The Duchess of Zeon wrote:Shit, I'm less Russian than you are, Broomstick. I'm as Russian as fucking bochwurst. My family nontheless lived there for about 150 years, so I have a certain affinity with the Russian people which may or may not be misplaced.
Part of the problem with that region is the "you aren't really X even though your family has lived in Xland for YYYY years!" attitude. But let's be honest, it's not restricted to just Eastern Europe - think of all those Koreans who have lived in Japan all their lives, have never been outside Japan, speak Japanese as their native tongue, and nonetheless legally not Japanese. WTF? Or maybe I'm just biased as an American living in a country where
anyone can become a citizen.
If your family lived in Russian for several generations then as far as I'm concerned their Russian, at least in culture. However, given their social status, their experience was different from Russians in other social strata.
I was just trying to explain that my interest in the Russian side of this conflict was based off of personal reasons rather than the previously supposed ideological nutjobbery attested to, which I actually don't have.
I have an interest in the Russian side of things as well, but I don't kneejerk into assuming the Russians are in the right. Frankly, I know next to nothing about
this particular conflict and don't feel I can have a definitive opinion until I do more research into the matter. I am
inclined to think the Georgians started this clusterfuck, at least as far as the shooting, but that doesn't mean the Russian response was proportional - or maybe it was. As I said, I don't feel I'm yet in a position to have an informed opinion. Due to having to catch up on chores after a very tiring week and what I think is the start of head cold I haven't been able to really research this or look into third-party sources.
Anyway, are you quite done with accusing me of antisemitism?
Excuse me? I don't believe you're an anti-Semite, nor do I recall making that accusation. Perhaps there is some misunderstanding between us arising from sarcasm?
You are the only fucked up bitch on this board who could have managed to turn my willingness to try and COMPROMISE with you and ADMIT TO THE CRIMES OF THE TSARIST ERA onto an attack on your family! And here I admired you and respected you and now I'm just goddamned well crying over the fact that you've chosen to misinterpret me so thoroughly.
Well, gee, maybe after generations of hearing "you aren't really Russians" we DO tend to be a bit kneejerk - that
is what I thought you were saying and if that wasn't what was intended then I apologize for the misinterpreting your words.
The goddamned Tsarists did some absolutely horrible things to Jews, including the fact that they CONSIDERED THEM TO BE PARASITES WHO WERE NOT ACTUALLY RUSSIANS AND NOT ACTUALLY PART OF THE RUSSIAN STATE.
Let's be honest here - that's what just about everyone in Europe did (and some still do). Don't just tar the Russians with the brush when they're far from the only guilty party. Hell, in their defense what they mostly did was impose the Pale of Settlement as opposed to simply attempting to exterminate them as the Nazis did - not that the Pale was a wonderful thing, but it wasn't the worst of all possible situations, either.
Because you WANT me to be an evil autocrat? Because you've decided in your head that I am one and I can't ever change, or something? What the hell did I do to deserve that?
Marina, your lust for authoritarian government is ... well, let's just say that we are in great disagreement on how to govern a nation and I suspect we're going to continue to differ. I don't think you're incapable of change, it's just that you think in such absolute terms that even your best ideas aren't workable in the real world.
Nobody likes the current situation in South Ossetia. That's why the whole world is looking at it going "Shit - this could get even uglier". Then you come waltzing in declaring one side morally better than the other or some such and accusing anyone with a different opinion of "Russiaphobia" - it's just not in accord with reality. There is no "moral" way to conduct war, which is when you kill people and break things. Civilians
always get killed. You can't attack troops in a city
without getting "collateral damage" which, when you get down to it, are non-combatants bleeding to death in the streets.
I grew up in an ethnically Russian family in the US during the Cold War. If anyone had an experience of "Russiaphobia" you'd expect it to be me but I just didn't see it. We had some concern when one of my sisters applied for a job with the Department of Defense but it turned out the Feds were
disappointed we hadn't maintained the language in our family. There was certainly a conflict between the
governments of the US and USSR, and some fears one both sides were quite legitimate, but this "Russiaphobia" you speak of... I just don't see it. The Russians have, historically, acted as arrogant, overbearing assholes at times which is more or less true of ANY empire-building nation. That's not bias against Russia, that's knowing history.
I AM working on changing that. Now that I've come to accept how this country's course is wrong, I'm actually going to pony up and get the fuck out--just give me seven or eight years to get my life in order, thanks much.
Well, I hope you find a nation to your liking. Myself, I'm inclined to stay - my experience with traveling outside the US made me realize that I am, for better or worse, very much American so I guess I'll be staying and trying to make the best of it. The course of the US is capable of changing, I am optimistic it will be for the better within my lifetime.
Having minor noble ancestry does not make you nobility, nor, in this day and age, guarantee you shit.
As if I don't know that already. I learned that the goddamned hard way, thank you very much. Granted, I probably am a lot more bitter than anyone who was born poor, but you can't fault me for that, I think, with such an abrupt fall from grace and prosperity as I had.
Being poor sucks even when you're used to it - having to learn the necessary survival skills on the fly is even worse. My family
does have centuries of experience in getting by on very little, my parents' foray into the middle class did not erase that from our family culture. In that, the peasantry does have an advantage.