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Setesh wrote:The basic problem is the 'its a disease' mentality. It isn't. Putting it in the arena of a disease makes it psychologically harder to stop drinking. It makes you start thinking that you have no choice. There is no virus, no bacteria, no cancer, no birth defect, no genetic shift that makes you an alchoholic. (though there is a gene that makes alcohol addiction less likly, found predominatly in japanese decent, it also prevents hangover).
Well gee, I'm glad we have an expert here. I suppose the fact the medical community itself views alcoholism as a disease is irrevelant.

There's criticism of the disease model to be sure, and it may turn out the model is wrong, but flatly stating "it's not a disease" based on your own personal definition of disease is disingenuous at best.
You want to stop drinking, don't drink.
You want to stop gambling, don't go to vegas.
Want to lose weight, eat right and exercise.
Sex addict, stop fucking.
Do you really need someone to explain to you that by definition, it is difficult or impossible to simply walk away from an addiction? In the case of late-stage alcoholics, quitting cold turkey could actually be fatal: people have been known to die of alcohol withdrawal.
Still can't do it? Get some therepy, your addiction may have deeper roots.
Well no shit. What maladaptive human behavior doesn't have deeper roots?
P.S. as far as I can uncover via google AA's success rate is indeed the same as cold turkey quitters. Though in my search I found this:

"Cult or Cure"
I'll see your Google and raise you the library of the University of Pennsylvania.
Darth Wong wrote:The fact that some people are more susceptible to compulsive behaviour may actually be chemical in origin.

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For those who don't want to bother reading it, an Alzheimer's drug called Mirapex has been linked to sudden onset of compulsive gambling behaviour in patients with no prior history of such behaviour.
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Setesh wrote:The basic problem is the 'its a disease' mentality. It isn't. Putting it in the arena of a disease makes it psychologically harder to stop drinking. It makes you start thinking that you have no choice. There is no virus, no bacteria, no cancer, no birth defect, no genetic shift that makes you an alchoholic. (though there is a gene that makes alcohol addiction less likly, found predominatly in japanese decent, it also prevents hangover).
Well gee, I'm glad we have an expert here. I suppose the fact the medical community itself views alcoholism as a disease is irrevelant.
Funny that, no they don't, the AMA's official stance (that they put forth in 1957) says its a mental illness. Here's a psychologist who specilises in addiction, who most definatly says no it isn't:

http://www.peele.net/faq/disease.html

A 1997 Gallop poll found that almost 90% of Americans believe that alcoholism is a disease. In contrast, physicians’ views of alcoholism were reviewed at an August conference held by the International Doctors of Alcoholics Anonymous (IDAA). A survey of physicians reported at that conference found that 80% of responding doctors perceived alcoholism as simply bad behavior.

So the official line and what doctors in the field belive are not the same.
There's criticism of the disease model to be sure, and it may turn out the model is wrong, but flatly stating "it's not a disease" based on your own personal definition of disease is disingenuous at best.[/url]

Actually except for certain mental disorders it doesn't fit the model of a disease at all. And if its a disease why can people quit on willpower alone? You can't stop schizophrenia through willpower. You can suppress OCD symptoms to a degree (after all I do) but you still fall back into it.
You want to stop drinking, don't drink.
You want to stop gambling, don't go to vegas.
Want to lose weight, eat right and exercise.
Sex addict, stop fucking.
Do you really need someone to explain to you that by definition, it is difficult or impossible to simply walk away from an addiction? In the case of late-stage alcoholics, quitting cold turkey could actually be fatal: people have been known to die of alcohol withdrawal.
Difficult yes, impossible, bullshit. That's the very atitude AA pushes, that you aren't strong enough to do it yourself, that's why you need a "higher power". That's why so many AA people fall off the wagon. This view allows you that leeway that it isn't your fault. So you hold no responsability if you fail.
Still can't do it? Get some therepy, your addiction may have deeper roots.
Well no shit. What maladaptive human behavior doesn't have deeper roots?
P.S. as far as I can uncover via google AA's success rate is indeed the same as cold turkey quitters. Though in my search I found this:

"Cult or Cure"
I'll see your Google and raise you the library of the University of Pennsylvania.
Um, okay, you have a source but have you used it? Penn&Tellar quoted AA's own report on their success rate, I found the same report. 5% total success, exact same result as no help at all.
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Setesh wrote:Funny that, no they don't, the AMA's official stance (that they put forth in 1957) says its a mental illness. Here's a psychologist who specilises in addiction, who most definatly says no it isn't:
Sorry, you're wrong. Quoting psychologists as experts in medicine is kind of silly, no? Do you really have to spread bullshit?

The American Medical Association formally adopted the disease model of addiciton in 1945. Since then, the disease definition has been officially adopted by the World Health Organization, the American Psychiatric Association, National Association of Social Workers, American Public Health Association, the American Society of Addiction Medicine, and so on.

Oh, the AMA does recognize it as a disease. What an ass I am
This is from the American Medical Assosiation (AMA)

DEFINITIONS
H-95.983 Drug Dependencies as Diseases
The AMA
1. endorses the proposition that drug dependencies, including alcoholism, are diseases and that their treatment is a
legitimate part of medical practice, and
2. encourages physicians, other health professionals, medical and other health related organizations, and
government and other policymakers to become more well informed about drug dependencies, and to base their
policies and activities on the recognition that drug dependencies are, in fact, diseases. (Res. 113, A-87)
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Classifying it as a disease is not necessarily harmful. Telling people that this means they have no control over it, on the other hand, is probably quite harmful. And unfortunately, that's one of AA's central messages which is why I am not a huge fan of their program. Rather than encourage people to get control over their dependency, they encourage them to swap one dependency for another.
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Darth Wong wrote:Classifying it as a disease is not necessarily harmful. Telling people that this means they have no control over it, on the other hand, is probably quite harmful. And unfortunately, that's one of AA's central messages which is why I am not a huge fan of their program. Rather than encourage people to get control over their dependency, they encourage them to swap one dependency for another.
Agreed. I find it funny that people who yell the loudest against against it being a disease cannot usually even define the term.

According to the AMA, a disease is "An alteration in the state of the body or of some of its organs, interrupting or disturbing the performance of the vital functions, and causing or threatening pain and weakness; malady; affection; illness; sickness; disorder..."

How does this not apply to chronic substance addiciton?
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Darth Wong wrote:Classifying it as a disease is not necessarily harmful. Telling people that this means they have no control over it, on the other hand, is probably quite harmful. And unfortunately, that's one of AA's central messages which is why I am not a huge fan of their program. Rather than encourage people to get control over their dependency, they encourage them to swap one dependency for another.
Exactly, which was one reason why I rejected AA's message. Telling me I was powerless over alcohol was no help, I knew I got myself into the mess and I knew I could get myself out of it. I wanted help and strategys to cope not another crutch.
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Darth Wong wrote:Telling people that this means they have no control over it, on the other hand, is probably quite harmful. And unfortunately, that's one of AA's central messages which is why I am not a huge fan of their program. Rather than encourage people to get control over their dependency, they encourage them to swap one dependency for another.
Ah, one comment on that. In my experience, these aree people who don't seem to have this ability... at least, not without learning some new and alternate coping strategies. Your last sentence probably about sums it up. It's that learning to get control that they don't do well on their own. Discounting AA, this is where a therapist, doctor, treatment program, counselor, etc., could come in.
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Cpl Kendall wrote:Exactly, which was one reason why I rejected AA's message. Telling me I was powerless over alcohol was no help, I knew I got myself into the mess and I knew I could get myself out of it. I wanted help and strategys to cope not another crutch.
The sad thing is that alternate treatment methods, like a good psychotherapist, could cost as much as 200 dollars per hour. I think another part of this is that AA is really the only free therapy most people have access to.
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The sad thing is that alternate treatment methods, like a good psychotherapist, could cost as much as 200 dollars per hour. I think another part of this is that AA is really the only free therapy most people have access to.
The psychologist that I see once a week for my PTSD and related issues which includes alcohol charges Veterans Affairs 160$ CDN an hour to see me. And the Ontario Health Insurance Plan does not cover psychologist visits so unless you have private insurance your on your own for therapy and I don't know the stats for Canadians that have private insurance versus no insurance.

As for them being free therapy for alot of people I would tend to agree but I found them very militant. They were very adamant that you couldn't progress unless you accepted step one and then step two and then step three etc. There was no room for any other methods, it was almost liked they had learned by route (?) and didn't know any other way of doing things. All the strategys for coping involved "well accept god and then you'll find the cravings will subside" or "move through step one and if you have any problems we'll bring them up next meeting". That's all well and good but what am I supposed to do when I'm out at a restuarant with friends and they order a pitcher and they expect me to chip in and have a pint? How about strategys for that?
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Unfortunately, there is considerable pressure placed on non-drinkers in social situations. At almost all of the better restaurants, the waiter does not wait for you to ask for an alcoholic drink; he presents you with a wine list and tries to get you to buy something. At almost all parties, numerous people offer you alcoholic beverages without waiting for any sign that you are interested in them. Some will even accuse you of being anti-social if you do not partake.
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Cpl Kendall wrote:The psychologist that I see once a week for my PTSD and related issues which includes alcohol charges Veterans Affairs 160$ CDN an hour to see me. And the Ontario Health Insurance Plan does not cover psychologist visits so unless you have private insurance your on your own for therapy and I don't know the stats for Canadians that have private insurance versus no insurance.
Good. I'm glad to know that some goverments take care of their own. While I'm sure your clinician is very competent, some are better than others in this field, and usually the best are very expensive. Therapy utilizing a psychodymic model in the treatment of addiction, for example, has been shown to be quite effective for many poeple; however, you're talking about seeing someone who, at minimum, holds an MD or PhD, then five or six more years of post-doctoral psychoanalytic training. The treatment is also considered to be long term, and patients may see their doctors once or twice per week. I'm just tired of healthcare and even mental health care being all about the money and big insurance companies...
As for them being free therapy for alot of people I would tend to agree but I found them very militant. They were very adamant that you couldn't progress unless you accepted step one and then step two and then step three etc. There was no room for any other methods, it was almost liked they had learned by route (?) and didn't know any other way of doing things. All the strategys for coping involved "well accept god and then you'll find the cravings will subside" or "move through step one and if you have any problems we'll bring them up next meeting". That's all well and good but what am I supposed to do when I'm out at a restuarant with friends and they order a pitcher and they expect me to chip in and have a pint? How about strategys for that?
They would tell you to get new friends, and I don't necessarily disagree with that. Sometimes priorities are hard, but our own lives and families are more important than our drinking buddies. For an alcoholic, this truth is especially true.

Your argument is valid. One of my friends, who is in recovery, is also a counselor who works in a methadone clinic. She refers to the types you're referring to as "12 Step" Nazis."

I admit that 12 steppers often fail to recognize that one 'blanket-type' of treatment is not appropriate for every individual. That's like saying that Trazadone is appropriate for the treatment of bipolar disorder in every patient on the face of the planet. The reality is that it may not work well in some patients, the dosage may need to be adjusted, an alternate medication may need to be prescribed, etc. It's the same with therapists and models of treatment. AA is no exception.
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Darth Wong wrote:Unfortunately, there is considerable pressure placed on non-drinkers in social situations. At almost all of the better restaurants, the waiter does not wait for you to ask for an alcoholic drink; he presents you with a wine list and tries to get you to buy something. At almost all parties, numerous people offer you alcoholic beverages without waiting for any sign that you are interested in them. Some will even accuse you of being anti-social if you do not partake.
Yes I've gotten accustomed to just saying "no thank you I don't drink" and ignoring the looks. But when your with Army buddies the looks often cross over into "why the fuck not?" and then I have a choice between explaining why or just saying "none of your fucking business". With guys in my Vets group it's not usually a problem but occasionally you run into an ignorant fuck who's new to the group or he brings a friend to one of our social gatherings, we don't drink at our meetings for obvious reasons.
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Cpl Kendall wrote:
Darth Wong wrote:Unfortunately, there is considerable pressure placed on non-drinkers in social situations. At almost all of the better restaurants, the waiter does not wait for you to ask for an alcoholic drink; he presents you with a wine list and tries to get you to buy something. At almost all parties, numerous people offer you alcoholic beverages without waiting for any sign that you are interested in them. Some will even accuse you of being anti-social if you do not partake.
Yes I've gotten accustomed to just saying "no thank you I don't drink" and ignoring the looks. But when your with Army buddies the looks often cross over into "why the fuck not?" and then I have a choice between explaining why or just saying "none of your fucking business". With guys in my Vets group it's not usually a problem but occasionally you run into an ignorant fuck who's new to the group or he brings a friend to one of our social gatherings, we don't drink at our meetings for obvious reasons.
This highlights another problem with our overly religious culture. If you said that alcoholism is against your religious beliefs. that would be the end of it. People don't continue to badger you. But if you just say you don't want to drink alcohol, people seem to take that as the opening of a debate. Beliefs are sacrosanct in a Bible-fearing society, but the simple desire of someone to control what goes into his own body is not.
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As a notorious drunkard who no longer drinks, all I can say is that I avoid the situations where I find it impossible not to drink.

Bars, parties, concerts, etc...of course, I no longer participate in a great many things that have given me some of my happiest memories in life, and I can get a little lonesome, but I don't drink myself into a blackout every chance I get anymore, either.

Restaurants are easy, however; I never enjoyed drinking with food. :P
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Good. I'm glad to know that some goverments take care of their own. While I'm sure your clinician is very competent, some are better than others in this field, and usually the best are very expensive. Therapy utilizing a psychodymic model in the treatment of addiction, for example, has been shown to be quite effective for many poeple; however, you're talking about seeing someone who, at minimum, holds an MD or PhD, then five or six more years of post-doctoral psychoanalytic training. The treatment is also considered to be long term, and patients may see their doctors once or twice per week. I'm just tired of healthcare and even mental health care being all about the money and big insurance companies...
Canada takes very good care of it's Veterans with the exception of the WWII Merchant Marine and Korea Vets who had to fight for rights but I've never had a problem. They happily pay whatever is required for my treatment. My pyschologist does have a PhD and has the full range of analytical training. VA allows only the most qualified civilian personnel to work on it's Vets, they pay through the nose but it's worth it. She even sees people who are not covered by VA but are in the process of being approved for their pensions as was the case for one of ouir group members who was suicidal due to some rather nasty trauma she experianced in the Forces. The doc stated she could see her free of charge until her claim was processed by VA. Though I'm sure she'll probably send them a bill for the whole time after it gets approved but this isn't the first time she's done this.
They would tell you to get new friends, and I don't necessarily disagree with that. Sometimes priorities are hard, but our own lives and families are more important than our drinking buddies. For an alcoholic, this truth is especially true.
This is actually what ended up happening, I wound up connecting with my Vets group and ended up spending my time with them. They know my history and the alcohol isn't an issue with them unless a new person comes into the group. But we don't drink at our meetings and we rarely have alcohol available at social occasions unless it's a restuarant but even the drinkers rarely have a beer then. There are two other alcoholics in the group so it could be out of respect for us.
I admit that 12 steppers often fail to recognize that one 'blanket-type' of treatment is not appropriate for every individual. That's like saying that Trazadone is appropriate for the treatment of bipolar disorder in every patient on the face of the planet. The reality is that it may not work well in some patients, the dosage may need to be adjusted, an alternate medication may need to be prescribed, etc. It's the same with therapists and models of treatment. AA is no exception.
I mentioned earlier in the thread that my uncle in law is a recent convert to AA. I am waiting to see him at the next family gathering to see what his experiances are and how they compare with mine.
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Setesh wrote:Funny that, no they don't, the AMA's official stance (that they put forth in 1957) says its a mental illness. Here's a psychologist who specilises in addiction, who most definatly says no it isn't:

http://www.peele.net/faq/disease.html

A 1997 Gallop poll found that almost 90% of Americans believe that alcoholism is a disease. In contrast, physicians’ views of alcoholism were reviewed at an August conference held by the International Doctors of Alcoholics Anonymous (IDAA). A survey of physicians reported at that conference found that 80% of responding doctors perceived alcoholism as simply bad behavior.

So the official line and what doctors in the field belive are not the same.
So in other words, you're nitpicking over the specific definition of the word "disease", as if calling it a mental illness makes any practical difference.

I also like how you quote Dr. Hobbes's article to get the numbers of physicians who believe alcoholism is the result of "bad behavior", and fail to quote any other part of the article, like this one:
Alcoholism should not be judged as a problem of willpower, misconduct, or any other unscientific diagnosis. The problem must be accepted for what it is—a biopsychosocial disease with a strong genetic influence, obvious signs and symptoms, a natural progression and a fatal outcome if not treated.
Or perhaps this part:
During the past 35 years, numerous studies by behavioral and social scientists have supported Jellinek’s contentions about alcoholism as a disease. The American Medical Association endorsed the concept in 1957. The American Psychiatric Association, the American Hospital Association, the American Public Health Association, the National Association of Social Workers, the World Health Organization and the American College of Physicians have also classified alcoholism as a disease. In addition, the findings of investigators in the late 1970s led to explicit criteria for an "alcohol dependence syndrome" which are now listed in the DSM IIR, DSM IV, and the ICD manual.
Source: http://www.physiciansnews.com/commentary/298wp.html

You can Google and Wikipedia your way from one end of the Internet to the other and find whatever you need to support your position. So can I. If you want to say from the evidence you've seen, the disease model of addiction isn't convincing, fine. There are medical professionals on both sides of the debate. But stating your opinion as a settled matter is simply nonsense.
Actually except for certain mental disorders it doesn't fit the model of a disease at all. And if its a disease why can people quit on willpower alone? You can't stop schizophrenia through willpower. You can suppress OCD symptoms to a degree (after all I do) but you still fall back into it.
And where precisely in the medical defintion does it state any condition that can be overcome by willpower is not a disease?
Difficult yes, impossible, bullshit. That's the very atitude AA pushes, that you aren't strong enough to do it yourself, that's why you need a "higher power". That's why so many AA people fall off the wagon. This view allows you that leeway that it isn't your fault. So you hold no responsability if you fail.
For some people, it is practically impossible. Call it lack of willpower or whatever you want, but some addicts cannot beat their addiction on their own.

And I see you entirely failed to address the specific problem longterm alcoholics face in trying to quit cold turkey: namely, they risk death from withdrawal. Where does that fit in your homemade defintion of disease?
P.S. as far as I can uncover via google AA's success rate is indeed the same as cold turkey quitters. Though in my search I found this:

"Cult or Cure"
I'll see your Google and raise you the library of the University of Pennsylvania.
Um, okay, you have a source but have you used it? Penn&Tellar quoted AA's own report on their success rate, I found the same report. 5% total success, exact same result as no help at all.
Yes, I have, in designing a hypothetical addiction recovery support system for high school students returning to school after inpatient rehabilitation. Unfortunately, I no longer have access to the online library, so I can't provide links to the relevant articles, having graduated from the program. So I'll drop this line of argument, since it's tangental to the main thrust of our exchange anyway.
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Darth Wong wrote: This highlights another problem with our overly religious culture. If you said that alcoholism is against your religious beliefs. that would be the end of it. People don't continue to badger you. But if you just say you don't want to drink alcohol, people seem to take that as the opening of a debate. Beliefs are sacrosanct in a Bible-fearing society, but the simple desire of someone to control what goes into his own body is not.
Theres an approach I never thought of, perhaps I should give it a try. Several people have commented that with my beard I often pass as a Muslim until they get to know me. I could simply say I am a muslim. :wink:

On the other hand the best way I've found to shut off debate on the topic is to simply say " no thanks, I'm an alcoholic" and that usually shuts them up. After all what do you say to that?
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Cpl Kendall wrote:On the other hand the best way I've found to shut off debate on the topic is to simply say " no thanks, I'm an alcoholic" and that usually shuts them up. After all what do you say to that?
True, that's a good one. However, it's one that I can't use because I've never overindulged on alcohol or any other drug. I've never even been really drunk in my life. I've actually had people accost me about that and ask why not, as if I should feel some sort of regret.
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Cpl Kendall wrote:On the other hand the best way I've found to shut off debate on the topic is to simply say " no thanks, I'm an alcoholic" and that usually shuts them up. After all what do you say to that?
True, that's a good one. However, it's one that I can't use because I've never overindulged on alcohol or any other drug. I've never even been really drunk in my life. I've actually had people accost me about that and ask why not, as if I should feel some sort of regret.
I've used "not my thing" when challenged on not using hard drugs when offered. It tends to end the conversation--it's certainly hard to argue with that. Makes it sound like I've tried it and didn't like it.
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Darth Wong wrote: True, that's a good one. However, it's one that I can't use because I've never overindulged on alcohol or any other drug. I've never even been really drunk in my life. I've actually had people accost me about that and ask why not, as if I should feel some sort of regret.
You have no reason to not feel regret over never being drunk. I can't think of anytime that I've been drunk that any good has ever come of it. And I vividly remember being on a professional development trip in the military where I woke up vomiting. I could have very well choked on my own vomit in my sleep and died. No good ever comes out of being drunk and frequently you just make an ass out of yourself and feel like shit for days, so whats the point?

Frequently I find the people that try and make your life difficult about drinking IE: accosting you about never being drunk, are just trying to cover their own asses in regards to alcohol issues. I was told by another alcoholic that the most threating thing to an acoholic is someone whose stopped drinking.
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Darth Wong wrote:Unfortunately, there is considerable pressure placed on non-drinkers in social situations. At almost all of the better restaurants, the waiter does not wait for you to ask for an alcoholic drink; he presents you with a wine list and tries to get you to buy something. At almost all parties, numerous people offer you alcoholic beverages without waiting for any sign that you are interested in them. Some will even accuse you of being anti-social if you do not partake.
I've found that the driving excuse seems to work pretty well. Even the biggest partiers among my friends understand that since I live half an hour from the college campus and therefore have to drive home, I can't really afford to drink anything at all. Drinking may be a social thing for most people, but drinking and driving is dangerous and everyone knows it.
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RedImperator wrote:
Setesh wrote:Funny that, no they don't, the AMA's official stance (that they put forth in 1957) says its a mental illness. Here's a psychologist who specilises in addiction, who most definatly says no it isn't:

http://www.peele.net/faq/disease.html

A 1997 Gallop poll found that almost 90% of Americans believe that alcoholism is a disease. In contrast, physicians’ views of alcoholism were reviewed at an August conference held by the International Doctors of Alcoholics Anonymous (IDAA). A survey of physicians reported at that conference found that 80% of responding doctors perceived alcoholism as simply bad behavior.

So the official line and what doctors in the field belive are not the same.
So in other words, you're nitpicking over the specific definition of the word "disease", as if calling it a mental illness makes any practical difference.
I was just pointing out that despite the 'debate closed its a disease' metality many hold, including the AMA does not mean the entire medical community is behind the idea.
I also like how you quote Dr. Hobbes's article to get the numbers of physicians who believe alcoholism is the result of "bad behavior", and fail to quote any other part of the article, like this one:
Alcoholism should not be judged as a problem of willpower, misconduct, or any other unscientific diagnosis. The problem must be accepted for what it is—a biopsychosocial disease with a strong genetic influence, obvious signs and symptoms, a natural progression and a fatal outcome if not treated.
Or perhaps this part:
During the past 35 years, numerous studies by behavioral and social scientists have supported Jellinek’s contentions about alcoholism as a disease. The American Medical Association endorsed the concept in 1957. The American Psychiatric Association, the American Hospital Association, the American Public Health Association, the National Association of Social Workers, the World Health Organization and the American College of Physicians have also classified alcoholism as a disease. In addition, the findings of investigators in the late 1970s led to explicit criteria for an "alcohol dependence syndrome" which are now listed in the DSM IIR, DSM IV, and the ICD manual.
Source: http://www.physiciansnews.com/commentary/298wp.html

You can Google and Wikipedia your way from one end of the Internet to the other and find whatever you need to support your position. So can I. If you want to say from the evidence you've seen, the disease model of addiction isn't convincing, fine. There are medical professionals on both sides of the debate. But stating your opinion as a settled matter is simply nonsense.
Actually except for certain mental disorders it doesn't fit the model of a disease at all. And if its a disease why can people quit on willpower alone? You can't stop schizophrenia through willpower. You can suppress OCD symptoms to a degree (after all I do) but you still fall back into it.
And where precisely in the medical defintion does it state any condition that can be overcome by willpower is not a disease?
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A pathological condition of a body part, an organ, or a system resulting from various causes, such as infection, genetic defect, or environmental stress, and characterized by an identifiable group of signs or symptoms.

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Definition of a disease, this is how I call hypocrite at the medical community.
For some people, it is practically impossible. Call it lack of willpower or whatever you want, but some addicts cannot beat their addiction on their own.
Moral support is fine it bolster the will and shores up the mental strengths, but that doesn't make it a disease.
And I see you entirely failed to address the specific problem longterm alcoholics face in trying to quit cold turkey: namely, they risk death from withdrawal. Where does that fit in your homemade defintion of disease?
That is not a disease thats damage from long term chemical poisoning, its treatable, that's what a lot of rehab clinics are for, to deal with the chemical side effects of detoxing your body of such drugs. Once your fully detoxed your no longer chemically dependant then its all psychological and we're back to square one.

My problem with it is that if its a disease, that implies it really is beyond your control. That without treatment you will always go back to it. Yet there are those who stop drinking just by doing so.

And here's another little fact, the rehab program with the highest success rate (Saint Jude Retreat House 78.60% sober, despite its name its not affiliated with any religeous group, they were started by a research company) does not treat it as a disease. (found at http://www.soberforever.net/) Unfortunatly despite their high success rate their also fucking expensive.
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I attended an aa meeting not long after I turned 19. I wasn't an alcholic yet (3 or 4 beers on the weekend?) but I wanted to see what their meetings were like because my friend who was (and probably still is) an alcholic was attending. During the meeting what I observed made me want to run, it felt like I was at a secret cult.

I'm not sure how effective pairing two drunkards together is... it seems like setting them up for enabling to me.
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Lisa wrote:I'm not sure how effective pairing two drunkards together is... it seems like setting them up for enabling to me.
That will probably be the case if you have people who are only going through the motions to get their friends/family/coworkers off their back.

For example, my dad had this friend from back when he was in the military (FYI: the American military is by far the largest supplier of alcohol in the US, and probably the world). This guy was a pretty hopeless drunk. This kind of stuff would never work on him, because he didn't see any reason why he needed to quit.

Unfortunately, when someone gets like that, it seems the only real way to break them of the habit is for them to do something so horrible that even thinking about taking a drink causes their actions to come back and haunt them. In this guy's case, he ended up killing two people while driving drunk. And after he got out of jail, for as long as he lived (which was something like 30 years after the accident), he could barely stand to be in the same room as alcohol.

On the other hand, if you have two people who genuinely want to quit, one can provide support for the other if they are starting to get drawn back in.
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