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Stormbringer wrote:I think the notion that everyone has a little gay in them is ridiculous. There might well be more in denial of their homosexuality or bisexuality than you'd expect but I don't think everyone has a little bit of gay in them. Most people that make the claim are people with a vested interest in it so I find that extremely suspicious as a starting point. The evidence just isn't there for it.
Ja.
However, I think a more diplomatic way of putting this could be that everyone's curious, to a certain extent. From those who say "eww, how can you do that!" to those who say "ooo, how do you do that!". :D
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Ja.
However, I think a more diplomatic way of putting this could be that everyone's curious, to a certain extent. From those who say "eww, how can you do that!" to those who say "ooo, how do you do that!".
Thats just a way of saying they want lots of hot sticky gritty sex. :P
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Frank Hipper wrote:Ja.
However, I think a more diplomatic way of putting this could be that everyone's curious, to a certain extent. From those who say "eww, how can you do that!" to those who say "ooo, how do you do that!". :D
I think that's true. A lot of people are curious even if they would never be interested in it. It's just the usual curiousity. People are naturally curious, and it being such an intimate subject makes it doubly so. That doesn't make them gay.
kojikun wrote:Thats just a way of saying they want lots of hot sticky gritty sex. :P
You're an idiot. Of course they want sex but not everyone wants to have homosexual sex. Deal with it and stop being a dumbass.
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You're an idiot. Of course they want sex but not everyone wants to have homosexual sex. Deal with it and stop being a dumbass.
Never said gay sex, dumbass.
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kojikun wrote:
You're an idiot. Of course they want sex but not everyone wants to have homosexual sex. Deal with it and stop being a dumbass.
Never said gay sex, dumbass.
You know, you might not get so many flames if your posts were clear. Because that's pretty clearly what you implied.
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kojikun wrote:
Ja.
However, I think a more diplomatic way of putting this could be that everyone's curious, to a certain extent. From those who say "eww, how can you do that!" to those who say "ooo, how do you do that!".
Thats just a way of saying they want lots of hot sticky gritty sex. :P
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Mike Wong hit the nail on the head with a 5,000 kg steel block. :D Every part of the female body is at least several times more attractive than their male counterpart. The warm, soft, curvy, touchy-feely cuddly goodness of every inch of a woman is simply leagues beyond the beefy, hairy, ill-shapen, pudgy/lanky proportions of a man and his freakish body parts (compared to the dangling 'last chicken in the butcher shop', females got the better genetalia by far. I'd stick my head down there any day :wink: ).

Maybe because it's totally, completely non-sexual for me is why I'm comfortable being somewhat physical around most men, like friendly hugging and stuff. Putting 'male' and 'sex' into the same sentence for me is like 'square' and 'circle' going together; which just gets no reaction from me and confuses Mr. Happy to the point where he just pulls a 'Madame Butterfly' and shrinks and hides aways like a cat under the furniture. :lol:
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Mmmm, vagina.

I love it. I love looking at it, I love touching it, I love licking it, and I love fucking it. I am not in the least bit gay. But hey, that's just me.
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Alferd Packer wrote:Mmmm, vagina.

I love it. I love looking at it, I love touching it, I love licking it, and I love fucking it. I am not in the least bit gay. But hey, that's just me.
I agree with everything except the looking >_<
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Enforcer Talen wrote:
Alferd Packer wrote:Mmmm, vagina.

I love it. I love looking at it, I love touching it, I love licking it, and I love fucking it. I am not in the least bit gay. But hey, that's just me.
I agree with everything except the looking >_<
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A clean open, virgin vagina observed at the very closest distance possible is not attractive to you?

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Although having already seen many if porn movies and mags, nothing had quite prepared me for that experience. It's moist, and clean, and touchable.. And..

Drats. The problem is that at that point it doesn't remain virgin for much longer :evil:

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Bah. A woman's genitalia is hardly the most attractive part of her body. Not in the slightest and it is certainly not, in my opinion, particularly visually pleasing. Functional, it may be, but not aesthetic.

But by contrast, it is certainly nicer than what we get stuck with, which resembles some of the dodgier products of a seedy kebab shop.
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Men are hard, rough, and hairy. Really, I haven't, nor could I, have even pseudo-homosexual experiences.
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The dichotomy is too great. There is nothing cuddly and soft about a man so that blows that experience. (sees the pun, decides what the fuck, leave it in) There is no other experience than a woman surrendering herself to you, spreading her legs and you sink into that nice tight warmth. (We all hope its tight)

As to getting a few drink s in you, the most adventurous I got when drunk was trying to pick up a GF's sister with the GF in the same room and ALMOST getting some poonage. The next day her sister and I were extremely polite to each other, really funny experience. Alcohol just lowers your inhibitions, not create all new needs or curiosities. If you sleep with a guy while you're drunk its because you've always wanted to or were at least curious. Getting drunk does not suddenly make you gay or bi.
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Alferd Packer wrote:Mmmm, vagina.

I love it. I love looking at it, I love touching it, I love licking it, and I love fucking it. I am not in the least bit gay. But hey, that's just me.
Are you trying to make me go *str8? Cuz it's working!


*str8 in the 'liking pussy' bit, not the 'giving up guys' bit :D
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Einhander Sn0m4n wrote:
Alferd Packer wrote:Mmmm, vagina.

I love it. I love looking at it, I love touching it, I love licking it, and I love fucking it. I am not in the least bit gay. But hey, that's just me.
Are you trying to make me go *str8? Cuz it's working!


*str8 in the 'liking pussy' bit, not the 'giving up guys' bit :D
That'd be bi, dear.
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Simon H.Johansen wrote:
Darth Wong wrote:The female body is beautiful. The male body is not.
Maybe not your own, but some men are quite pretty.
I take women's word on that one.

Personally, I like women, period. If I see a guy in speedos, I look the other way.

However, I have met many married men who after having multiple children announced that they really had homosexuals feelings the whole time. One of my gay friends back in high school went through more girl friends than I did.
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Sometimes a guy tries to deny his feeling too much. It's like the Colonel from American Beauty some guys are so anti-gay because they are scared of their own feelings. I know what i'm talking about untill last winter or so i denyed it so hard it wasn't funny. I had loads of posters of half naked women, badly hidden porn so my parents would find it etc, and don't even get me started on my former views on anal sex.
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badly hidden porn so your parents would find it? damn, you must have been very much in denial to risk punishment from your parent just to reaffirm the "im straight" mentallity. :shock:
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I am a lil bit straight, yes. In fact, I weirded out my lesbian friend by telling her that a girl she was checking out was extremely hot. XP
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victorhadin wrote:Bah. A woman's genitalia is hardly the most attractive part of her body. Not in the slightest and it is certainly not, in my opinion, particularly visually pleasing. Functional, it may be, but not aesthetic.
The whole package is attractive, more so than any particular feature in isolation.
But by contrast, it is certainly nicer than what we get stuck with, which resembles some of the dodgier products of a seedy kebab shop.
A woman's vagina is a beautiful thing in its own way. It also helps if you don't have a lot of hangups about bodily fluids, intimacy, etc. I have no problem sticking my tongue right up in there if that's what she wants.
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verilon wrote:I am a lil bit straight, yes. In fact, I weirded out my lesbian friend by telling her that a girl she was checking out was extremely hot. XP
I don't think one needs to be attracted to a gender to recognize when someone of said gender is attractive.
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I don't think one needs to be attracted to a gender to recognize when someone of said gender is attractive.
Which is precisely why we have words like "handsome" which allow straight guys to call other guys sexy without looking queer. o_O
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Honestly, I would word the question differently to say "Is everyone a bit bi?" I think that there most likely not one person, straight or gay who hasn't had an erotic thought involving a member of the sex that their preference doesn't favor. By my book, that would make just about everyone bi to some degree or another.
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kojikun wrote:
I don't think one needs to be attracted to a gender to recognize when someone of said gender is attractive.
Which is precisely why we have words like "handsome" which allow straight guys to call other guys sexy without looking queer. o_O
I don't know, I mean some women are handsome and some guys are pretty.
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verilon wrote:I am a lil bit straight, yes. In fact, I weirded out my lesbian friend by telling her that a girl she was checking out was extremely hot. XP
I don't think one needs to be attracted to a gender to recognize when someone of said gender is attractive.
I think you missed the point...

But, no, you don't have to be oriented that way to know what others' tastes are ~ hell gay guys and lesbians check out people for each other all the time!
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