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How do you like to be treated?

Posted: 2004-02-08 11:04am
by Rainfall
I think most PEOPLE (men and women) like to be treated like shit. I think this way because the times i have been nice and devoted i have been shit on, the times I have been a bitch they kiss my ass on a permanent basis.
However when it comes to commitment...ladies want to commit and guys want to keep living la vida loca!

Re: HOW DO YOU LIKE TO BE TREATED?

Posted: 2004-02-08 11:11am
by Rye
Rainfall wrote:I think most PEOPLE (men and women) like to be treated like shit. I think this way because the times i have been nice and devoted i have been shit on, the times I have been a bitch they kiss my ass on a permanent basis.
It depends on what they want from me. Bitchiness pisses me off after a bit, and i'm more easily manipulated when they're nice to me.
However when it comes to commitment...ladies want to commit and guys want to keep living la vida loca!
Bit of a generalisation, but an understandable one. I get bored after like a month at the most. I'd prefer just to be sociable with many hot women and have sex as an aside.

Posted: 2004-02-08 11:53am
by Demiurge
Sounds more like two distinct groups. The shitters, and te shitees. Better to be the former. Idealy, there would be no excrement involved.

Also, no caps lock.

Posted: 2004-02-08 02:46pm
by Metatwaddle
I don't trust people easily in relationships. I don't get emotionally attached easily. Maybe it's just that I haven't met The One yet, but I'm just not all that receptive to getting "treated badly."

Anyway, I like to be given plenty of space and retain my independence. Someone who wants to treat his girlfriend like shit will look elsewhere, because I'd rather be in no relationship than a bad one.

Posted: 2004-02-08 04:12pm
by Pablo Sanchez
Writing thread titles in ALL CAPS is discouraged in the strongest terms. I fixed it for you this time.

Posted: 2004-02-08 05:54pm
by Lord Pounder
In answer to the question about relationships, there might be the posability of a relationship in my future. I sure want one, but for the exact reason that i want one means i shoudn't have one.

I disagree that people want to be treated like shit. There's no like about it. It's just that some people are so needy that they allow themselves to be treated like dirt. There's also the question of what kind of men and/or women you date.

Posted: 2004-02-08 06:02pm
by Lt. Dan
I'm working on one. She wants me 8) .

Oh and I don't like being teated like shit. It pisses me off. I don't act like an ass to people I like, so why should they do it to me?

Posted: 2004-02-08 06:41pm
by Dahak
You can't generalize all people like that.
Everyone is unique in that regard.

And treating people like shit is shit.

Posted: 2004-02-08 06:44pm
by Faram
I think we have found a new poll spammer!

Anyways what Dahak said.

Posted: 2004-02-08 06:57pm
by Alyrium Denryle
I hope so. But there is a problem when Probability IS A CRACK ADDICTED GUTTER SLUT OF A WOMAN! And I dont want to put the person(who happens to have been one of my close friends for a number of years) on the spot by asking a question he may not be ready to answer.

Id: GO FOR IT NOW!!!!

Superego: NO! You cant do that, if you have a chance, he will let you know when he is ready!

Ego: I hate you both sooo much, But I have to side with Superego on this one... Sorry Id

Needless to say, I am the shitee(he doesnt do it on purpose though) and I am perfectly willing to commit to one person who I deam worthy.

Re: How do you like to be treated?

Posted: 2004-02-08 07:09pm
by jenat-lai
Rainfall wrote:I think most PEOPLE (men and women) like to be treated like shit. I think this way because the times i have been nice and devoted i have been shit on, the times I have been a bitch they kiss my ass on a permanent basis.
However when it comes to commitment...ladies want to commit and guys want to keep living la vida loca!
let me guess, your a pissed off girl.

My experience as a male has been the opposite so far. I want the commitment, the girls keep flitting around with other random boys. Often getting sex along with their flitting.

Posted: 2004-02-08 09:45pm
by Mlenk
I just got out of a serious relationship a month ago so NO, I don't see one for me in the near future.

Posted: 2004-02-08 10:00pm
by Anarchist Bunny
I got out of a relationship a few weeks back*Read, dumped*, but it wasn't serious(to her atleast). Still not sure what happened, I heard from a mutual friend that she fell for another guy, but apparently the same day she turned him down, so there is something missing still.

But unless anything comes through with this chick at my School MTV is doing a reality show on, I don't see myself being in a relationship any time soon.

And about the commitment thing, me and my friend are perfect examples about how thats not completely true. She just sleeps around with anything that moves(women too, and she tries to believe that she's a perfect fundamental christian girl) she's tried to be in a serious relationship, but cut it off cause she was too hot for several other men, and I want a relationship.

Posted: 2004-02-08 10:11pm
by beyond hope
That's just so true... I know I, for one, enjoy being whipped, beaten, and poked with sharp sticks by my girlfriend.

*wipes dripping sarcasm off keyboard*

Posted: 2004-02-08 10:22pm
by Slartibartfast
I don't like to be treated like shit. I like girls to be nice to me, and if they even hint at treating me like shit then it's buh-bye bitch. Yo.

Posted: 2004-02-09 12:46am
by Kuja
Rainfall wrote:However when it comes to commitment...ladies want to commit and guys want to keep living la vida loca!
Girls like that scare me. I mean, I know 18/19year-olds who want to get MARRIED! :shock:

I just can't understand that.

Posted: 2004-02-09 12:53am
by Enigma
Demiurge wrote:Sounds more like two distinct groups. The shitters, and te shitees. Better to be the former. Idealy, there would be no excrement involved.
*Ideally*. But it would be fun if crap was involved.

Posted: 2004-02-09 02:03pm
by LadyTevar
Welll, geee... I think getting married in two months is a 'Serious Relationship', don't you? :lol:

Re: How do you like to be treated?

Posted: 2004-02-09 02:07pm
by Knife
Rainfall wrote:I think most PEOPLE (men and women) like to be treated like shit. I think this way because the times i have been nice and devoted i have been shit on, the times I have been a bitch they kiss my ass on a permanent basis.
However when it comes to commitment...ladies want to commit and guys want to keep living la vida loca!
Ah, to be young again. :wink:

Posted: 2004-02-09 03:08pm
by Lord Pounder
I consider it a gross generalisation to say all women want tro settle down while men just wanna fuck arround. My problem is that in previous relationships it's been quite the opposite.

Posted: 2004-02-10 12:14am
by baelfire1945
I try to be as nice and polite and reasonable with girls as I can, and in return I expect them to not be bitches to me. Now if only I could make that happen with someone who both wants me and is willing to be with me. . .

Posted: 2004-02-10 12:27am
by Nathan F
As to the question if whether or not a serious relationship is in my future: I don't know.

I'm trying for a few ladies, and it'll depend on my success with one of them for the immediate future.

Posted: 2004-02-10 01:27am
by aphexmonster
I want a long term relationship, but girls dont like me

Posted: 2004-02-10 01:28am
by Spanky The Dolphin
Kuja wrote:
Rainfall wrote:However when it comes to commitment...ladies want to commit and guys want to keep living la vida loca!
Girls like that scare me. I mean, I know 18/19year-olds who want to get MARRIED! :shock:

I just can't understand that.
Mind sending some of them over my way? :mrgreen:

Posted: 2004-02-10 01:53am
by Kuja
Spanky The Dolphin wrote:
Kuja wrote:Girls like that scare me. I mean, I know 18/19year-olds who want to get MARRIED! :shock:

I just can't understand that.
Mind sending some of them over my way? :mrgreen:
You don't want to know them. Trust me.