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Vampiress_Miyu · Post by **Vampiress_Miyu** » 2007-04-21 06:35pm

I was having this discussion, don't ask me why, with a friend of mine while on a mission trip...
He thought that sex is only ethical in a bedroom, whereas I think it's ethical anywhere, depending on a few odd little variables.... (like people present but not active in the sex, for example).
This got me thinking... I wonder how many people actually feel that way? Does the majority of the human population, those that think sex is chill in the first place that is, believe it's only ethical in bed? Or is it the other way around? Is the majority on my side of the argument?
Please, give me your responses!

Pint0 Xtreme · Post by **Pint0 Xtreme** » 2007-04-21 06:40pm

How the hell is sex unethical if I decide to do it on the floor of my kitchen?

Vampiress_Miyu · Post by **Vampiress_Miyu** » 2007-04-21 06:44pm

I don't know.... It doesn't make sense to me either! But I really do wonder if there are others like him, who think in this alien manner.

Post by **Surlethe** » 2007-04-21 06:46pm

Why should it matter where I am if I'm fucking?

Post by **Darth Wong** » 2007-04-21 06:54pm

Vampiress_Miyu wrote:I don't know.... It doesn't make sense to me either! But I really do wonder if there are others like him, who think in this alien manner.

He doesn't know what the word "unethical" means. He thinks it means "wrong", and he thinks "wrong" means "different from my cultural norms".

It's just a very childish way of looking at ethics. When you're a child, "wrong" is anything different from what your parents tell you is right. You literally have no concept whatsoever of what ethics is. As you get older, you're supposed to develop your own sense of morality, but obviously, this doesn't happen for everyone.

Ask this person to explain what it means to be ethical, and see what he says. I can almost guarantee that his answer will be essentially circular. For example, "it's unethical because it's wrong" and "I know it's wrong because it's against my principles" and "My principles are based on ethics".

Twoyboy · Post by **Twoyboy** » 2007-04-21 07:24pm

The only place sex is unethical is right in front of someone who's not getting any. That's just plain mean.

Teebs · Post by **Teebs** » 2007-04-21 07:31pm

Woops, voted for bedroom thinking it meant favourite place rather than is it the only ethical place

That'll teach me to read the post first.

Darth Servo · Post by **Darth Servo** » 2007-04-21 07:31pm

If its my house, I'll have sex in any room I want thats clean. I'll do it in the bedroom. I'll do it in the bathroom. I'll do it on the couch in the living room. I'll do it on the kitchen table. etc, etc, etc.

Vampiress_Miyu · Post by **Vampiress_Miyu** » 2007-04-21 07:33pm

Darth Wong wrote: It's just a very childish way of looking at ethics. When you're a child, "wrong" is anything different from what your parents tell you is right. You literally have no concept whatsoever of what ethics is. As you get older, you're supposed to develop your own sense of morality, but obviously, this doesn't happen for everyone.

Ask this person to explain what it means to be ethical, and see what he says. I can almost guarantee that his answer will be essentially circular. For example, "it's unethical because it's wrong" and "I know it's wrong because it's against my principles" and "My principles are based on ethics".

That makes sense.... he's really immature. >.>;

I'll ask him right now! -calls him-

Post by **LadyTevar** » 2007-04-21 07:40pm

Some of the best sex I've had was outside the bedroom....

wolveraptor · Post by **wolveraptor** » 2007-04-21 07:47pm

Porn teaches us that no one ever has sex in a bed. Also, women like it more when their limbs and bodies are contorted into weird positions.

Twoyboy · Post by **Twoyboy** » 2007-04-21 07:56pm

wolveraptor wrote:Also, women like it more when their limbs and bodies are contorted into weird positions.

And women always leave their shoes on.

In all seriousness though, even the Catholic church isn't this backward, surely. I mean, to them, sex is meant to be weird and uncomforable. Surely if I'm doing it in an aeroplane toilet Ralph Feinnes style, that's as weird and uncomfortable as it gets.

And if I'm doing it with Ralph Feinnes, that should be even weirder!

Mrs Kendall · Post by **Mrs Kendall** » 2007-04-21 08:29pm

According to his point of view I've had a lot of unethical sex in my life

Vampiress_Miyu · Post by **Vampiress_Miyu** » 2007-04-21 08:37pm

Mrs Kendall wrote:According to his point of view I've had a lot of unethical sex in my life

=P Nice... -thinks- Yeah....I'm pretty sure a few of my friends don't ever have ethical sex according to his silliness. =P

Gil Hamilton · Post by **Gil Hamilton** » 2007-04-21 08:48pm

Wait a second... you can have sex in a bedroom?! But that's where I go to sleep after I'm done having sex in various public locations!

Invictus ChiKen · Post by **Invictus ChiKen** » 2007-04-21 10:07pm

Twoyboy wrote:In all seriousness though, even the Catholic church isn't this backward, surely. I mean, to them, sex is meant to be weird and uncomforable. Surely if I'm doing it in an aeroplane toilet Ralph Feinnes style, that's as weird and uncomfortable as it gets.

And if I'm doing it with Ralph Feinnes, that should be even weirder!

I've gotten into debates with fellow Catholics on this one.

The offical take: As long as there's a chance (no matter how small) that the lady can get pregnant (I.E. somehow sperm gets into the womb) and no one else sees it. It doesn't matter. Have sex in the blasted church after hours if you want!

Just clean up after your done ^.^

Invictus ChiKen · Post by **Invictus ChiKen** » 2007-04-21 10:08pm

Ghetto Edit: And of course you gotta be married.

Starglider · Post by **Starglider** » 2007-04-21 10:27pm

Invictus ChiKen wrote:The offical take: As long as there's a chance (no matter how small) that the lady can get pregnant (I.E. somehow sperm gets into the womb) and no one else sees it. It doesn't matter.

'Some chance no matter how small'? There's 'some chance' with any sort of contraception. If it's wrong to use sex for anything other than baby making, then how is it right to reduce the chance of babies being made? If your criteria is 'some sperm must get in', how about I start marketing a new range of 'Catholic condoms' with a pinprick hole in the bottom? Sure one drop of semen gets through and thus they're only 90% reliable, but that's better than the rhythm method - actually how the hell do you justify that if it's wrong to waste sperm?

Not only does the catholic church consist of officials tossing out arbitrary rules that vary in both detail and justification depending on whim and fashion, but the follows then act like lawyers trying to find loopholes and weasel their way around the rules.

Starglider · Post by **Starglider** » 2007-04-21 10:28pm

Starglider wrote:
Invictus ChiKen wrote:The offical take: As long as there's a chance (no matter how small) that the lady can get pregnant (I.E. somehow sperm gets into the womb) and no one else sees it. It doesn't matter.
'Some chance no matter how small'? There's 'some chance' with any sort of contraception. If it's wrong to use sex for anything other than baby making, then how is it right to reduce the chance of babies being made? If your criteria is 'some sperm must get in', how about I start marketing a new range of 'Catholic condoms' with a pinprick hole in the bottom? Sure one drop of semen gets through and thus they're only 90% reliable, but that's better than the rhythm method - actually how the hell do you justify that if it's wrong to waste sperm?

Not only does the catholic church consist of officials tossing out arbitrary rules that vary in both detail and justification depending on whim and fashion, but the follows then act like lawyers trying to find loopholes, interpret letter rather than spirit and generally weasel their way around the rules (or use them to justify personal taste and prejudices).

Invictus ChiKen · Post by **Invictus ChiKen** » 2007-04-21 10:31pm

Starglider wrote:'Some chance no matter how small'? There's 'some chance' with any sort of contraception. If it's wrong to use sex for anything other than baby making, then how is it right to reduce the chance of babies being made? If your criteria is 'some sperm must get in', how about I start marketing a new range of 'Catholic condoms' with a pinprick hole in the bottom? Sure one drop of semen gets through and thus they're only 90% reliable, but that's better than the rhythm method - actually how the hell do you justify that if it's wrong to waste sperm?

You know I've asked the same question countless times myself...

loomer · Post by **loomer** » 2007-04-21 11:02pm

Anywhere for me, so long as it's not somewhere I'm liable to be arrested for indecent exposure, etc. Hell, one of the best fucks I've had was actually on a camping trip, out on a rock by a stream. We had a blanket down for comfort, of course, but because of both the season, and the smoke from the campfire, there were no instincts.

Big Phil · Post by **Big Phil** » 2007-04-22 12:18am

Those who are voting only in the bedroom, I'd really like to see them defend their position, since it makes absolutely no sense to me to tie where one has sex with ethics.

Invictus ChiKen · Post by **Invictus ChiKen** » 2007-04-22 12:19am

SancheztheWhaler wrote:Those who are voting only in the bedroom, I'd really like to see them defend their position, since it makes absolutely no sense to me to tie where one has sex with ethics.

I bet cash most of them thought it ment where do you have sex most often and didn't read the OP

Big Phil · Post by **Big Phil** » 2007-04-22 12:32am

Invictus ChiKen wrote:
SancheztheWhaler wrote:Those who are voting only in the bedroom, I'd really like to see them defend their position, since it makes absolutely no sense to me to tie where one has sex with ethics.
I bet cash most of them thought it ment where do you have sex most often and didn't read the OP

Maybe...

I'm not looking to flame anyone - I'm just genuinely curious why anyone would view sex outside of the bedroom as unethical.

Tricit · Post by **Tricit** » 2007-04-22 01:28am

Oopse, I voted so quickly for sex in the bed because it is most fun for me there. I truly think it is ethical anywhere. My bed is memory stuff... it feels so good... bouncy bouncy!!!

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