Vympel wrote:Don't you hate it when an 8 page thread pops out of nowhere in the space of the day- and it's so fucking long you can't even begin to participate? Ah fuck it ...
Hey, my apologies, man. I didn't imagine this thread would balloon so fast.
Roby wrote:Wot be friends for, sucka?
Why, exploitation, of course. Isn't that right? Bonjour.
Marina wrote:"Mantua..."
"Oh Mantuan, I am Sordello of your own town..." Dante, in a time of strife and uncertainty, could pack in two short sentences all the emotion and intensity and explaination of the world.
So you see, Eleas, so many people here on ASVS, on SD.net - who seemed to be my friends - Yourself, included - they have come out so strongly against the war. And I must sigh, and shudder, at the vehemence, and know something is lost.
I am sorry that you feel that way. Even more so, I am saddened by the fact that you seem to say that I, by voicing a different opinion to your own, in some way have hurt you personally.
Marina wrote:For even as your opposition, even as the polarization here, dims something, I have made many friends with my stance - Mostly Americans. Which is why I thought of Canto VI. In times like these, the nation-state as with the city-state binds us. Your country is drawn to a certain orbit, mine forges its own destiny, which I must support to the bitter end.
Except for the fact that my opinions aren't necessarily those espoused by my country. I don't particularly adore Sweden. Don't get me wrong - in the event of an invasion, I would be fighting along with the rest. But I can look upon my own country with critical eyes, as opposed to blank adulation.
Marina wrote:And so I have something uniquely in common with anyone who can say their name, and utter in addition to it "I am an American", than with so many around the world. And I pity it, because something is lost in that. But I'm also reassured, because that bond of the citizens of a country has always been there, and so as I read what you have written, I am not angered, or surprised. You will do as your nation does, and I will do as mine does, and we will maintain the faith of each other's courses in opposition. Your friend is Ymir, and mine are those I have made among those who hold America's course.
I don't understand.
Ymir is my friend, that's true. But his opinions aren't my own, either. They aren't even slightly like those of most Swedes I've met. And so it is with all of my friends. They are my friends because while we may argue, we also respect each others' right to hold opinions. We like to debate because it's an exercise of the mind, and because it's just plain fun.
Whereas what you seem to be saying is that you're retreating from people with different allegiances and opinions, in favor of people who think exactly like you.
That sounds like voluntary isolation. It sounds like hiding from diverging opinions. And I'm not sure that it's such a good idea.
Marina wrote:Of course, I do not mean to a sunder a friendship - but where such vehemence is found on issues of life or death, a coolness arises. And so it is today.
I'm sorry you feel that way, but I still consider you a friend, and I'm afraid that's not going to change just because of what's politically convenient to say.
meNNis wrote:Perhaps it was a bit Ad Hominem. Apologies, I wasn't in the best mood perhaps.
It was a textbook ad hominem, but no harm done. Just make sure in the future not to attack before you have your bearings (and your arguments) straight.
meNNis wrote:However, I'd like to see you try and explain how I was in the least bit wimpy :rolleyes:
Your insults were tame, pathetic, and dime a dozen. Lacking in any spark of creativity whatsoever, they were a textbook example of how we talk to each other on ASVS and, to a lesser extent, on SD.net...
...when we're not debating, that is.
If you want to learn how to flame, quit being a sycophantic wannabe. Get thee hence to ASVS and spend a few years there. That stay should serve as a primer, at least.
meNNis wrote:Ah yes, and by the way, you still have not backed up your earlier statement :rolleyes:
You didn't specify a statement for me to back up, remember? You instead elected to commit a rhetorical seppuku.
meNNis wrote:And Dalton, Flaming is my perogative. Especially in this forum, I would think.
You just never learn, do you, kid? Your "perogative" to flame is worth fuck all against Rob's PREROGATIVE, which is to
ban. So get off his back, little monkey, before you by some incredible chance manage to annoy him.