Jub wrote: ↑2018-12-31 07:26am
Broomstick wrote: ↑2018-12-31 05:13amIt's one thing if the women (or men, because there's some of that, too) genuinely choose to do that work of their own free will.
It's another thing entirely when they feel compelled to do that sort of work in order to survive - coerced sex is not good, even if the coercion comes from financial pressures rather than the other persons(s) involved.
How is coercion into sex work any different than coercion into any other sort of work? Sex isn't some holy sacred thing even though America treats it that way. Is selling sex any more or less moral than selling one's body and lungs to a coal mine?
Most jobs do not come with a risk of STD's or pregnancy, just to start.
Some people can do casual sex, for some there's nothing casual about it.
Not every job is suited to every person. Currently, half my job at work is balancing the books for the store. I don't have a problem with it. I have a half dozen coworkers who tried doing the job and couldn't stand it, four of which were, apparently, reduced to actual crying and sobbing over it. On the other hand, I probably wouldn't last half a day at the service/returns desk without punching someone in the teeth which, needless to say, would get me fired. Yet there are people who would rather have that job than my job. Likewise, there are people who have no problem with casual sex. For me, personally, it would probably be horribly traumatic (which is why, no matter how hard times have been for me financially, I have never considered it despite knowing people who were quite successful at it).
So yes, we are all "coerced" into work but as a general rule you have
choices. You can find the work that complements you.
The other problem is that sex work STILL carries a stigma in our society. If it becomes known you are or have been a whore at any point in your life you will have it held against you in various areas. Forget a job in politics, for example. Or being trusted with other peoples' children, or a teacher of young children. Forget getting a security clearance. God forbid you are ever involved in a custody dispute, you WILL lose your children. You will not be able to adopt.
You mention coal miners. Yep, they pay a steep price - but they're still seen as good, hardworking sorts. Their illnesses are a tragedy. They can even get compensation (not as easily as they should).
Sex workers? If they're lucky, they
won't be arrested and prosecuted. They get HIV or herpes or syphilis? They deserve it, the whores, right?
Unwanted pregnancy as an occupational hazard? Tough shit, hope you have money for an abortion IF you can get to provider before a time limit kicks in and, oh yes, you might have the kid taken away because you're an unfit mother in the eyes of many.
If it's a man engaged in sex work - well, homosexuals still have bias to deal with, and adding prostitution into it is not going to make the guy more acceptable.
Let's say a young person in the UK decides to pursue sex work to pay for their higher education. If this is a known fact they will have great difficulty getting a visa to the US, and will likely never be able to move here and become a citizen because they will be seen as morally unfit. Granted not everyone wants to move to the US, but for someone who does want that it could be a problem. Use sex-for-profit to fund your education and
good luck if you have any reason to travel to, say, Saudi Arabia or many African nations where prostitution merits the death penalty. For those nations,
even worse if you're a male prostitute because they execute homosexuals, too. Again, it may not matter for many but for some it would be a disastrous choice.
There are still steep consequences to that career choice and will be for at least another generation.
Ask any sex worker why they do it and the answers will sound a hell of a lot like the reason the rest of us work a more mundane job.
I've actually met a fair number of sex workers. While there are some who do it because it's a job, I've also met other ones who got into it because they were, essentially, sold while underage to people who like to fuck kids. I've met sex workers who fucked people because that's how they supported their drug habit. I've met sex workers who essentially had no other job skills and resorted to it out of desperation but they didn't in any way like it. I did meet one who prostituted himself to pay for his doctorate, he seemed pretty OK all around but seemed to be the exception.
Let me be clear - I, personally, would prefer to see sex work legalized, regulated, and the workers protected. Unfortunately, I don't live in a society that agrees with that stance. So, while I am all for personal choice I think it needs to be an
informed choice. The young people choosing this route need to know the consequences of that career choice.