, they give females a bad rep.

mantakai wrote:what does it mean when a female says she loves and cant talk to you cause she is confused as to her feelings then when you do talk to her two days later she says "oops i forgot to tell you i am now dating this guy i just met"

It means she's a filthy ho-bag.

Queeb Salaron wrote:

mantakai wrote:what does it mean when a female says she loves and cant talk to you cause she is confused as to her feelings then when you do talk to her two days later she says "oops i forgot to tell you i am now dating this guy i just met"

It means she's a filthy ho-bag.

Ah Queeb, Queeb, Queeb...where would we be without you?

Illuminatus Primus wrote:Ah Queeb, Queeb, Queeb...where would we be without you?

I think Newsweek said that you'd be a far more advanced species if it weren't for me.

But hey, who needs advancement when you've got bad comedy?

I don't know. Where were we for all that time he was gone? Oh wait, I know. Being the scum of the universe.

Superman wrote:Girls are better at reading between the lines. In fact, they SPEAK between the lines. The mistake that they make is assuming that guys do this as well.

The reason why men and women have such trouble communicating is because of the complex versus the simple.

Women are complex creatures. Complex thoughts that run everywhere, complex words that come out one way, and mean something totally different, and complex actions that are totally different from the thoughts and words.

As for men, however, we're pretty simple. Ask us what we're thinking, and we'll say "nothing" and mean it. It doesn't take much to please us, and we could give a rats ass about most things.

So, the best way to interpret what women say is to ignore everything except the last statement out of their mouths, because that's the one that's usually true.

Of course, I'm currently single, so my advice is suspect...

Captain_Cyran wrote:Her: I think I need to find dumber friends.[/i]

Well, she's got her work cut out for her.

Hehehe.

Kuja wrote:

Captain_Cyran wrote:Her: I think I need to find dumber friends.[/i]

Well, she's got her work cut out for her.

Hehehe.

And here everyone was expecting another post of Kuja's going through his extensive sex life with random chicks in random places.

*thinks* Wait... work cut out for her to find dumber friends. Doesn't that mean that I'm smart and that there is a severe lack of dumb people in my area?

Captain_Cyran wrote:*thinks* Wait... work cut out for her to find dumber friends. Doesn't that mean that I'm smart and that there is a severe lack of dumb people in my area?[/i]

No. It means there aren't many people dumber than you.

C'mon. Even I got that one.

Queeb Salaron wrote:

Captain_Cyran wrote:*thinks* Wait... work cut out for her to find dumber friends. Doesn't that mean that I'm smart and that there is a severe lack of dumb people in my area?[/i]

No. It means there aren't many people dumber than you.

C'mon. Even I got that one.

Wow I can't believe I missed that one...

*goes off to sulk at being a total dumbass.*

ok i only read teh first few posts and i feel i should clarrify some things, we arent even dating she is like my best friend from school and we have been mates for two years and whatnot.

Could just mean she worked out that she only loves you like a friend, and therefore is open to going out with some other guy.