Colonel Olrik wrote:Yeah, that's about it. I'm not interested in medals, I'd like to learn selfdefense.
Then Ju-jutsu would be good, especially if you can find a Hokutoryu school of it, they don't bother with the ceremonial stuff, the aim is to teach people self-defense, and they use that which works. Ju-jutsu is one of the oldest martial arts still around and its origin is in the tricks taught to samurai for emergency situations where they lost their sword. The original forms of some of the most common grapples and throws are really brutal, aimed at crippling or outright killing the opponent. In general, ju-jutsu uses punches, grapples, kicks, throws, locks, chokeholds and everything else that will leave your opponent in need of some urgent medical attention.
I got up to orange belt (have one also in judo, though that was over 12 years ago), and they started teaching useful stuff on day one. White belt was spent mainly learning the several different kinds of ukemi (the technique for falling hard without injuring yourself) and very basic self-defense stuff (how to get out of holds and such, defending against punches and kicks and so on). Yellow belt was more of the same plus kicks and punches, and at orange belt they started teaching all sorts of combinations. I learned a couple of different ways of how to deal with someone who comes at you with a knife or a length of pipe and I still remember them, because we repeated the stuff until it became reflex.
Ju-jutsu would probably be something you'd like, it's straightforward, no-nonsense, has a wide variety of stuff and all of it works, and it'll help you keep in shape too (not that you need it, I could use some of that, though...).
It also depends on the club you join and the instructor in question, because some clubs emphasize the formal aspects and some go the practical route from start to finish. I prefer the latter myself.
Edi