General Trelane (Retired) wrote:He was dreaming about gainful employment? Working as a construction labourer is gainful employment. Working in a service job is gainful employment. He clearly wasn't dreaming about that kind of work. Seems like he was dreaming of a life of leisure.
Funny, I didn't read his post that way.
And working construction or service is "gainful" only if it nets you a
living wage - that is, enough for housing, food, clothing and other such essentials. I am NOT talking about a McMansion - I'm talking about a small apartment or trailer or some such. Got news for you, Trelane, a lot of those construction and service jobs out there are minimum wage or close to it, and that does NOT allow a living wage. I have to make
three times the minimum wage to clear my bills each month, for my small apartment, my fuel-sipping car, etc. That's a problem. And I have no debt.
Given that kids these days leave college with $20-50K in debt how the FUCK are they supposed to get anywhere if all that's open to them is minimum wage grunt work? And in my area, not even that because they're competing against people such as myself who have experience and reliable track record to offer an employer.
Yeah, it IS perfectly reasonable to be pissed that your life will be harder - not just as hard, but HARDER - than prior generations.
Demonstrate that this is the case, please (i.e. that his life will be harder than the prior generation). And even if it is, why should he be entitled to an easier life than the prior generation?
How about a life
no harder than the previous generation? How would THAT be unreasonable? I already stated above - entry-level jobs in any industry that pay a wage enabling one to live decently are in short supply. Your offerings of "construction" and "service" jobs is pathetic -- at best that's years of marginal existance. Right now the oversupply of labor is driving wages downward while prices are rising - yeah there is a LOT to bitch about, frankly. My life is harder that it was 5 years ago through no fault of my own. I took a 50% cut in income in November and it will soon be 100% if I don't get some sort of job - which I haven't been able to for 5 months. This is what young people are coming in to right now, and they have FAR more debt than I do because you are almost always compelled to take on debt to go to college in the US these days. Yes, they DO have a few things to bitch about. They did not make the dot.com bust, the S&L meltdown, Enron, the housing bubble, or the current economic shitstorm. It's NOT their fault but they have to deal with the consequences regardless. This is rather like when a tree falls on your house - it's not your fault, but it IS something to bitch about.
It seems that most people these days expect to go to university, graduate, and get a professional job. News flash: NOT EVERY ONE CAN WORK IN A PROFESSION! There will always be a need for trades, labour, and unskilled workers. The people that wind up "settling" for those jobs have had their dreams stolen?

The "American Dream" only works for a few people because it is built on the backs of the rest. That's life. Young people need to learn that.
You got it wrong, mister. The "American Dream" was NOT every child in a profession, it's the idea that everyone can have a decent standard of living - adequate food, housing, clothing, and
opportunity for education.
1n 1908 a man could go work for Henry Ford who had the odd notion of paying his workers enough money to buy the product they were building. Unskilled labor earned enough to get you a modest house and at least a lower-middle-class standard of living. Now it gives you just enough so you can't qualify for food stamps and you can't even rent a 1-room apartment in a city like Chicago. That's bullshit. That's NOT a change for the better.
I remember when it was different, it's not an idealistic notion of history gleaned from a book, it REALLY WAS easier when I was just out of college, easier to get a job, get out of debt, earn enough to live on.
And when my 5yo daugther is screaming in agony and the doctors can't figure out what's wrong, I can't make myself give a shit about idiotic woe-is-me whining. Perspective.
I see. Because your daughter has a problem no one else could possible be in pain. How very self-centered of you.
You know, just because YOU might have a broken leg it doesn't mean Ryan's broken arm hurts less. You both got serious problems. Your talking about your daughter is just as "woe-is-me" as anyone else here bitching about their situation. Which, by the way, is NOT a invitation to a pissing contest about whose situation is worse, more worthy of sympathy, or what have you. It seems at least half of SD.net is going through hard times right now. I don't see the harm in letting people vent and I don't take it personally when an 18 year old or a 22 year old is thrust into the real world, takes his/her first adult look at things, and goes HOLY FUCK! THIS IS SERIOUS SHIT! It's a phase we all go through.
Prior generations DID make mistakes, they DID leave shit for their children to clean up -
every generation does that. No, it's not fair that children are burdened with the mistakes of their parents but that's one of the sucky points of reality.