Not at all, I merely have respect for Alyerium for being able to do something I as yet haven't. I might have respect for JSF and/or Stark if they didn't act like assholes (add arrogant for Stark) in the process. I don't give a damn how you deal with a problem, be it force of will, meds,or what have you. I merely find the idea that I should be automatically accepting of something to make me "normal" no matter the cost to what really is me, my mind, with no reservations dubious at best. I'm somewhat leery of alcohol and opposed to personally using leisure drugs specifically because of their mind altering properties. I've accepted the changes brought about by the medication because the positives have outweighed the negatives. Even so, it was still a gradual and careful approach in finding my current level of meds. The thing with meds in this case is that if there are undesirable results you remove them, and when your brain chemistry returns to its normal state, the changes are reversed. The temporary nature of the changes in the event of undesirable ones is one of the advantages of treatment versus cure. Now if you could actually prove that this cure, would do nothing to my personality, save removal of certain compulsions and certain anxieties (in a way similar to what my current meds do), alter the general mentality regarding with which I approach situations/concepts, or change my memories, then I would strongly consider it after consulting professional opinions. I simply doubt our ability to develop methods that meets all those criteria while being a permanent "fix" now or in the foreseeable future. Maybe I'll be proven wrong, if so good, but even then the person still deserves the basic human right of being able to forgo the procedure. We are dealing with the mind here, the very essence of their being, not something society should be able to take away merely because trying to compensate for such individuals is inconvenient and at worse expensive.Knife wrote:The stigma of mental health follows here. If you will yourself to be better, then you're tough and ok. If you take a med or therapy to do it, well that just isn't right, you should just will yourself into it. It's silly, but as they continuously say, it's there choice.Stark wrote:It's amusing that people who take steps to deal with their problems also face these challenges, but you don't respect that because they disagree with you. I'm personally not seeing the gulf between 'medicated' and 'cured' beyond a cure actually working as opposed to moderating the symptoms, but I guess wanting a better life for myself and my children is crazy.Wing Commander MAD wrote:PS: Alyrium, my hats off to you for being able to leave your social safety net in pursuance of your dreams. I am no where near that point (albeit my social contacts are basically reduced to family at this point), though I hope to be able to someday.
Oh, Stark wanting a better life for yourself and your children and taking steps to achieve that isn't crazy. Expecting that ever other person share the same idea of what a better life is and what the acceptable costs are, however, is crazy.