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Metahive wrote:Under what rock do you live where calling a person getting raped right then and there being funny is not a fucking encouragement? The only reason it wasn't a more direct call to action is because that would have been a possible felony and even a dumbass like Tosh knows better than to set himself up for a lawsuit like that.
What kind of idiot would decide to rape someone because this Tosh douchebag would find it funny?

That was a rhetorical question; please don't answer it.
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Bullshit. All it takes it one or two drunken idiots going "Yah, hey, let's be part of the show!" for tragedy to ensue. It was clumsy, unfunny, and, as I said, all out of proportion to the heckle. A come-back like "Wassamatter you frigid cunt, can't get any?" doesn't imply assault on a real person in the real world would be in any way funny and would fit into the schtick just as well.
What kind of idiot would decide to rape someone because this Tosh douchebag would find it funny?
Someone inclined to rape, or who has raped, of course. Rapists do exist, you know that, right? And they look just like everyone else so you can't pick 'em out of a crowd by sight. Get a crowd of a hundred or a couple hundred odds are you've got at least one in the crowd. Add in some alcohol to lower inhibitions and there you go.
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I am going to have to agree with Alyrium on this. Then again, I too don't have much in the way boundaries when it comes to humor, I especially enjoy schadenfreude, and tend to like most of Daniel Tosh's stuff. Lagmonster is right about not confronting a performer on stage. My question is why is this in N&P and not someplace more appropriate like OT or Testing? It seems like this is more of an attempt to start off the Two Minutes Hate than it is something newsworthy to discuss. Hell, SLAM would be a better fit than N&P if the desire was to debate the morality of rape jokes. Zod, out of curiosity, what exactly was your rationale for posting this here instead of the aforementioned sections?
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Broomstick wrote:Someone inclined to rape, or who has raped, of course. Rapists do exist, you know that, right? And they look just like everyone else so you can't pick 'em out of a crowd by sight. Get a crowd of a hundred or a couple hundred odds are you've got at least one in the crowd. Add in some alcohol to lower inhibitions and there you go.
Okay, that's true, but how is it any more of an encouragement to rape than everything else he'd been saying?
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Ralin wrote:
Broomstick wrote:Someone inclined to rape, or who has raped, of course. Rapists do exist, you know that, right? And they look just like everyone else so you can't pick 'em out of a crowd by sight. Get a crowd of a hundred or a couple hundred odds are you've got at least one in the crowd. Add in some alcohol to lower inhibitions and there you go.
Okay, that's true, but how is it any more of an encouragement to rape than everything else he'd been saying?
Because he's pointing towards an actual person present within the crowd right then and there, you stupid gorilla ballsack. What's so hard to understand about that?
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It should probably be pointed out that studies show a person's acceptance and enjoyment of rape jokes correlates with a greater acceptance of rape and self-reported behaviours of rape in general. Which makes it a pretty hugely threatening environment.
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Zablorg wrote:It should probably be pointed out that studies show a person's acceptance and enjoyment of rape jokes correlates with a greater acceptance of rape and self-reported behaviours of rape in general. Which makes it a pretty hugely threatening environment.
Do you have a source?
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I have a couple on hand, both should be available through a simple google search

"The Effect of Sexist Humor and Type of Rape on Men's Self-Reported Rape Proclivity and Victim Blame", Current Research in Social Psychology (Vol. 13, No. 10), 2007

"The Enjoyment of Sexist Humor, Rape Attitudes, and Relationship Aggression in College Students", Sex Roles (Vol. 38, Nos. 9/10), 1998
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It is more or less kosher for the preformer at a comedy club to say whatever they want to you and they will get the support of the audience in response to a heckler. ANY heckler. About the only part of this story that strikes me as surprising is that the management bothered offering her free tickets, the general policy towards hecklers of any sort in a comedy club is to kick them out of the club entirely. Some places go so far as to ban them for life.

She would have been well within her rights to leave or to complain to the management but if you go to a comedy club and interrupt the comedian on stage god help you. Patton Oswalt famously suggested a heckler who interrupted him was doing so to avoid "rape goblins."
I love the guy who's terrified at any kind of silence, like, 'He'd better say pussy soon, or aaagh!' ... I'd hate to see you at a funeral or a wedding or something. 'Skynyrd! Shit, I'm sorry. Sorry, man. It was like 20 seconds of quiet, I thought I was going to shit my pants. I got real scared. My mom told me if it was quiet for more than 15 minutes, then goblins come out of the ground and rape you. So I thought I'd -- I was trying to protect everybody by yelling. I thought I would scream and make a weird chicken noise and scare the rape goblins away ... Is everyone OK? Has no one been raped? Then I think I'm right. I think I just saved the whole room.
Interrupting any comedian makes you the point of ridicule for the rest of the night for that comedian any any comedians coming after them. That's what happens at a comedy club. If you interrupt a comedian who is crude and offensive in his regular set then expecting anything but the same with added vitriol for having broken the flow of his set is utter stupidity. The man already established that racism an sexism were part of his standard routine, what did she expect to happen?
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The last time I was in a comedy club, one of the comedians tried being offensive with race, and there was some laughter from the audience but it was subdued. I took this as a sign that much of the audience didn't think it was particularly funny. If the audience reacted with uproarious laughing and cheering, I would have taken it as a sign that they are pretty racist themselves, so I understand where this woman is coming from when she was upset about the audience laughing at the jokes.

Having said that, heckling is actually a really obnoxious thing to do, which is why I've never done it. The audience paid real money out of their pockets to see this comedian perform, and unless you the heckler are actually funnier than the comedian, you are just disrupting their good time. That's a whole lot of people whose evening you are disrupting so you can make a point.

Also, look at it from the comedian's point of view: you are there to perform, and some poison pill audience member is trying to make himself part of the act. You want the audience to have a good time; this is your livelihood, and some guy is trying to fuck it up. Of course comedians are incredibly hostile and abusive to hecklers. Do you think they do this just because they're mean? No, it's a defensive reaction, which is why subsequent comedians will probably continue the abuse. They're sticking together because they know that hecklers are just plain bad for business.
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Wing Commander MAD wrote:I am going to have to agree with Alyrium on this. Then again, I too don't have much in the way boundaries when it comes to humor, I especially enjoy schadenfreude, and tend to like most of Daniel Tosh's stuff. Lagmonster is right about not confronting a performer on stage. My question is why is this in N&P and not someplace more appropriate like OT or Testing? It seems like this is more of an attempt to start off the Two Minutes Hate than it is something newsworthy to discuss. Hell, SLAM would be a better fit than N&P if the desire was to debate the morality of rape jokes. Zod, out of curiosity, what exactly was your rationale for posting this here instead of the aforementioned sections?
To see how many of you disgusting fucks think its okay for someone to tell a woman, to her face, that she should be gang-raped on the spot, maybe?

Tosh isn't that funny, but this was very bad and very low even for him. Defending it because you have no standards for your comedy is very bad and very low of you.

I don't know about the point that's she shouldn't have heckled, I'm of the opinion that bullshit should be called out but I can see the anti-heckler point.
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Metahive wrote:
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Broomstick wrote:Encouraging a felony assault/rape in response to heckling is all out of proportion to the offense, shithead.
He didn't encourage it. He just said it would be really funny if it happened.

It's as offensive as hell, but it's not a call to action.
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Under what rock do you live where calling a person getting raped right then and there being funny is not a fucking encouragement?
George Carlin once yelled "Would someone please shove a cock in that man's [a heckler] mouth already? Because that's what he really wants!" in the middle of his show when some asshole started heckling him during a religious joke. Was George encouraging oral/penile insertion without prior consent or not?

Discuss.
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General Zod wrote:How the hell did this fuckwit actually get hired at Comedy Central?
People are into "shock" humour. Look at Family Guy and South Park as key examples. Comedy Central presumably wants to chase that dollar.
I like to think there's a fine line between "shock" humor and stopping short of saying a person in the crowd should be savagely assaulted. I bet if he tried this in Florida he could have gotten his ass shot on stage and the shooter would've been able to plead stand your ground.
Now that would have been comedy.
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Only similar on the surface. Please don't tell me you think it's equivalent for a man joking about religion to say another man should be shut up by a penis in his mouth, and for a man joking about rape to say a woman should be gang-raped by 5 men.
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Crown wrote: George Carlin once yelled "Would someone please shove a cock in that man's [a heckler] mouth already? Because that's what he really wants!" in the middle of his show when some asshole started heckling him during a religious joke. Was George encouraging oral/penile insertion without prior consent or not?

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Suppose he was in Texas, singled out a black man in the audience and said "wouldn't it be funny if 5 guys lynched this nigger?" I like to think that comedians should have repercussions if they're doing a bad job. Sure, they're there to make money, but if I did a bad job where I worked I could expect to be fired.
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Zablorg wrote:It should probably be pointed out that studies show a person's acceptance and enjoyment of rape jokes correlates with a greater acceptance of rape and self-reported behaviours of rape in general. Which makes it a pretty hugely threatening environment.
And that pretty much sums up the problem with rape culture.

Which is why i am opposed to rape-jokes altogether. Just like you should be opposed to racist jokes in a society that has issues with racism - the jokes reinforce the problem by perpetuating stereotypes and giving the impression that it's not actually a serious problem.
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Crown wrote:George Carlin once yelled "Would someone please shove a cock in that man's [a heckler] mouth already? Because that's what he really wants!" in the middle of his show when some asshole started heckling him during a religious joke. Was George encouraging oral/penile insertion without prior consent or not?
I brought this up a page ago. It's obviously more of an incitement to violence because he was (sarcastically, he would have said) directly asking someone in the audience to do it. Safe in the knowledge that the odds of there being someone being lunatic enough to drop their pants and try would be basically zilch. I don't know dick about law, but I would have argued that Carlin's comment might have landed him in legal trouble if the crowd had turned on the guy. I'm not so convinced about Tosh's. But only because his jackass phrasing was wishy-washy enough that I think he skirted the edge of criminal liability.
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Zablorg wrote:"The Effect of Sexist Humor and Type of Rape on Men's Self-Reported Rape Proclivity and Victim Blame", Current Research in Social Psychology (Vol. 13, No. 10), 2007

"The Enjoyment of Sexist Humor, Rape Attitudes, and Relationship Aggression in College Students", Sex Roles (Vol. 38, Nos. 9/10), 1998
Can someone who trusts PDFs dig up their methodology.

The well in this area has been poisoned so badly by people like Gail Dines, that I wouldn't be surprised if they counted men answering a question like "Have you ever thought about having sex with a woman you've only seen?" in the affirmative as potential rapists.
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Lagmonster wrote:
Crown wrote:George Carlin once yelled "Would someone please shove a cock in that man's [a heckler] mouth already? Because that's what he really wants!" in the middle of his show when some asshole started heckling him during a religious joke. Was George encouraging oral/penile insertion without prior consent or not?
I brought this up a page ago. It's obviously more of an incitement to violence because he was (sarcastically, he would have said) directly asking someone in the audience to do it. Safe in the knowledge that the odds of there being someone being lunatic enough to drop their pants and try would be basically zilch. I don't know dick about law, but I would have argued that Carlin's comment might have landed him in legal trouble if the crowd had turned on the guy. I'm not so convinced about Tosh's. But only because his jackass phrasing was wishy-washy enough that I think he skirted the edge of criminal liability.
No, he'dve been just as responsible as Carlin would've. The way statutes are written in the US you can't pull the whole "Will no one rid me of this troublesome priest" routine and get away with it.
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Block wrote:
Lagmonster wrote:
Crown wrote:George Carlin once yelled "Would someone please shove a cock in that man's [a heckler] mouth already? Because that's what he really wants!" in the middle of his show when some asshole started heckling him during a religious joke. Was George encouraging oral/penile insertion without prior consent or not?
I brought this up a page ago. It's obviously more of an incitement to violence because he was (sarcastically, he would have said) directly asking someone in the audience to do it. Safe in the knowledge that the odds of there being someone being lunatic enough to drop their pants and try would be basically zilch. I don't know dick about law, but I would have argued that Carlin's comment might have landed him in legal trouble if the crowd had turned on the guy. I'm not so convinced about Tosh's. But only because his jackass phrasing was wishy-washy enough that I think he skirted the edge of criminal liability.
No, he'dve been just as responsible as Carlin would've. The way statutes are written in the US you can't pull the whole "Will no one rid me of this troublesome priest" routine and get away with it.
That's the way the laws are written? It seems to me that calls to violence against abortion doctors (or for that matter, calls for "second amendment solutions" to undesirable politicians) are never punished.
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You have to be able to prove a direct chain of events though. It has to be Person A says something indirect but the meaning is clearly understood, person B goes out and acts on it. In the case of immediate action like a response to "Wouldn't it be funny if she got raped" it'd be easy to prove. Nebulous statements to massive groups about abortion doctors and second amendment remedies is much harder to prove.
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I have no problem with offensive humor, but I just don't understand why people think Daniel Tosh, specifically, is funny. George Carlin could be horrifically offensive, but he was also incredibly intelligent, witty, and had a unique stage presence. Ditto for a dozen other offensive comedians. The OP is spot on that Tosh just seems awkward and uncomfortable up on stage. Even if you take the substance of what he says out of it, he doesn't have any presence. He DOES feel just like some random Mic Night dude. He isn't a performer. And then you get to the substance of his jokes ... admittedly, I am not familiar with his humor, and it's very subjective, but from what I have heard he isn't terribly clever. Just says random offensive bullshit, smiles awkwardly, and keeps blathering. Who actually likes that?
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The format of Daniel Tosh's show kind of gives him an easy ride, because much of the humour comes from the content of the Internet videos that he's showing.
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Serafina wrote:Which is why i am opposed to rape-jokes altogether. Just like you should be opposed to racist jokes in a society that has issues with racism - the jokes reinforce the problem by perpetuating stereotypes and giving the impression that it's not actually a serious problem.
I noticed this thread last night and mentioned to the ol' lady "Tosh made a rape joke and people are mad."

"Rape jokes are never funny." This is an odd statement for her to make considering I can think of two rape related jokes she's laughed audibly at. One is the prisoner shower scene in Naked Gun 33 1/3. The other is some old comic I showed her where Alice (from the Disney Alice in Wonderland) is eating and drinking stuff that says "drink me/ eat me" while the guy watching says "don't drink that!" The ending line is something like "This bitch is gonna get date-raped."

When I brought this up her comment was "that's different." Exactly, it's never funny.... except when it is.

I live in Texas and my Hispanic friends crack racist jokes at me all the time and I respond in kind. Some people think those jokes might be in bad taste. Are we reinforcing stereotypes or poking fun at them?
Ziggy Stardust wrote:I have no problem with offensive humor, but I just don't understand why people think Daniel Tosh, specifically, is funny.
I could ask the same thing about Dane Cook, Martin Lawrence, Kathy Griffin, or any other number of comedians I don't personally enjoy, Daniel Tosh being more "unoteworthy" for me in his stand-up (I can't get through an entire set of his, I get bored). His show is funny because he just takes jabs at random videos from the Internet.
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TheFeniX wrote:I noticed this thread last night and mentioned to the ol' lady "Tosh made a rape joke and people are mad."
I keep asking people but so far all I seem to get is goose-stepping around the answer. How is "wouldn't it be funny if 5 guys raped her" a joke? Are people's expectations of humor at a comedy club so low that a guy could get away with making nothing but barnyard noises and they'd still call it a joke?
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