Ahriman238 wrote:I got nothing formal, but the parents were pretty clear. Stay in the car unless directed otherwise, keep your hands on the wheel in plain sight. Be polite, address the officer as "sir" or "ma'am," follow their directions and admit to nothing incriminating. Give up your license and "accidentally" give them the red-light permit in place of the vehicle registration, sheepishly fish out the registration when called on it. That last is not generally applicable, but I feel the rest is a good guideline, at least anywhere on the East Coast.
Yeah. You got this. I think I picked it up from somewhere too.
[For the rest of this I'm assuming you come from a middle-class background; I may be wrong and if so I apologize for the presumption]
But, even among the middle class, this knowledge is not universal. For some it's forgettable, like a lot of the things your parents try to teach you so you'll have more useful life skills to work with. For others... it's never taught at all.
And perhaps one of the reasons there is this endless, mutually hostile clash between the urban poor (mostly black) and the police is that a lot of children growing up in urban poverty do NOT learn this as their habitual reaction to police. They typically had less contact with (their very stressed and hardworking) parents growing up, they spend a lot of time around older peers, whose "bad boy" sub-demographic like to strut and boast about how they are or will grow up to be hardened criminals. People in such a community are accustomed to having to bristle and posture to shoo away random punks and casual pushing.
Which is how you get that anecdote I once read about where someone was doing word association with a three year old child, said "policeman," and the kid jumped up and shouted "I ain't afraid of no po-po!"
This is all speculation, but...
So when policemen expect deference and submission from people in such a community, then even if they bear the police no ill will they are simply not likely to show this deference. Which results in the police cracking down (as they did to the author of the blog post we were talking about). The citizens of this community in turn react with impatience, frustration, and anger, because they perceive injustice.
People from this community, not all but quite a few, see authority figures "disrespecting" them, then they get upset and are vocal about this, which would be normal for day to day interaction in the community. Then they get thrown in jail, and the injustice causes them to regard the police as an occupying army, more or less.
And what it comes down to is that the police expect deference and submission so they can maintain control of difficult situations... but that there is no systematic effort to ensure that
all Americans regard this as a behavioral norm.
Rycon67 wrote:Kamakazie Sith wrote:Zaune wrote:If someone were to try and use stand-your-ground as an excuse for shooting a cop after they got pulled over, the jury might actually buy it.
No, they wouldn't. Thanks for coming and saying something incredibly stupid though.
For better or worse, it wouldn't surprise me if some people did think that way.
I remember hearing about how in 2009 when 4 Oakland, California police officers where shot dead and a fifth wounded that some people where actually celebrating their deaths.
I personally think that's horrible, but as much bad stuff as people do hear about police now days, even if it is only a small percentage of the overall number of law enforcement in the US, I can see why some people might not consider that a bad thing.
On the other hand, we then turn around and wonder exactly why the Oakland police department was Brutality Central when it came time to handle the Occupy Oakland protests...
Well, the citizenry they normally deal with hates their guts and
literally wants them dead. So they turn into a brute squad because it's the only way to do their job- show up at a crime scene, throw their weight around, arrest people, drive off. Doing anything more like what we'd want police to do would require (surprise surprise) a citizenry that didn't want them dead.
So again, the root of the problem is that the police have been turned, in large part against their wishes, into an occupying army. The
discipline-and-punish aspect of their duties takes over, at the expense of the serve-and-protect aspect.