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Ok, for all you legends of loving on ess dee net, those of you lucky enough to have had perverted girlfriends in the past; tell me, what were common themes in their personalities?

For instance, were the very bubbly ones hardly perverse at all in comparison to laid back cynical types?

Were the flirtacious more perverse than the more subdued and less socially active?

Were there clues to her perversions along the way, or did they only come out when you were about to "do it"?

Are certain personality traits indicative of specific fetishes? Share your lore ,knowledge an experience, please. So i can compare them to some real-life possibilities.

The only common theme I found amongst the past kinkest girlfriends was independence.

Literally they enjoyed both taking control and being controlled.

The mousy ones had definitve perversions but the independent ones were usually more fierce.

My last girlfriend was a Sadomachicost, and uh, she was short and lied a lot. Like, a whole lot.

Rye, how would you describe yourself?

This is a completely unrelated question, mind you.

From my point of view: Fear the quiet ones. Out of all my GF's the ones that were the kinkiest or most perverse were the ones you'd least expect it from. Quiet, studious, intelligent, usually religious christian girls were the ones that taught me a trick or two. The louder, outgoing party girls, though they talked big, didnt hold a candle to them

Geek Grrls forever!

Ghost Rider wrote:The only common theme I found amongst the past kinkest girlfriends was independence.

Literally they enjoyed both taking control and being controlled.

Switches? Hurrah! Let's hear it for switches!!

switches as in that thing you beat people with? or just the idea of role reversal?

Ghost Rider wrote:The only common theme I found amongst the past kinkest girlfriends was independence.

Yup, and in my case they all wore glasses.

Definitely agree that the party girls tend to be very vanilla, while the more subdued-seeming girls are more perverse in my experience. I had one girlfriend who blushed at the mention of sex, would never talk about it and yelled at me for talking about shaving, but always wanted to fuck in extremely public places (telephone booths, subways, Central Park)

I also have two sadomasochist friends who are compulsive liars, like Anarchist Bunny.

up, and in my case they all wore glasses.

Heh, girls with glasses rock. I dunno what it is, but it just goes along with my idea of the quiet ones being the ones that are the most 'enjoyable'. These generally are the girls that arnt the knockout lookers, but can grab your mind and twist it in pleasant ways. And that transfers to the bedroom...or bathroom...or library...actually anywhere that the feel is appropriate

Oh and in keeping with SD.net tradition, they have been the ones to a)swallow and b) ask to be taken anally.

Beware the quiet ones!

As it been said the loud hip party girl is (as a rule of thumb) going to be the vanilla one, while the quiet girl with glasses and a copy of Kant's "Prolegomena to any Future Metaphysics" in front of her is the one that will end up blowing you in the Student Union bathroom while slipping two fingers up your ass for a prostate 'tickle'...........

Three cheers for the Geek Grrl Freek !!

*oorah oorah oorah*

On the sadomachistic liars, I had one GF like that...one always wondered if she knew what the truth was at all...

Go geek chicks! Geek chicks rule!

DPDarkPrimus wrote:Rye, how would you describe yourself?

This is a completely unrelated question, mind you.

Hardly anyone acts like me, and i'm male so I didn't think I'd be a good test subject. To answer your question, people tell me I'm "intelligent and eccentric" but in addition to those i'm also quite quiet. The quietness i'm not sure if it will be a hinter or not.

The snm / lying correlation seems to be a big one. Shall have to look out for that.

I'm a bit pervy and I'm not a compulsive liar.

i 'dated' a girl who ended up being a Rhodes Scholar. quiet, studious (obviously) and shy, but a freak when behind closed doors.

Rye wrote:Ok, for all you legends of loving on ess dee net, those of you lucky enough to have had perverted girlfriends in the past; tell me, what were common themes in their personalities?

They were usually more shy to meet people, but once talking they were less shy about sex and related topics. They swear openly (once you know them), etc.

For instance, were the very bubbly ones hardly perverse at all in comparison to laid back cynical types?

In my experience they were likely to be somewhere between. I've known some bubbly-innocent christian girls who go on and on about anal sex once you get to know them, and I've known cynical, nothing-phases-me girls who were afraid of sex. Actually, quite a few of the latter.

And of course, I've known bubbly and cynical girls who fit your pigeonholes for them.

Were the flirtacious more perverse than the more subdued and less socially active?

Quite the opposite. Almost all of the really flirtatious girls I knew were nothing more than teases, or had some need for attention that didn't require them to get freaky. They usually more about towing a line than fingering a booty.
OTOH, I did know two or three girls who were obviously acting out on some kind of childhood trauma, but they were flirtatious in a very different, desperate way. But they tended to have one nasty fixation (like being the "victim" or the dominator), and weren't too perverse in other areas.. Not that I ever tested that out personally. I always tried to avoid girls with issues.

Were there clues to her perversions along the way, or did they only come out when you were about to "do it"?

They tend to be more open about it, but that's not a definite sign. They'll probably talk more about sex or make more aggressive moves earlier in the relationship, since girls with sex perversions are enjoying the sex.

Are certain personality traits indicative of specific fetishes? Share your lore ,knowledge an experience, please. So i can compare them to some real-life possibilities.

I never put that kind of analysis into it... I'll have to think about it.

It's always the quiet innocent looking ones, the best example I know being my BF. Let's face it, no offence to him but he looks like a dork, cute & lovable but still dorky. But behind that innocent looking facade lies the dirtiest mind by far that I've ever come across, I don't think he thinks of anything other than sex and porn, and he's taught me more about both than I ever thought possible.

jmac wrote: don't think he thinks of anything other than sex and porn

That's not as uncommon as you think.

Zaia wrote:I'm a bit pervy and I'm not a compulsive liar.

Nobody said that you are (a compulsive liar), unless by "a bit pervy" you meant "a sadomasochist".

Lets see, I've run into a lot of masochists, a LOT of them really...I think it's the fangs that tend to attract them to be honest. Other than that common thread I cant think of anything much...

Lord of the Farce wrote:

Zaia wrote:I'm a bit pervy and I'm not a compulsive liar.

Nobody said that you are (a compulsive liar), unless by "a bit pervy" you meant "a sadomasochist".

No, I was just a little uncomfortable with the generalizations...I don't mind being pervy at all, but I sure as heck ain't no liar.

The best way to figure it out is to look how the person spends there energy socially.

Most 'geek' girls tend to be fairly quiet and reserved socially, right?
They need some way to release all that pent up energy.
They release it in kinky sex ways

Most party girls tend to be outgoing, energetic, whirlwinds, right?
NO need to release all that extra energy, as they dont' have it.
So, they are less kinky, and more 'just enjoy it'

There are off course exceptions to this, and other little tells.

I've also found that intelligence is a good indicator, coupled with intelligence.

The kinkyiest girls I know of were quiest, reserved if friendly, intelligent and independent of needing others.

Solauren wrote:The kinkyiest girls I know of were quiest, reserved if friendly, intelligent and independent of needing others.

ok so

Quiet - Check
Reserved but friendly - Check
Intelligent - Check
Independant of needing others - Check


Ok, looks like my girls just about perfect then

oh yeh and multiorgasmic squirter - check.

Solauren wrote:The best way to figure it out is to look how the person spends there energy socially.

Most 'geek' girls tend to be fairly quiet and reserved socially, right?
They need some way to release all that pent up energy.
They release it in kinky sex ways

Most party girls tend to be outgoing, energetic, whirlwinds, right?
NO need to release all that extra energy, as they dont' have it.
So, they are less kinky, and more 'just enjoy it'

There are off course exceptions to this, and other little tells.

I've also found that intelligence is a good indicator, coupled with intelligence.

The kinkyiest girls I know of were quiest, reserved if friendly, intelligent and independent of needing others.

OK, I'm geeky, outgoing, energetic, whirlwindy, intelligent, poingy, and pervy as hell.

But I don't have barriers between my sex life and non-sex life, which is why I've slept with most of my friends.