Exonerate wrote:She's usually a bit shy, but is very friendly once you get to know her.
Well, let me see. I think the chance that she's interested but just too shy to do anything about it is about 50/50, maybe 60/40 in your favour. Since you're friends with her, that adds more importance to the relationship, and being as young as you are, she'd have to be really sure that she had very strong feelings for you because there's a definite chance that your relationship won't last through high school/college/life after college to the point where you'd get married, have 2.5 kids and live happily ever after. It could, but it probably wouldn't. She would know that she'd essentially have to choose between dating you for a while or being your friend for possibly years and years to come. So, although she might be interested, she might value your friendship too much to say anything about any feelings she may or may not have for you.
There would always be the chance that if you asked her out she'd say yes because you would have shown her that you cared enough for her to put yourself out on a limb to get her, but there's also the chance that she'd say no because she'd be afraid that would ruin your friendship and things might get weird.
And if she doesn't have any feelings at all for you, as long as you didn't stalk her or anything, seems like things would go on as they have been. She's been ok with ignoring the situation so far, so there's no reason to believe that it would change after you confront her about it, if you ever do.
*shrug* That's all I can come up with.
Where is that "wtf" smilie when I need it...
You asked for useless advice. I supplied some. What's so 'WTF' about that?
) Anyways, she knows that I like her, but is choosing to ignore the fact that I do. So, what's your read about her feelings towards me? Neutral? We're still friendly, and I think she's suspected a long time...
