Axis Kast wrote:Since when do "traditional family values" feature placing tremendous personal opportunities on hold in order to succor someone who is legally an adult?
How about when your entire platform is to do exactly that?
I'm not saying I'd be happy if I were Bristol Palin, but the standard of parental sacrifice you demand is exceptionally high. This isn't somebody who is need of intensive care.
Bristol by herself? Maybe not. Bristol, a 17yo with a baby due in 4 months, who is probably not ready for the demands on her time that a baby needs? No, she's not going to need a lot of help.
As already mentioned, even if Sarah Palin and her husband decide to become the primary source of sustenance for Bristol and her child, they are more than capable of doing that independent of their professional development.
Where I come from, teachers that just gave birth often take a full year of leave. Teachers that are fathers to a newborn can time it right and get the majority of the school year in leave as well. And this is for a perfectly healthy baby too, not one with Down's Syndrome, which takes a significant amount of more time to take care of through the first
5 years, and after that, still more time than a healthy child. Am I suggesting that Palin put her career totally on hold during that time? No, but should she be willing to accept such a huge advancement at a time like this? We're talking about going from the governor of one of the smallest states (for 20 months, none the less) to the VP of the country, with an infant with Down's syndrome, and a daughter who is not ready to take care of her soon to be newborn child. Not only do I think she's not qualified to do the job, but she has parental constraints on top of that.
At what point can parents stop paying for their children's mistakes? At 17? At 18? At 19?
You can't give an answer to that question, primarily because it's such a vague question. My parents are paying (literally) for one of my mistakes right now. That mistake was not searching for a job back in October and November, but instead starting my search in February. If I had started my search back in October, I could be earning $45k/year right now, which is more than enough to live off for a single guy. As for Bristol's mistake? Well technically her parent's stop paying for that when she's no longer a legal dependent of them. Realistically, it's when she can take care of herself and her child without any help from anyone. Which to be brutally honest, I don't think will happen for some time now.
Was Cheney wrong to run because he had a gay daughter toward whom John Edwards was inconsiderate in a public debate?
A lesbian as a daughter, who although controversial is not in need of nearly constant attention or help versus a pregnant daughter and infant son with Down's syndrome, both of whom will need nearly constant attention and/or help.
What sorts of jobs are appropriate for a parent? Should Palin resign as governor, right now, in order to shield Bristol from further attention? Can anyone with a child ethically run for public office?
Q1: Any that they're qualified to perform. Q2: No, not unless Bristol really doesn't want that attention (okay that's probably not the way to word that, because she probably doesn't want the attention), in which case, Bristol would need to make a decision: ask her mother to remove her from the spotlight (by resigning), or remove herself from the spotlight. Q3: What kind of bullshit question is this? Many past presidents had young children when they assumed the Oval Office. Bill Clinton's daughter was 12 when he was elected. JFK had 2 children under 5 when he took office, and a third that died soon after birth.