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:roll: When someone demands that you back up your obviously nonsensical claims, you have to provide something better than "it was an actual event". That's like a murder suspect saying "I have a real alibi. Honest!"

The fact is that there are two popular ways to interpret the Bible: the intelligent way, which is to realize that it is a product of a historical culture, and the idiotic way, which is to pretend that it is a scientifically accurate and precise document detailing the factual history of our planet.

You think you can "explain" away all of the flaws of the Bible, but you do this by simply adding material whenever you feel it is necessary. Just look at the way you stubbornly clung to your idiotic Galatians quote as proof that the Bible explicitly supports interracial marriage; you resorted to simply repeating yourself ad nauseum, and ignoring the fact (repeatedly pointed out) that the quote doesn't even mention marriage at all.
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JohnM81 wrote:
Broomstick wrote: One exception. One exception. Out of all the other women who are given away, kidnapped, raped, stolen, sold into slavery... Oh, yeah, that makes it alright.
Regardless how you spin it its point stands, biblically speaking women can rise to some positions of great power and responsibility with God’s blessing.
No, ONE woman can rise to a position of power - the rest of them are still down in the mud. Elevating one member of an oppressed group to prominence does not make things OK for the rest of them that are still oppressed.

Deborah is always trotted out as THE example of a powerful Biblical woman... where are the others?
How other humans might think of it is another matter altogether.
In other words, if your religion defines me as sub-human, second-class chattel I should just suck it up. Fuck that noise.
Broomstick wrote: How about Lot, wonderful Lot, blessed by god or whatever - paraphrased: "Here, rape my daughter but spare these two strange men I just took into my household. It's so much better you rape my daughters than these two." But hey, it's OK because they're angels... yeah, right
Lot? Lot is a despicable man whose actions are recorded in the bible.
If he was so despicable, why did God send two angels to save him?
What is your point? And now your own bias is revealed that you take a story, tell only the half of it that supports your arguments but don’t finish the end where the Angels tell the man NOT to do such a thing! Well done, you just inadvertently gave a great example of how scripture doesn’t look at women as subhuman chattel.
Bullshit - if they daughters are raped they're worth is diminished and they are less attractive higher status men. They're "spoiled" as human beings.
Broomstick wrote: And in Ancient Rome slaves could own property and money and buy their freedom if they were successful enough.. but they were still slaves.
Yet the verse does plainly put scripture’s ideal woman well above a subhuman womb on legs.
You're picking and choosing, and ignoring the overall role of woman in the book of myths your worship. Which is typical - you can make the Bible say anything by picking and choosing but your mind is, apparently, incapable of analyzing it as a whole.
It’s healthy in that each are a living example of self sacrifice and love for each other.
What's this sacrifice bullshit? Why should my husband have to sacrifice himself for me, or me for him? Shouldn't we be supporting each other, nurturing each other, building each other up instead enduring painful losses (which is what is implied by "sacrifice") on each other's behalf? I'd rather my marriage be a positive rather and negative, but maybe that's why, as another has pointed out, Christians have the highest divorce rate in the US - their marriages are based on a negative instead of a positive.
Broomstick wrote: Historically, what usually happened is the woman was "granted" her separation but was essentially imprisoned in a convent for the rest of her life while the man was free to go elsewhere. Not to mention that historically it was female infidelity that was punished while male infidelity was pardoned, if not openly condoned.
Historically? Yes you are correct. Biblically? No not at all.
That's the problem - Christians NEVER live up their rulebook, and it's always excused by something like "sin nature" or whatever. Just face it - it's impossible to live up to the Christ Standard and you're all epic failures in that regard. Your God is setting you up to fail, yet you're convinced the sadistic abuser loves you.
Biblically both woman and man are equally bound to the marriage vows. Both are equally not allowed to remarry unless the other partner is unfaithful. This is just another example of how terrible things happen when man strays from the word of God.
I find it terrible and sadistic to say to people must remain yoked together for life when it would really be healthier for them to part and make new lives elsewhere.
Broomstick wrote: What was that line about by the fruit of the trees you will now them...? Christianity's orchard has a shitload of rotten fruit.
You are very correct there is a huge amount of people who say they are Christian, do things blatently against the scriptures and cause non-believers like yourself to label all of as hypocrites. This “rotten fruit” are wolves in sheep clothing.
They're shitty people who are protesting that, because they are "Christian" they should be forgiven. And far too many other Christians tolerate it, or even promote the idea that saying "I'm sorry" puts the wings back on the butterfly.

I consider the vast majority of Christians to be hypocrites because they ARE. This is supported both by historical actions as well as my personal experiences in life. In other words, I base this on evidence, on actions, not 2000 year old myths written on crumbling paper.
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Broomstick wrote: Yeah, actually two tribes that consider each other separate "races" who are biased against each other are racist, even if WE would define them as being in the same group.

The reality is we are all one species - any other division, even when based on a biological trait, is to one degree or another somewhat arbitrary as in reality there are not sharp divisions between populations but gradations. "Race", although a real concept, is mutable.
So in a nut shell your point is what? The term race is subjective and its meaning is in the definition of the user?
Yes.

Some definitions of "race" are based on physical characteristics, but which ones are chosen are frequently arbitrary. In other instances, such as "the Italian race" or the "Spanish race" the division is even more subjective and arbitrary. However, one thing that seems to escape you is that it is not YOU who get to define whether or not two groups are "races" or not, nor is it your book of myths - it is the two groups in question who decide that. Not you, who stand outside their concerns.
Well almost every Jew will admit they are semitic.
Except, of course, they'll also admit that there are Asiatic Jews, and African Jews who look, respectively, Asian and African.
Now go look up what other groups belong to the semitic race. And as a person who is of Levite heritage I can tell you everyone in my family acknowledges they and Arabs (not all Arabs though) are the same semitic race.
And EVERYBODY is a member of the human race yet we still manage to subdivide into groups that hate each other.
This is their subjective definition. Yours and Mikes “subjective” definition differ. But if we are talking about the semitic race then what matters is what they say.
Right - it matters what Jews and Arabs say, not what I say (although by your definitions I actually DO have a say in this, as I have considerable Semitic ancestry), not what Chinese-Canadian Mike Wong says, not what a hypocritical Christian claiming some semitic ancestry says,

You are an outsider. You don't get a say in this. The Arabs and Jews (of which you are neither, apparently) get a say.
Broomstick wrote: Indentured servitude is a form of slavery, in that one person is benefiting from the labor of another who has no ability to terminate or change the conditions of the contract. It's not as bad as North American chattel slavery was, but it still exists on the spectrum. In actual fact, the first Africans brought to North America were "indentured servants" legally, and that later evolved into race-based chattel slavery.

A "paid servant" is not an indentured servant. They are an employee.
There is a significant difference between what the new testament talks about a bond servant and being a slave as our society uses the term. Being a servant/bondsman/bondservant is not the same as a slave. The former is a person what willingly agrees to a contract to work off a debt they owe a person.
Historically, the "willingly" part was under considerable question. Also, my husband's first ancestor to come to North America was legally an "indentured servant" but he never willingly agreed to anything because it was imposed by the court. It was not for debt, it was for supporting the wrong person in a rebellion. There was no end to the contract, it was for life, and his contract (essentially, the person himself) was sold to the highest bidder on arrival in the Colonies. In other words, he was a white slave instead of a black slave.

That's the problem with your statement - it treats terms like "bondsman" and "indentured servant" and "slave" as if they were discrete and immutable categories when in reality there weren't sharp divisions between the various states either legally or socially.

But hey, why let the FACTS get in the way of your mythology, right?
Broomstick wrote: Right. He's king, she's chattel. Doesn't matter if she's the most capable of the two, or he's batshit insane, or gone soft in the head - he's the man, he's in charge because he has a penis and testicles and she doesn't. Institutionalized inequality.
Being mandated to observe the fact that a man is the head of the house hold doesn’t relegate her to be chattel, subhuman, or worth less than the man.
Yes, it does. He is put in the position of authority because he has penis and testicles and she is subservient because she has vagina and uterus. Of course, admitting that puts you in the scary position of maybe having to respect and woman as your equal at some point.
If asked, when I was a teenager should I have obeyed my parents most people would say that is something I should do. And yet that didn’t make me worth less than my parents.
You aren't a teenager forever - you ARE a man or woman forever. You grow out of being a teenager, but in marriage a woman must, according to your myths, be subservient forever - in other words, permanently a child and never an adult human being. That does demean her value.
And yet my parents valued me enough that I know they would have given their lives for mine.
Again with the death thing - is there no other standard you use that one person dying for another? Is there no other way to demonstrate love? What a horrid, dark, depressing world you live in!
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JohnM81 wrote:
Gandalf wrote:There's plenty of contradictory material in that wacky book. Unless the church is promoting doublethink, you need to pick and choose.
Because I believe a book is the inspired work of God and have been able to explain every contradiction by going back to the original hebrew/greek that I have encountered.
So... you ignore the Aramaic passages?

How interesting - you reject entire books of your mythic literature because the originals are neither Hebrew nor Greek?
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Broomstick wrote:Ancient Eqypt gave us the Negative Confession, where the deceased being judge tells the Gods the harm and evil he didn't do... and isn't that an interesting take on it?
It seems like a very awkward take on it, even if you sinned like a mother fucker you would probably still be there all week. That is if you can even remember all the evil deeds you could have done but didn't.
I didn't commit genocide, I didn't kill anyone, I didn't cheat on my spouse, I didn't start any wars, I didn't beat the hell out of my best friend that one time when we had a big argument... yeah, that could go on for a while. :lol:
But it's OK - the Gods are eternal. They have all the time in the world....
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JohnM81 wrote:
The Duchess of Zeon wrote: I will be more interested in how the Scales judge you if Osiris is there waiting for us.
I’d guess just about the same as Osiris would judge an atheist, so I guess you are screwed to!
Actually, she's not.

Judgment for the Ancient Egyptians was not about belief, it was about actions - you didn't need to believe in order to pass the test. Salvation through works rather than faith, in your terms. You could profess all the belief in the Gods you wanted but if you were a lying scoundrel your soul would be devoured. You could be an Ancient Atheist and, if your conduct was moral and you yourself truthful, you would pass into the afterlife as a worthy person.

Being a hypocritical Christian, you are in far greater danger before the scales of Ma'at than an honest atheist.
You are right I am not important enough for God to care about me but he does… and that I find incredible.
Right - because sadists need their victims to validate their existence.
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JohnM81 wrote:Because I believe a book is the inspired work of God and have been able to explain every contradiction by going back to the original hebrew/greek that I have encountered.
You fucking liar. We don't have the "original hebrew/greek" to go back to, and no amount of "original hebrew" solves stuff like the numerical contradictions between Ezra and Nehemiah (initially the same book), nor the doctrinal contradictions between the different authors. Tell me what Jesus' last words were and who Joseph's father was and tell me there's no contradictions in the original greek. Tell me what 2 Thess 2.11 says and compare it to Titus 1.2 and Hebrews 6.18, and fuck, that's supposedly the same author!
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JohnM81 wrote:Because I believe a book is the inspired work of God and have been able to explain every contradiction by going back to the original hebrew/greek that I have encountered.
In that case, you agree with the fact that the God of the Jews did not create the world, that he is not moral but fully capable of evil, and that mankind is only seperated from god by lifespan?

What, you don't believe things that are derived from the actual earliest surviving texts? Surprise. Surprise.


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They could say that "last" is vague and claim that it could refer to the last words he said before he started to die, and the last words before his soul left his body.

Something stupid like that.
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Also, this idiot is mistaking the story of Lot, just like every other Biblical apologist.
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It's very common for the really hardcore Bible geeks to claim that the "original Greek/Hebrew" magically solves all problems, but they prefer to leave this as a vague suggestion. When you start pointing out actual factual contradictions, their precious Greek/Hebrew doesn't really help them, because the important contradictions are not about the semantics of a particular word choice anyway.

Besides, after all their study of "original Greek/Hebrew", you'd think they would have learned that those ancient cultures didn't enforce a rigid separation of fact and fiction the way we do. This simple fact totally blows away their entire ideology and they know it, which is why they never address it. There is no reason to believe that the original authors even understood the whole concept of historical accuracy, never mind obeying it strictly when they did their writing.
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It's actually generally a bluff. There are folks out there painstakingly working from the earliest copies they can find... The problem is what's laid out is so starkly out of sync with Fundie dogma(See above post for just a few) it becomes clear if you've had a token interest in the origins of the religion, you know they're just bluffing with no cards.

Of course, folks like him reject the seperation of Creator and Jewish God. They reject that Job means mankind can be it's own salvation. They reject all the fun bits that they don't like, and they have the gall to pretend not to notice the actual original gospels dug up, so infuriatingly. After all, they follow the same cribbed and edited sheet as the Catholics. Dirty historians, finding more!
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Darth Wong wrote:It's very common for the really hardcore Bible geeks to claim that the "original Greek/Hebrew" magically solves all problems, but they prefer to leave this as a vague suggestion. When you start pointing out actual factual contradictions, their precious Greek/Hebrew doesn't really help them, because the important contradictions are not about the semantics of a particular word choice anyway.

Besides, after all their study of "original Greek/Hebrew", you'd think they would have learned that those ancient cultures didn't enforce a rigid separation of fact and fiction the way we do. This simple fact totally blows away their entire ideology and they know it, which is why they never address it. There is no reason to believe that the original authors even understood the whole concept of historical accuracy, never mind obeying it strictly when they did their writing.
Doesn't using the "original hebrew" argument to resolve issues that go beyond semantics destroy the whole biblical infallibility thing? I mean, aren't they themselves admitting that any passage of the bible might be made up when they use that argument?
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John, I am curious how the original Greek answers the charge that, in Luke 2, Quirinius was not appointed governor of Syria until after Herod had died?
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Considering that the Tahlmud was written somewhere around 400 BC with the intent of creating/codifying Jewish history/myth, it's actually one of the best examples out there of the different attitude toward conflating history and myth because its the most famous and widely read example of it being done.
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Broomstick wrote:Judgment for the Ancient Egyptians was not about belief, it was about actions - you didn't need to believe in order to pass the test. Salvation through works rather than faith, in your terms. You could profess all the belief in the Gods you wanted but if you were a lying scoundrel your soul would be devoured. You could be an Ancient Atheist and, if your conduct was moral and you yourself truthful, you would pass into the afterlife as a worthy person.
On the other hand your corpse has to remain recognizeable for all eternity for the whole thing to work. That's a major pain in the ass.
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Junghalli wrote:
Broomstick wrote:Judgment for the Ancient Egyptians was not about belief, it was about actions - you didn't need to believe in order to pass the test. Salvation through works rather than faith, in your terms. You could profess all the belief in the Gods you wanted but if you were a lying scoundrel your soul would be devoured. You could be an Ancient Atheist and, if your conduct was moral and you yourself truthful, you would pass into the afterlife as a worthy person.
On the other hand your corpse has to remain recognizeable for all eternity for the whole thing to work. That's a major pain in the ass.
Actually, the soul/spirit could inhabit a statue if necessary, which is why they and portraits of the deceased were included in graves. Not as good as your actual corpse, but an acceptable substitute if Something Dreadful occurred to your mummy. Of course, it was the wealthy who could afford those "lifeboats', the poor just hoped for the best (and that was in the later dynasties - originally only the highest folks were embalmed, everyone else was basically stuck in a sand dune).
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JohnM81 wrote:Well Im off to bed. Alyrium Denryle I will reply to you next because thats where Im at in reading the thread on page 6.
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Alyrium Denryle wrote:
JohnM81 wrote:Well Im off to bed. Alyrium Denryle I will reply to you next because thats where Im at in reading the thread on page 6.
I am still waiting
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Darth Wong wrote:
Alyrium Denryle wrote:
JohnM81 wrote:Well Im off to bed. Alyrium Denryle I will reply to you next because thats where Im at in reading the thread on page 6.
I am still waiting
Christians love to pull that "I'll get back to you after I look it up" indefinite delaying trick.
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Alyrium Denryle wrote: I know. Unfortunately it is against board rules to e-stalk him, nor am I that creepy. So I suppose I just get to sit and steep my fingers like mr. burns

Well its not like the clock is ticking, whats the worst that couldd happen, you die and never hear his rebuttal

if you DID die and john met you on the other side to finish the debate would that be heaven or hell?
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Thank you for your answers.......
I should have stated from the beginning that I had not decided on a specific "Sect" of Fundamentalism beyond Christian. If someone has a specific sect as suggestion, I can adapt and change to the one they suggest.

Duchess, some of your ideas are quite helpful including the idea of no privacy whatsoever. The main character, as a shape shifter, would find that to be hell. Only wear dresses as well, being used to jeans (even if she likes dresses) would find that. I assume take away her laptop, no cell phone. If she is scholastic, trying to push her into more domestic education such as home economics, would that fit. How about if she was taking Karate before, stopping her from that and even practicing? What sect was your parents?

I am also curious about what language or phases might Fundy families use a lot. Something that might make the look and feel be more genuine?
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I've spent a lot of time with fundies, including dinners at their houses, so I do have some experience:

Tip 1: Fundies tend to speak in an odd way where they mix metaphor and reality. So instead of saying "I was up in my room praying last night", they would say "God came to me last night". Instead of saying "members of my religion", they would say "those who are in the Lord" or "those who walk with God". They do not speak literally; they actually tend to speak in a manner which, if interpreted literally, would be completely absurd. They speak about God as if he's a living, breathing person who hangs around with them, and when they speak about God, it is in a non-literal, somewhat poetic way.

Tip 2: Fundies like to say "Christ Jesus" instead of "Jesus Christ". Don't ask me why.

Tip 3: Fundies take the before-dinner grace very seriously. They speak as if God is someone who is literally hovering around the chandelier, and is listening and nodding and taking requests. They will ask for very literal things: they will ask him to give them guidance in <insert upcoming efforts here>, they will ask him to help little Timmy get better grades in school, they will ask him to heal Aunt Phyllis's lung cancer, etc. And they will not show a hint of irony or sarcasm; they honestly think there's a pretty good chance that he will intervene. And they're not above asking for stupid selfish shit, like a raise at work, or fixing the car's air conditioner, or restoration of a receding hairline.

Tip 4: Fundie grace and prayer is loud, and public, and is a group activity. When they start to pray, they expect everyone in the room to join in. They may even get into a circle and hold hands, and they will expect outsiders to join in. They do not really make allowances for people to refuse to participate in this behaviour. It is simply expected, and to be honest, I don't know how they would react if someone flatly refused.

Tip 5: When fundies pray, they spend a lot of time thanking God for everything good that has ever happened in the world or their lives or the lives of anyone they know. I've actually attended dinners where I was afraid the food would get cold, because they were taking so fucking long to finish the grace.

In short, try to imagine people who truly, honestly believe that God is in the room, and that he's like a weary single mother with self-esteem issues who recently came into a lot of money. You have to be sooooo thankful and make sure she knows how much you love her, and respect her, and thank her for working sooooo hard for you. But you also want to sneak in a few requests while you're at it.
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Darth Wong wrote:Tip 4: Fundie grace and prayer is loud, and public, and is a group activity. When they start to pray, they expect everyone in the room to join in. They may even get into a circle and hold hands, and they will expect outsiders to join in. They do not really make allowances for people to refuse to participate in this behaviour. It is simply expected, and to be honest, I don't know how they would react if someone flatly refused.
They react really, really badly to that.

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Broomstick wrote:
Darth Wong wrote:Tip 4: Fundie grace and prayer is loud, and public, and is a group activity. When they start to pray, they expect everyone in the room to join in. They may even get into a circle and hold hands, and they will expect outsiders to join in. They do not really make allowances for people to refuse to participate in this behaviour. It is simply expected, and to be honest, I don't know how they would react if someone flatly refused.
They react really, really badly to that.

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That's what I figured. The last time I was in that situation, I just played along. I may be a blunt and confrontational person by nature, but I can read people well enough to know when a confrontation is just not worth the bother.
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