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Male fascination with anal sex

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Firstly *ahem* Hoorah for anal sex! :D

Now back to my point. What is our fascination for having anal sex with women? Is it because it is/was considered taboo by society? Is it just the different sensations? Or is it just we are all merely dirty perverts who have watched too much porn :D. Or is it a powerplay thing, exerting your power over another? And what do the women on here think of it, is it something they themselves enjoy, or is it something they do just to keep their partner happy?

And on that..has anyone ever seen an anal scene in a porn flick in which the chick actually looks like she is having fun, rather than the verge of pain (or boredom?)

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It goes back to our primate days. I saw a documentary once on the allure of the female ass. In animal society, the quality of ones ass is used to attract mates. Dont forget that women with wide hips (read:nice big asses) were once considered more fertile, a subconscious trait from our primitive days where men were drawn to women with larger cabooses. And then theres the fact that its pleasurable; guys will put their dicks in just about any hole they can find on a girl, and cushioned ones only make it better.
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Uh? 'cause a woman's multiple choice?
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Reasons:
  1. It's taboo.
  2. Her ass is tighter than her pussy.
  3. Women can actually have better orgasms when they're getting it up the ass (in conjunction with clitorial stimulation, of course).
  4. Everybody does it in porn.
  5. She won't get pregnant.
  6. You can put a vibrator in her pussy and feel its vibrations in her ass; a really cool sensation. The reverse doesn't work as well because vibrators are harder than a real penis and she'll find it more uncomfortable in her ass than in her pussy.
  7. If you like her to talk dirty, it just works better with anal sex. When it comes to dirty talk, nothing beats a woman telling you to fuck her in the ass.
  8. Some women simply prefer it that way, believe it or not.
And on that..has anyone ever seen an anal scene in a porn flick in which the chick actually looks like she is having fun, rather than the verge of pain (or boredom?)
Yes. Many times, in fact. But keep in mind that women look like they're in pain when they're having an orgasm too, so a lot of porn actresses fake that expression for sex in general.
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*bows before the assmaster Wong*

Better orgasms huh? Interesting, didnt know that one. I guess its like anything some people enjoy it more than others. Just seems that most women Ive encountered consider it dirty and wrong...and tend not to want to. But some can be converted with time and patience. But your right, it really blows you away when you have your ladyfriend, on her knees with her butt in the air demanding you assfuck her now!!

Yup. Almost 90% of vids I have seen have an anal scene, even the lesbian ones!

As for teh primate thing? Apes do in in the butt? Didnt know that one.
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My health teacher commented to the class that anal sex is just not right. So they probably just get it word from mouth or they really don't like it.~Jason
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Look, this is easy. I can tell you what our fascination with anal sex is. When the guy is back there doing his thing, every word out of the girl's mouth is 'yes.' Know what I mean? It's all about power. It's about being in control. That's what anal sex is.
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If you like her to talk dirty, it just works better with anal sex. When it comes to dirty talk, nothing beats a woman telling you to fuck her in the ass.

That's certainly true. There's no better time to talk dirty than when your penis is knee dip in poo.
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Im not sure I like the idea of it being a pure powerplay thing. Just goes against my idea of equality in a sexual relationship. Power and control...congrats you almost turned me off anal sex..almost. But thats just me, I dont like the idea of one partner being dominant over another. But then, I equate sex to being about love and passion and other soppy stuff...even the anal part can be a display of deep emotion...
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Superman wrote:Look, this is easy. I can tell you what our fascination with anal sex is. When the guy is back there doing his thing, every word out of the girl's mouth is 'yes.' Know what I mean? It's all about power. It's about being in control. That's what anal sex is.
That may be what it's about for you, but in reality, the woman is always in control. She's the one who decides whether or not you will be allowed to do this, after all.
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I like anal sex cause dicks feel good in my ass and my dick feels good in other boys asses. ;D
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Actually, D. Wong, that is a good point. I think I see it like the woman is allowing you to have that power. Something like that...
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Darth Wong wrote:That may be what it's about for you, but in reality, the woman is always in control. She's the one who decides whether or not you will be allowed to do this, after all.
Alot of people don't get that. Its even like that in BDSM sex too. The person with the least apparent power is the one with the most say. In healthy relationships, anyway.
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And just for the record here D. Wong, I am a bit jealous of you. My girl and I are very different in terms of size. She's 5'1" and tiny (except in the chest region) and I am 6'3." I'm not saying that my penis is partucularly huge, but compared to her I am. I think if I tried to have some butt love with her, her asshole would rip like paper. While sex in every other aspect is great, this is one area where we have some difficulty.
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Superman wrote:And just for the record here D. Wong, I am a bit jealous of you. My girl and I are very different in terms of size. She's 5'1" and tiny (except in the chest region) and I am 6'3." I'm not saying that my penis is partucularly huge, but compared to her I am. I think if I tried to have some butt love with her, her asshole would rip like paper. While sex in every other aspect is great, this is one area where we have some difficulty.
My wife is 5'8". She could probably handle that lumber (not that I'm offering her services, mind you).

Anyway, I could see how a very large size mismatch could be an issue.
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pellaeons_scion wrote:Firstly *ahem* Hoorah for anal sex! :D

Now back to my point. What is our fascination for having anal sex with women?
I have no such fascination.
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Pablo Sanchez wrote:
pellaeons_scion wrote:Firstly *ahem* Hoorah for anal sex! :D

Now back to my point. What is our fascination for having anal sex with women?
I have no such fascination.
Sure...we believe you...you dirty sanchez you... :P
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How many guys here like anal sex? and how many don`t? :?
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Superman wrote:And just for the record here D. Wong, I am a bit jealous of you. My girl and I are very different in terms of size. She's 5'1" and tiny (except in the chest region) and I am 6'3." I'm not saying that my penis is partucularly huge, but compared to her I am. I think if I tried to have some butt love with her, her asshole would rip like paper. While sex in every other aspect is great, this is one area where we have some difficulty.
LOL! D00d, I've taken a ten inch long three inch wide dick with no problems whatsoever as well as a 300lb muscular guy speedfucking me multiple times with no trouble either. :D All this when I was 5'4" and 110lbs. Trust me, you won't have any problems bar some extremely improbable circumstance...

Just make sure you use enough lube. :twisted:
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Einhander Sn0m4n wrote: LOL! D00d, I've taken a ten inch long three inch wide dick with no problems whatsoever as well as a 300lb muscular guy speedfucking me multiple times with no trouble either. :D All this when I was 5'4" and 110lbs. Trust me, you won't have any problems bar some extremely improbable circumstance...

Just make sure you use enough lube. :twisted:
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aerius wrote:
Pablo Sanchez wrote:
pellaeons_scion wrote:Firstly *ahem* Hoorah for anal sex! :D

Now back to my point. What is our fascination for having anal sex with women?
I have no such fascination.
Sure...we believe you...you dirty sanchez you... :P
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:shock: :?

I want to try this new field of lovin' (giving to females, that is) but Einy's words make me wince at this whole thread.
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Montcalm wrote:How many guys here like anal sex? and how many don`t? :?
For me it's fun to do every once in a while, but it's not something I'd want to do on a regular or everyday basis, but that's just me.
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Its nice to see our GALE force members giving the unshielded truth once more :wink:

On liking anal: Yes, but you both have to be in the mood for it...sometimes you just want to go for nice, plain vanilla sex, and other times monkey-wild animalistic ravishing, buttsex included :D
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