Recuperation time after sex

neoolong · Post by **neoolong** » 2003-10-20 03:27am

AdmiralKanos wrote:
The Kernel wrote:
RedImperator wrote:Fifteen minutes or less. The trade off is, if I don't blow a load BEFORE I fuck her, I'll be done in about 45 seconds. Ah, the burdens of youth.
Think of dead babies. That always helped me
No, the best solution is to have sex many hundreds of times, so that you become accustomed to it and don't blow your load so easily. The biggest problem with young people and sex is that the guy is so fucking excited about the mere fact that he's actually having sex that he's almost ready to blow his load before he even sticks it in. Once you get past that stage, you can last longer.

American Pie springs to mind.

Post by **The Yosemite Bear** » 2003-10-20 03:41am

Where's the option for being diabetic w. High Blood Pressure and requiring an hour an a half to two hours of foreplay first?

Uraniun235 · Post by **Uraniun235** » 2003-10-20 04:15am

AdmiralKanos wrote:No, the best solution is to have sex many hundreds of times

Absolutely beautiful.

Post by **haas mark** » 2003-10-20 04:43am

~30 minutes.

~ver

InnerBrat · Post by **InnerBrat** » 2003-10-20 04:59am

A couple of minutes unless it's a true multiple. (and cumming again is not a multiple, as I keep tellign you people).
I dry out really quickly after orgasm, and need to be worked up all over again. Unfortunately for the poor man, clitoral orgasms during foreplay make me less able to withstand penetration, and I'm not designed to enable easy access to the clit during.

Too much info, yet?

The Kernel · Post by **The Kernel** » 2003-10-20 05:01am

AdmiralKanos wrote:
The Kernel wrote:
RedImperator wrote:Fifteen minutes or less. The trade off is, if I don't blow a load BEFORE I fuck her, I'll be done in about 45 seconds. Ah, the burdens of youth.
Think of dead babies. That always helped me
No, the best solution is to have sex many hundreds of times, so that you become accustomed to it and don't blow your load so easily. The biggest problem with young people and sex is that the guy is so fucking excited about the mere fact that he's actually having sex that he's almost ready to blow his load before he even sticks it in. Once you get past that stage, you can last longer.

Or maybe that is just the result of getting older. I didn't evolve past to 30-second-cum stage until I was 18 or so, despite having a steady girlfriend through much of high school. I think when you reach a certain age you start to get past those crazed hormones and you can survive longer while having sex.

Mastrabating regularly might help as well as it should desensitize you to vaginal sex.

aphexmonster · Post by **aphexmonster** » 2003-10-20 05:08am

Gil Hamilton wrote:About 15 minutes for a truly excellent bed rockin' cannon shot of a Big O. Being young and virile has it's advantages, and one of which is that the Major General can get ready to stand at attention relatively quickly.

Dont ever call it big o ... like, if you see your errection in the mirror, do you start humming the theme song ?

MarkIX · Post by **MarkIX** » 2003-10-20 05:28am

AdmiralKanos wrote:
MarkIX wrote:
AdmiralKanos wrote: When I woke up, it was another half-hour before I was able to get sufficiently solid wood to achieve backdoor penetration.
Technical question does "Backdoor Penetration" require more or less "wood" or is it just a question of Technique.
Backdoor penetration requires more wood. You can slip into a woman's vagina with little effort, particularly if she's lubed. But even with lube, you need to push your little fireman past a fairly tight barrier to achieve backdoor penetration.

Thanks

You can achieve vaginal penetration with a half-erect penis, but you'll never accomplish anal penetration that way unless she's a porno slut and she can gape for you (which I find to be a serious turn-off anyway).

for the unplesant mental imagery,

XaLEv · Post by **XaLEv** » 2003-10-20 05:52am

I can get an erection again within a few minutes, 15 at most. I can't ejaculate again for at least thirty minutes, though. It hurts like hell if I do it before then.

InnerBrat wrote: Too much info, yet?

Nah.

Joe Momma · Post by **Joe Momma** » 2003-10-20 06:06am

The Kernel wrote:
RedImperator wrote:Fifteen minutes or less. The trade off is, if I don't blow a load BEFORE I fuck her, I'll be done in about 45 seconds. Ah, the burdens of youth.
Think of dead babies. That always helped me

The worst part of this is that when I first read it I thought you meant thinking of dead babies made you blow your load sooner.

I was damn near clinically priapic as a teenager (or so it seemed anyway), calmed down a little with age and experience in my twenties (it took a little longer to recover afterward, but I lasted a lot longer so it more than evened out), but oddly enough my recovery time has dropped to damn near zero again in my early thirties since I've started taking better care of myself.

God, when I first started exercising heavily again, taking all my multi-vitamins, etc. a couple of years ago I couldn't kill the little bastard. Part of it was psychological too, admitedly -- I'd finally recovered from the psychological effects of a horrible LTR. Still, I was actually more easily aroused and more quick to recover than in my teenage years. I started sneaking off to the bathroom every couple of hours to flog the dolphin just so I could think straight. I'm glad that's calmed down a bit.

Still there's a day every week or two that I'm back up within 5 minutes maximum repeatedly even if I'm getting sore, and believe me that's not as much fun as it might sound to some people. I actually kinda like the whole cuddling contentedly afterward thing, since I can actually pay a bit more genuine attention to the lady in question as a person if the baby-batter in my loins isn't already starting to scream for release again. Jesus, that last sentence came out sounding more like I'm a complete asshole than I intended but hell, there it is.

-- Joe Momma

Chardok · Post by **Chardok** » 2003-10-20 07:07am

I USED to be able to wait 15 minutes or less (Usually less) But I also used to be a "Minute man" But, for some reason, since my 25th birthday, I gotta wait a loooong time and work REEEEAL hard for a payoff. The other day i fucked so much that my fucking abs are STILL sore. and it was a piddler of an orgasm, too....I'm becoming jaded with sex too....*sigh*

Oh, I guess I should also say, that waiting for the long payoff sucks. sucks so bad in fact, that I lack the motivation to order the trouser cyclops back into action anymore that night. when I look at it, I picture a battle-weary private, whose commander is contemplating sending him in to charge a machine-gun nest again...
"I'm scared, Sarge!"
"We're all scared, son."

Crown · Post by **Crown** » 2003-10-20 08:32am

AdmiralKanos wrote:
The Kernel wrote:
RedImperator wrote:Fifteen minutes or less. The trade off is, if I don't blow a load BEFORE I fuck her, I'll be done in about 45 seconds. Ah, the burdens of youth.
Think of dead babies. That always helped me
No, the best solution is to have sex many hundreds of times, so that you become accustomed to it and don't blow your load so easily. The biggest problem with young people and sex is that the guy is so fucking excited about the mere fact that he's actually having sex that he's almost ready to blow his load before he even sticks it in. Once you get past that stage, you can last longer.

Ahhh, solide advice ... how long before they start teaching that in school?

Anyway, around the 15 min mark for me, but I don't rest on my laurels while waiting form my wedding-bait to get back up, there is so much fun to be had with fingers and tongues in between.

EDIT :: Is it just me, or has anybody else noticed that you generally last longer the second time?

aerius · Post by **aerius** » 2003-10-20 09:31am

Crayz9000 wrote:Look, it's not because I'm sick. It's because she likes to cuddle for long periods of time, and it starts getting... painful... when you have a woody that refuses to go away.

It's kinda weird with me & my GF, we can cuddle in ways which don't end up with me sporting wood and wanting to do her on the spot, but with just a subtle change it's the most arousing thing ever and I feel like pulling off her clothes and screwing her senseless.

Anyways, after a good session of hot sweaty sex I'm done for a good 20 minutes. I don't end up passed out or anything, but I feel all tired and just want to lie down and cuddle while my body prepares for more sex.

Admiral Valdemar · Post by **Admiral Valdemar** » 2003-10-20 10:35am

There are many factors in this, but typically I'd say 15-20 minutes is the norm, though I tend to not check.

Einhander Sn0m4n · Post by **Einhander Sn0m4n** » 2003-10-20 11:12am

Usually five to fifteen, but sometimes it can take an hour to recharge or I can cum and keep right on going! It depends on the last time I came, my overall mood, and how life's been treating me (Life is Good=Lotsa Cumming. Life Sucks=Can Barely Get It Up).

Hamel · Post by **Hamel** » 2003-10-20 11:12am

If it's Terri Irwin, I put some extra effort in

Einhander Sn0m4n · Post by **Einhander Sn0m4n** » 2003-10-20 11:13am

Hamel wrote:If it's Terri Irwin, I put some extra effort in

LMAO!

Einhander Sn0m4n · Post by **Einhander Sn0m4n** » 2003-10-20 11:22am

AdmiralKanos wrote:Backdoor penetration requires more wood. You can slip into a woman's vagina with little effort, particularly if she's lubed. But even with lube, you need to push your little fireman past a fairly tight barrier to achieve backdoor penetration. You can achieve vaginal penetration with a half-erect penis, but you'll never accomplish anal penetration that way unless she's a porno slut and she can gape for you (which I find to be a serious turn-off anyway).

I can definitely hella vouch for that. Anything less hard than stainless chrome-moly steel is not enough to penetrate some guys' butts they're so tight.

AdmiralKanos wrote:You can achieve vaginal penetration with a half-erect penis, but you'll never accomplish anal penetration that way unless she's a porno slut and she can gape for you (which I find to be a serious turn-off anyway).

I've never come across a guy who can do that, and I'm sure I wouldn't like it too much either

RedImperator · Post by **RedImperator** » 2003-10-20 02:19pm

The Kernel wrote:Mastrabating regularly might help as well as it should desensitize you to vaginal sex.

I can assure you, it doesn't.

Lord Pounder · Post by **Lord Pounder** » 2003-10-20 02:30pm

5-10 minutes, which i usually spend performing oral sex on her, unless she's came already. However there have been times when i just stayed hard after cumming because i was so turned on. The thing I try to remember when having sex is thast i'm there to make the other person cim and cum, this makes me feel arroused and makes me cum and cum. It's a win win situation in my bed.

Gil Hamilton · Post by **Gil Hamilton** » 2003-10-20 02:32pm

aphexmonster wrote:Dont ever call it big o ... like, if you see your errection in the mirror, do you start humming the theme song ?

I've been calling orgasms "the Big O" long before that series was the twinkle in a Japanese writers eye. Now it's just funny, because I can go "BIG O! SHOWTIME! *sloooooooge*"

Einhander Sn0m4n · Post by **Einhander Sn0m4n** » 2003-10-20 02:34pm

Lord Pounder wrote:5-10 minutes, which i usually spend performing oral sex on her, unless she's came already. However there have been times when i just stayed hard after cumming because i was so turned on. The thing I try to remember when having sex is thast i'm there to make the other person cim and cum, this makes me feel arroused and makes me cum and cum. It's a win win situation in my bed.

Exactly the same for me here. It's actually difficult for me to get off sometimes unless the other guy is IMMENSELY enjoying what I'm doing to him!

Post by **Darth Wong** » 2003-10-20 03:29pm

RedImperator wrote:
The Kernel wrote:Mastrabating regularly might help as well as it should desensitize you to vaginal sex.
I can assure you, it doesn't.

It's all in your mind. I blow my load faster if she dresses up and we roleplay; the physical sensation is exactly the same, but the mental stimulation is greater.

Pablo Sanchez · Post by **Pablo Sanchez** » 2003-10-20 04:50pm

It depends upon my mental and physical state. Normally it's between five and fifteen minutes before I'm up and running again, but every once in a while I've been able to achieve a much shorter rest period--never quite continuous, however.

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