Argh

Jadeite · Post by **Jadeite** » 2003-03-30 10:38pm

People piss me off.

I was talking to a female friend of mine, some of you may remember her from earlier threads, such as "I need Advice" (http://bbs.stardestroyer.net/viewtopic. ... sc&start=0) and my personal favorite when wanting to remind myself of failure, "Dilemna" (http://bbs.stardestroyer.net/viewtopic. ... ght=#86490).

The boyfriend who dumped her way back in the "Dilemna" thread, is starting to regret his decision. Hes not quite sure yet though, but she would most likely say yes to him if he asked her out again.

Normally, this wouldnt matter that much to me, because they didnt last permanently before, and wouldnt be permanent again most likely, but its guaranteed to cause trouble this time.

My best friend, who likes her, and she likes him, are almost going out. I say almost, because he never really asked her out, they just get together to make out and such. He would definitely not take this well.

But anyway, im wondering what I should do in this situation, stay neutral, be against her rehooking up with the guy, or side with her.

Oh yeah, update on that thread above about when I asked her out. I was talking to her on the phone, and found out that if I'd waited two more weeks, the answer may have been different

Jadeite · Post by **Jadeite** » 2003-03-31 12:27am

*Bump*

Sry, had to save this thread from dying before its time.

I just realized, this is the third thread iv started about her. Sorta pathetic huh?

Post by **Darth Wong** » 2003-03-31 12:31am

This is why I don't wish to be a teenager again.

Cal Wright · Post by **Cal Wright** » 2003-03-31 12:34am

Wong has a point too. However, this is going to become a hairy situation. My only advice is to figure what would be in her best interest and go from there. It sounds like there's three of you after that one girl.

Jadeite · Post by **Jadeite** » 2003-03-31 12:39am

It sounds like there's three of you after that one girl.

Yeah, there is, more than that actually, but only three that matter, including me.

This is also going to be very interesting between me and my friend, as I just realized he set me up, intentionally or not.

InnerBrat · Post by **InnerBrat** » 2003-03-31 04:36am

On the subject of 'they're almost going out, but not quite' section, I wasw able to sovle this for my best friend and her current beau - after about two months of 'almost going out but not quite', chararcterised by 'why doesn't he want to go out with me if he keeps kissing me?' I confronted the man, and it turned out he thought they WERE going out: he just hadn't told her.

So, get it out in the open - ask her up fornt what's going on.
This might solve the rest of it if she is going out with him.

On the subject of 'stay neutral, be against her rehooking up with the guy, or side with her' - is it possible it's noe of your business? (sorry to be harsh, but what can you really do?) Stay neutral

Lord_Xerxes · Post by **Lord_Xerxes** » 2003-03-31 04:54am

I feel for you Jade. I'm in a fucked up situation with a girl I like now too. My best advice to you is this: Lots of people are going to tell you lots of things to do. Such as walk away from it, if it's meant to be it will, etc. But in the end you don't really have any control of the situation. The decisions all fall in her hands. So you've got to do whatever you feel is right. And that may be painful or hurtful in one way or another.

Hell, for me...it's killing me day to day. But I couldn't live with myself doing it any other way.

Jadeite · Post by **Jadeite** » 2003-03-31 11:45am

Fine, I think ill stay neutral and try not to get dragged down by fighting, if that happens.

On the subject of 'stay neutral, be against her rehooking up with the guy, or side with her' - is it possible it's noe of your business? (sorry to be harsh, but what can you really do?) Stay neutral

The reason I was asking this is because she wanted to know what side id be on.