QUIT SPEAKING FOR ME!!!

Kelly Antilles · Post by **Kelly Antilles** » 2002-11-23 11:18pm

Ok, that's it. I'm sick and tired of everyone speaking for me.

NOBODY has approached me to be a Mod.

Bean has NEVER EVER pm'd me.

And PRIVATE MESSAGE means just that. PRIVATE
When I fucking talk to you about something private in a PM (or ICQ or AIM), I EXPECT IT TO REMAIN PRIVATE! I am talking to you and only you and it should remain in your confidence.

AND ANOTHER THING: Don't fucking talk about me and not give me a chance to defend myself before coming to a conclusion and locking a fucking thread.

LordShaithis · Post by **LordShaithis** » 2002-11-23 11:21pm

Hi! I have no idea what this is about!

David · Post by **David** » 2002-11-23 11:22pm

She is right, private messages should only be revieled when the messages are harassing another member.

Stormbringer · Post by **Stormbringer** » 2002-11-23 11:22pm

GrandAdmiralPrawn wrote:Hi! I have no idea what this is about!

Shut the fuck up you little jackass!

HemlockGrey · Post by **HemlockGrey** » 2002-11-23 11:23pm

...ah...

I think somebody deserves a slap in the face.

Post by **Vympel** » 2002-11-23 11:35pm

Shows a distinct lack of common courtesy methinks.

Post by **Sea Skimmer** » 2002-11-23 11:36pm

She's right on all counts. People are treating Kelly like shit and don’t know it. While no one seems to mean any real harm a lot of people here are getting just obsessive.

Post by **Vympel** » 2002-11-23 11:39pm

I don't understand this obsession. Zaia and the Duchess of Zeon are girls and noone obsesses over them, so it can't be a question of gender. Because of the porno fanfic?

*shrug*

Kelly Antilles · Post by **Kelly Antilles** » 2002-11-23 11:43pm

If you read this locked thread, you may understand why I'm so upset.
http://bbs.stardestroyer.net/viewtopic.php?t=6613

However, it's not the obsession. That has nothing to do with anything. What it has to do with is that nobody respects privacy anymore.

Post by **Vympel** » 2002-11-23 11:46pm

Kelly Antilles wrote:If you read this locked thread, you may understand why I'm so upset.
http://bbs.stardestroyer.net/viewtopic.php?t=6613

However, it's not the obsession. That has nothing to do with anything. What it has to do with is that nobody respects privacy anymore.

Ah k, misunderstood.

Post by **Sea Skimmer** » 2002-11-23 11:49pm

Kelly Antilles wrote:If you read this locked thread, you may understand why I'm so upset.
http://bbs.stardestroyer.net/viewtopic.php?t=6613

However, it's not the obsession. That has nothing to do with anything. What it has to do with is that nobody respects privacy anymore.

If you don't think it the case then its not an issue, but it seemd to me that some people get obsessive over you at times.

Howedar · Post by **Howedar** » 2002-11-23 11:59pm

Meaning no disrespect to Kelly, what makes her so dang important?

Stormbringer · Post by **Stormbringer** » 2002-11-24 12:00am

Howedar wrote:Meaning no disrespect to Kelly, what makes her so dang important?

There was a thread about making her a mod and several of us answered for her, ending the thread before she ever got a response.

Raptor 597 · Post by **Raptor 597** » 2002-11-24 12:27am

Stormbringer wrote:
Howedar wrote:Meaning no disrespect to Kelly, what makes her so dang important?
There was a thread about making her a mod and several of us answered for her, ending the thread before she ever got a response.

Not it's been on long before, why I can't figure out.

Master of Ossus · Post by **Master of Ossus** » 2002-11-24 12:29am

Kelly, I'm sorry that I closed the thread before you got to say anything. I assumed that we had solved the mystery, and that the thread was no longer necessary. I'll re-open it immediately.

Post by **haas mark** » 2002-11-24 12:36am

Issues why Kelly is mad at many of us right now:

People invaded privacy of PMs and IMs without permission
People campaigning for her modship without her approval
People acting as if they know what went on behind the scenes
Obviously, people speaking for her

Now, I suggest that everyone just pipe down and listen for a moment. Kelly has in no way been able to state her opinion on the matter of her being mod of FF on her own. There were people that let private IMs and PMs, thus betraying her trust. There were those that assumed that Bean had approached her about her possible modship. I am not going to reveal any information that I personally know, but I will say this: Of you don't leve her alone, there is no point to this thread, the Kelly for Mod thread, or anything else relating to it. So I suggest you just shut the fuck up and keep your business to yourself. Your opinions DO NOT matter. It is her decision, and her decision ALONE, until the point where a MODERATOR has brought it to the public. So I suggest that you guys no longer post to this thread unless:

It is a sincere apology
Your apology has been PMed or IMed or otherwise been given to Kelly herself

That said, I do hereby apologize for any actions I have personally taken against you, Kelly, and do not wish to repeat them, nor do I wish to have them ingrained in your memory as a bad thing that I did. I don't like being seen as a bad person in anyone's eyes, and on this board, yours especially. I hope that I may in some way make this up to you, but I knwo that it is hard to build up trust again, but I am willing ot try to the fullest extent to do so.

Post by **Dalton** » 2002-11-24 12:56am

Prawn: shut the fuck up. I've got my eye on you now.

MKSheppard · Post by **MKSheppard** » 2002-11-24 01:00am

Dalton wrote:Prawn: shut the fuck up. I've got my eye on you now.

Then add me to your list of people to keep an eye on, as i have
no fuckin idea what the hell just blew over here.

Post by **Dalton** » 2002-11-24 01:04am

MKSheppard wrote:Then add me to your list of people to keep an eye on, as i have no fuckin idea what the hell just blew over here.

Well, Shep, I've already got my eye on you. That wasn't what pissed me off about Prawn's post tho.

GrandMasterTerwynn · Post by **GrandMasterTerwynn** » 2002-11-24 01:56am

MKSheppard wrote:
Dalton wrote:Prawn: shut the fuck up. I've got my eye on you now.
Then add me to your list of people to keep an eye on, as i have
no fuckin idea what the hell just blew over here.

Prawn made a glib, spamish sort of post in a valid, serious discussion. And I can see what happened here. People apparently violated Kelly's trust by revealing what went on in private messages, and spoke for her when she has a mouth of her own.

Shinova · Post by **Shinova** » 2002-11-24 02:12am

This whole mess is over though, right?

Post by **Kuja** » 2002-11-24 08:05am

Kelly, if I have offended you in any way, then I'm truly sorry.

Post by **Mr Bean** » 2002-11-24 09:40am

I'm sorry Kelly I had no idea about any of this, on the OLD THREAD, I simply posted that Wong had said no more mods for now(Besides who ever will replace me come March, but thats another story)

I posted that Wong said no more Moderators for now, then locked the thread(And I know I did because it came back up locked)

That was my last involvment with it, I never did anything after that to it.

ArmorPierce · Post by **ArmorPierce** » 2002-11-24 02:01pm

Maybe it's because Kelly is the most perky out of the bunch of them

Durandal · Post by **Durandal** » 2002-11-24 02:13pm

I'm confused ... no wait, I don't care.