I actually ran into a guy once who said that "immoral" and "unethical" are two completely different things. Perplexed, I asked him what the fuck he was talking about. He explained that "unethical" means that it is bad for society or hurts people, but "immoral" means that it is just "wrong". When pressed to explain what "wrong" meant if it is not unethical, he actually admitted straight-up that it had to do with sex and other victimless crimes. Basically, in his view, morality is all about sex, but it has nothing to do with ethics. Go figure.SancheztheWhaler wrote:Maybe... I'm not looking to flame anyone - I'm just genuinely curious why anyone would view sex outside of the bedroom as unethical.
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I like having sex on the floor or even outdoors. Sometimes even in places where (theoretically) I can be seen by other people - remote, but still visited forests and riversides. Does that make me immoral by this standard?
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Congratulations: you would've just made money off of me.Invictus ChiKen wrote:I bet cash most of them thought it ment where do you have sex most often and didn't read the OPSancheztheWhaler wrote:Those who are voting only in the bedroom, I'd really like to see them defend their position, since it makes absolutely no sense to me to tie where one has sex with ethics.
For me, the only real standard is if it's clean and decently private (I'm not into having an audience).
Would it be unethical to just strip down and start banging away out in public (ignoring the whole legal aspect for a moment)? I know it's not something that I would personally do, but I'm curious if there would be some reason it would be unethical as well.
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Well, so long as both parties are okay with it, and it's acceptable from a medical standpoint, I see no reason why one should not engage in sex anytime and anyplace they choose. By "acceptable medically", I mean clean, sanitary, etc. Having a kid is bad enough, you don't want a disease to go with it.
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Stas Bush wrote:I like having sex on the floor or even outdoors. Sometimes even in places where (theoretically) I can be seen by other people - remote, but still visited forests and riversides.
I agree with you both. Sex in nice, remote fields... much fun. As long as there's a blanket or something... then it just gets a little gross, with grass and dirt everywhere. . . . Not that I've experienced this. . . >.>Keevan_Colton wrote:To quote from a conversation:
"But sex is practically what outdoors is for!"
And yeah, the semi-visited-ness of the place, I feel, adds to the excitement. If there's a small chance of people 'walking in' on it...then it's a little kinkier, and a little more fun. Then again, I have yet to be in a situation where there isn't a chance of people walking in...so I may not be the best judge. >.> But I'm getting off topic, here.
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Why wait to get back to the car?tim31 wrote:Or what about going for a walk along a beach at night, and when you get back to the car you go for it, right there on the bonnet
Anyone ever done it on a billiard table?
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The problem with sex on a billiard table is that it invites limitless puns.
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Et cetera. It's endless. Without the right person, the shenanigans would get wearing.
"Damn! My balls keep bouncing off the pocket!"
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Nice. I hadn't thought of that... -shrug- shenanigans are rarely wearing though. =P Unless you go at it like, all the time.Gil Hamilton wrote:The problem with sex on a billiard table is that it invites limitless puns.
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Et cetera. It's endless. Without the right person, the shenanigans would get wearing.
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Close, a snooker table. They had to re-felt it after I was done and my membership of the local Northern Ireland Supporters Club was revoked.Darth Servo wrote:Why wait to get back to the car?tim31 wrote:Or what about going for a walk along a beach at night, and when you get back to the car you go for it, right there on the bonnet
Anyone ever done it on a billiard table?
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Sex in interesting locations seems like a good idea, but in reality it's usually just uncomfortable. That granite billiard table is a fine example.
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It's all part of the fun of the early days of a relationship. Later when you're more comfortable with each other and no longer in the mode of having to impress him or her with the out doors thingDarth Wong wrote:Sex in interesting locations seems like a good idea, but in reality it's usually just uncomfortable. That granite billiard table is a fine example.
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Who said it's for impressing....? O.o Honestly... and, since when was sex the early part of the relationship? I would've thought foreplay was. =PLord Pounder wrote:It's all part of the fun of the early days of a relationship. Later when you're more comfortable with each other and no longer in the mode of having to impress him or her with the out doors thing
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Heh, yes. Getting naked in the field below the school seemed like such a good idea. . .PeZook wrote:One word: MosquitoesDarth Wong wrote:Sex in interesting locations seems like a good idea, but in reality it's usually just uncomfortable. That granite billiard table is a fine example.
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