Better BJ - Men or Women?

Sobbastchianno · Post by **Sobbastchianno** » 2003-07-22 12:52am

I am curious, for those who have had the pleasure of receiving a blowjob from both a male and a female (any blowjob is a pleasure), which gender do you think does a better job, overall?

I vote for men (Yes, I did give two women a chance and both failed miserably)

EmperorMing · Post by **EmperorMing** » 2003-07-22 01:55am

Let me go ask a few of my "associates"...

I can only give you a one sided opinion...

Post by **Alyrium Denryle** » 2003-07-22 02:18am

I too can only give a 1 sided opinion...

darthdavid · Post by **darthdavid** » 2003-07-22 02:22am

I wish i could give you an either sided option...

Utsanomiko · Post by **Utsanomiko** » 2003-07-22 02:23am

Considering the limited amount of people here with this kind of experiance, I'd say replies will be limited.

EINHANDER!! Go find a chick and get a blowjob!!

XaLEv · Post by **XaLEv** » 2003-07-22 02:29am

I'd say that people will in general be better at blowing within their gender.

Sobbastchianno · Post by **Sobbastchianno** » 2003-07-22 02:31am

XaLEv wrote:I'd say that people will in general be better at blowing within their gender.

Ah, but did you vote? I can say through personal experience that I do agree. I find the lovemaking is better within a gender than crossing genders (then again, that is only my opinion and such things are VERY personal).

XaLEv · Post by **XaLEv** » 2003-07-22 02:34am

I'm not qualified to vote.

Sobbastchianno · Post by **Sobbastchianno** » 2003-07-22 02:35am

I see. I wonder how many people who weren't qualified voted anyway. This could become one of those exponential polls where each question leads to another.

Gil Hamilton · Post by **Gil Hamilton** » 2003-07-22 03:37am

I don't think you are going to find many people on this board that have had both.

Sobbastchianno · Post by **Sobbastchianno** » 2003-07-22 03:39am

I would be surprised if that were the case.

Howedar · Post by **Howedar** » 2003-07-22 03:44am

I hope to God I'm never qualified to answer this question.

Gil Hamilton · Post by **Gil Hamilton** » 2003-07-22 03:47am

Sobbastchianno wrote:I would be surprised if that were the case.

But the target audience of your question is bisexual men, which statistically there are likely to only be a handful to ever see the question you posed. I wouldn't be suprised to more people voted for the hell of it or that they misread the poll/OP than had actually had oral sex performed on them by both genders. For instance, I voted be cause I cast my vote before I read the opening post, which stipulated that the person must have had their cocks sucked by both genders to make the comparasion.

Sobbastchianno · Post by **Sobbastchianno** » 2003-07-22 03:51am

Gil Hamilton wrote:
Sobbastchianno wrote:I would be surprised if that were the case.
But the target audience of your question is bisexual men, which statistically there are likely to only be a handful to ever see the question you posed. I wouldn't be suprised to more people voted for the hell of it or that they misread the poll/OP than had actually had oral sex performed on them by both genders. For instance, I voted be cause I cast my vote before I read the opening post, which stipulated that the person must have had their cocks sucked by both genders to make the comparasion.

Gil, hate to burst your bubble, but I know of several heterosexuals who have had the oral services of a man (and for that matter, the men who performed those services). They are not bisexual, they were just horny at the moment and took what was convenient. I am gay, but I have been with women before (one of those, don't knock it until you try it things). I am certainly not bisexual, as I have NO DESIRE to ever be with a woman sexually. Never really did.

So, not my "target" audience isn't bisexual. Just guys who might have taken a stroll on a different side from what they are used to doing.

Raxmei · Post by **Raxmei** » 2003-07-22 03:56am

Having never had oral sex with a person of any gender, I am not qualified to speak on this matter. However, I do see how it is logical for same sex couples to do better. As a member of the same sex, the partner likely knows first hand what pleases members of his sex the best. An opposite sex partner can only use observation and secondhand accounts, which are not quite as reliable personal experience.

Gil Hamilton · Post by **Gil Hamilton** » 2003-07-22 04:13am

Sobbastchianno wrote:Gil, hate to burst your bubble, but I know of several heterosexuals who have had the oral services of a man (and for that matter, the men who performed those services). They are not bisexual, they were just horny at the moment and took what was convenient. I am gay, but I have been with women before (one of those, don't knock it until you try it things). I am certainly not bisexual, as I have NO DESIRE to ever be with a woman sexually. Never really did.

These are straight men... but they enjoy having their cock sucked by their male friends. I must be missing something because if they if they are getting head from their male buddies but still dig women, that would make them bisexual. It's not like a guy is going to go "Hey, Phil, my girlfriend is upstate, wanna take a shot in the mouth?"

Post by **Coyote** » 2003-07-22 04:40am

I can only tell you about chicks, man, but... Great God, are they wonderful.

Now, on a different note, some women have told me that my 'tender mercies' upon them were quite enjoyable, leading to no few sexual frenzies.

Mmmmmm.... sexual frenzies.......

Post by **Zaia** » 2003-07-22 11:26am

I would guess that probably men would do it better, simply because they know exactly what they'd want someone to do, since they have the same equipment.

Dark Primus · Post by **Dark Primus** » 2003-07-22 12:16pm

I was nearly given a BJ by a girl once. That is the only experience I have. She was willing to give it to me but I refused becaue I wasn't really ready for it.

Baron Scarpia · Post by **Baron Scarpia** » 2003-07-22 12:33pm

The notion that one gender can give head better than another is not substantiated, IMO. It seems to me it comes down to individual experience and skill. I've had the services of several men who were terrible cocksuckers. The only oral sex I had from a woman was so-so, nothing special. I've gotten my best bjs from men who were a little older and had experience, so they knew what they were doing.

It also depends a great deal on the mindset of the receiver. It is absolutely true that some straight men, being sensation whores, seek out gay men for oral servicing, as it's a lot more difficult to find women willing to do the task (for free). Gay men, also, tend to have an oral fixation, and on top of that many have a thing for giving it to straight guys who just want to get their rocks off. I'm sure you could fill volumes with the psychology behind it.

At any rate, a straight man who ideally wants head from a female but lets a guy do it because he's hard up (hehehe puuuun) is likely still not going to find getting the hummer from the guy as enjoyable as he would an equally skilled female, since that's what he digs most. Likewise, had I really been into the girl I banged (see, gays can be mysogynist!), I think I would have enjoyed the head more than I did.

Sobbastchianno · Post by **Sobbastchianno** » 2003-07-22 11:17pm

Gil Hamilton wrote:
Sobbastchianno wrote:Gil, hate to burst your bubble, but I know of several heterosexuals who have had the oral services of a man (and for that matter, the men who performed those services). They are not bisexual, they were just horny at the moment and took what was convenient. I am gay, but I have been with women before (one of those, don't knock it until you try it things). I am certainly not bisexual, as I have NO DESIRE to ever be with a woman sexually. Never really did.
These are straight men... but they enjoy having their cock sucked by their male friends. I must be missing something because if they if they are getting head from their male buddies but still dig women, that would make them bisexual. It's not like a guy is going to go "Hey, Phil, my girlfriend is upstate, wanna take a shot in the mouth?"

Gil, it really ca be like some guy saying "Hey, Phil, my girlfriend is upstate, wanna take a shot in the mouth." I myself have heard that same sentiment paraphrased (though, I wasn't called Phil).

I disagree with Baron Scarpia's assertion that MANY gay men love to do straight guys. Many that I know don't, though there are SOME that do. Personally, I would tell them, and have told them, that if they want it that bad, go find your wife/girlfriend, or pick up a girl in a bar. Though, I do agree with him, men are generally much more willing.

Howedar · Post by **Howedar** » 2003-07-22 11:42pm

Sobbastchianno wrote: Gil, it really ca be like some guy saying "Hey, Phil, my girlfriend is upstate, wanna take a shot in the mouth." I myself have heard that same sentiment paraphrased (though, I wasn't called Phil).

^infinity

EmperorMing · Post by **EmperorMing** » 2003-07-22 11:54pm

I know of exactly 3 people I could ask this question of down here...

*starts ringing on phone...*

Frank Hipper · Post by **Frank Hipper** » 2003-07-22 11:58pm

I've gotten head from three chicks. They could have used lessons.

EmperorMing · Post by **EmperorMing** » 2003-07-23 12:15am

Frank Hipper wrote:I've gotten head from three chicks. They could have used lessons.

Should have introduced them to the redhead that went down on me. Even had magic monkey pussy to go along with it...

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