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Norade wrote:
avianmosquito wrote:
tim31 wrote:Mate did you just find out about this whole internet thing last week or what?
No, I just didn't register here until just recently.
*Zing* Way to miss the joke...

Yeah, yeah, I missed the joke. What time was that? midnight? After not sleeping for a couple days? Hmm, I wonder why.
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Quit being so defensive, skeeter. We don't know how long you sleep, and you're starting alot of semi-clueless threads.

Pace yourself.
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CaptainChewbacca wrote:Quit being so defensive, skeeter. We don't know how long you sleep, and you're starting alot of semi-clueless threads.

Pace yourself.
I'm sorry. I know I'm too defensive over something that isn't a big deal. I'm not going to lie, it's not just about my pride, please hear me out.

Really, most of you guys have been really good about this, I shouldn't be treating you like this. The reason I'm like this, besides just being a belligerant fool, is because of someone close to me. I'm still a fool, but I'm a fool because I can't deal with my own faults without worrying about her. When I write these, there's a small child on my lap that thinks I'm the best thing since bipedal locomotion. When I write, I can't seem to back off, or think, or even admit I've made a mistake because I'm worried what she'll think, and I don't want to see that look on her face when she says "Daddy, why? Why are you so hard on yourself?" I know this doesn't sound so bad, I've been told much worse, but it's just painful, especially since I can't answer her question. I try, I try to answer her, "I'm not" or "It's all true" but I can't. I can't say anything, I can't tell my little girl her role model isn't worth it. I hope you understand.
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avianmosquito wrote:When I write, I can't seem to back off, or think, or even admit I've made a mistake because I'm worried what she'll think... I hope you understand.
Frankly this sounds like a serious psychological issue. Assuming this isn't a bizarre metaphor, it's also a bad idea. Admitting and learning from your mistakes is a vital skill which children absolutely should see in their role models.
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Starglider wrote:
avianmosquito wrote:When I write, I can't seem to back off, or think, or even admit I've made a mistake because I'm worried what she'll think... I hope you understand.
Frankly this sounds like a serious psychological issue. Assuming this isn't a bizarre metaphor, it's also a bad idea. Admitting and learning from your mistakes is a vital skill which children absolutely should see in their role models.

It's a fancy way of saying "I find backing off in front of my daughter to be FUCKING EMBARRASING." That's not so hard to understand, and takes less time. Maybe I should of just sais that. (Thankfully, she's at school right now, so I don't have to worry about it.)
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avianmosquito wrote:When I write, I can't seem to back off, or think, or even admit I've made a mistake because I'm worried what she'll think, and I don't want to see that look on her face when she says "Daddy, why? Why are you so hard on yourself?" I know this doesn't sound so bad, I've been told much worse, but it's just painful, especially since I can't answer her question. I try, I try to answer her, "I'm not" or "It's all true" but I can't. I can't say anything, I can't tell my little girl her role model isn't worth it. I hope you understand.
Dude, this is a story for your daughter? Aww, it all makes sense now. Heck yea, make this stuff as fabulous as possible, it will give her some joy.
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Jeremy wrote:
avianmosquito wrote:When I write, I can't seem to back off, or think, or even admit I've made a mistake because I'm worried what she'll think, and I don't want to see that look on her face when she says "Daddy, why? Why are you so hard on yourself?" I know this doesn't sound so bad, I've been told much worse, but it's just painful, especially since I can't answer her question. I try, I try to answer her, "I'm not" or "It's all true" but I can't. I can't say anything, I can't tell my little girl her role model isn't worth it. I hope you understand.
Dude, this is a story for your daughter? Aww, it all makes sense now. Heck yea, make this stuff as fabulous as possible, it will give her some joy.
No, it's not just for her, although it might be dedicated to her, and it's not a children's story, (I might write the occasional "young adult" short story) but she's one of the people that proofreads for me. (The only reliable one, might I add.) But I will occasionally put an idea in because I think it'll appeal to her. (The kokome being the first and the most important.)
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avianmosquito wrote:
Jeremy wrote:
avianmosquito wrote:When I write, I can't seem to back off, or think, or even admit I've made a mistake because I'm worried what she'll think, and I don't want to see that look on her face when she says "Daddy, why? Why are you so hard on yourself?" I know this doesn't sound so bad, I've been told much worse, but it's just painful, especially since I can't answer her question. I try, I try to answer her, "I'm not" or "It's all true" but I can't. I can't say anything, I can't tell my little girl her role model isn't worth it. I hope you understand.
Dude, this is a story for your daughter? Aww, it all makes sense now. Heck yea, make this stuff as fabulous as possible, it will give her some joy.
No, it's not just for her, although it might be dedicated to her, and it's not a children's story, (I might write the occasional "young adult" short story) but she's one of the people that proofreads for me. (The only reliable one, might I add.) But I will occasionally put an idea in because I think it'll appeal to her. (The kokome being the first and the most important.)
May your daughter turn out better than I would expect given what I know about half of her genetic source.
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Norade wrote:
Dude, this is a story for your daughter? Aww, it all makes sense now. Heck yea, make this stuff as fabulous as possible, it will give her some joy.
No, it's not just for her, although it might be dedicated to her, and it's not a children's story, (I might write the occasional "young adult" short story) but she's one of the people that proofreads for me. (The only reliable one, might I add.) But I will occasionally put an idea in because I think it'll appeal to her. (The kokome being the first and the most important.)
May your daughter turn out better than I would expect given what I know about half of her genetic source.
And may you never have children.
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