Wow, why do I meet the fucked up people?

[Anarchist Bunny]

Is it just me, do I just seem to magnet to these kind of people, or is everyone in the world seriously FUCKED up.

Today I was in Bio 2, talking to this girl. She's nice, kinda smart, seemed normal, really just talk to her in class and occasionally at lunch. Not fucked up or disturbed in anyway, she had a little problem with drinking but nothing serious(I thought). We had an early out today, and no real assignment to do, so we were just chatting. Well, in one little bomb shell of a conversation I found hout her boyfriend is almost twice her age(she's 16 he's 31), she's a nympho maniac and have been fucking since summer(Bing number one statuatory rape, but she's 16 and I'm not really bothered by that), then I found out the reason she's not going to drink for a year because she went to a party of her boyfriend's best friend(25 and married), she gets wasted, and her and her boyfriend go up and fuck, then he leaves, his friend comes in and has sex with her to(bing number two, adultery, statuatory and normal(since she was drunk) rape). And then she tells me she's bisexual and has had lesbian sex 3 or 4 times(bing number three, doesn't really bother me, but hit me by surprise none the less).

I go from having a aquatince I just chatted about shit with, to having some major FUCKED UP secrets dropped on me. I think shell shock is an appropriate term.

[Gandalf]

Wow, that's just, wow.

[Anarchist Bunny]

Wow, that's just, wow.

Yeah, I was glad the house was empty when I got home, I had a lot of "WHAT THE FUCK!!?!?!?" and "HOLY SHIT!!!!!!" to get out of me. We've never even talked about anything sexual and she just dumped this all on me.

[Spanky The Dolphin]

Christ, it's amazing that freaks like that even exist...

[Montcalm]

What a stupid bitch i see deadly and uncurable STDs in her future.

[aerius]

You're not alone. My friend's kid sister is 5 years younger than me and has had a crush on my ever since we met. I was 18, she was 13, and every time I visited my buddy she'd hug and kiss me, and she grabbed my ass a few times too. Then I find out she's been smoking pot since she was 11 and had just started dabbling with 'shrooms and LSD, and a year after this she was dating and fucking a 21 year old. Can you say "statutory"?

[Spanky The Dolphin]

And with that it's time for me to jump out of this thread and never come back before the story-swapping begins...

[Anarchist Bunny]

You're not alone. My friend's kid sister is 5 years younger than me and has had a crush on my ever since we met. I was 18, she was 13, and every time I visited my buddy she'd hug and kiss me, and she grabbed my ass a few times too. Then I find out she's been smoking pot since she was 11 and had just started dabbling with 'shrooms and LSD, and a year after this she was dating and fucking a 21 year old. Can you say "statutory"?

I know a 13 year old thats doing drugs, fucking an 11 year old, and stole that 11 year old's mom's car.

[Shinova]

Maybe she's just BSing to sound like she's experienced.

[Rye]

You're not alone. My friend's kid sister is 5 years younger than me and has had a crush on my ever since we met. I was 18, she was 13, and every time I visited my buddy she'd hug and kiss me, and she grabbed my ass a few times too. Then I find out she's been smoking pot since she was 11 and had just started dabbling with 'shrooms and LSD, and a year after this she was dating and fucking a 21 year old. Can you say "statutory"?

Wow, the thread was called "why do i <insert subject matter here>" and you didn't say "Because you touch yourself at night!" you're losing it aerius.

In response to the OP, i've met people like that too, she's making up for something (could be parental, or something from her past) with all the sex and just lumping it on you to get attention and to vent, probably.

[Anarchist Bunny]

Maybe she's just BSing to sound like she's experienced.

If she is, she is one hell of a BSer, cause I really don't think this is a lie.

[zombie84]

I'm reminded of Mena Suvari's character from American Beauty.

The fact that she is telling you these things, in an almost prideful way, is defintily meaning she is doing it for the attention. Girls with low self esteem often are slutty because being fucked/desired by men makes them feel good about themselves, especially when its older men. That and she probably has serious psychological issues. Eventually either she'll crack or something very bad will happen to her. But thats pretty much a given.

[Alan Bolte]

Sounds like some nice girls I know. Sounds like my girlfriend, actually, in her younger years. Plenty of girls do that, but in my experience it's more of a stage than an indication of their future. Sure, a lot bad can come of it, but you'd be surprised at how rare that is if they choose their partners with any sense at all and always use protection. As to age, she's actually on the older edge of the spectrum for that stage, going by girls I know.

[Anarchist Bunny]

In response to the OP, i've met people like that too, she's making up for something (could be parental, or something from her past) with all the sex and just lumping it on you to get attention and to vent, probably.

God, I just hope it's not a cry for help or something, cause I'm the wrong person to do something like that with. I just don't like to get involved in other people's shit, and it would take something really, really serious to get me to interviene.

[neoolong]

Sounds like some nice girls I know. Sounds like my girlfriend, actually, in her younger years. Plenty of girls do that, but in my experience it's more of a stage than an indication of their future. Sure, a lot bad can come of it, but you'd be surprised at how rare that is if they choose their partners with any sense at all and always use protection. As to age, she's actually on the older edge of the spectrum for that stage, going by girls I know.

Actually, that's some pretty extreme behavior.

I don't think that plenty of girls do stuff that extreme.

A 31 year old boyfriend at 16?

[Spanky The Dolphin]

Sounds like some nice girls I know. Sounds like my girlfriend, actually, in her younger years. Plenty of girls do that, but in my experience it's more of a stage than an indication of their future. Sure, a lot bad can come of it, but you'd be surprised at how rare that is if they choose their partners with any sense at all and always use protection. As to age, she's actually on the older edge of the spectrum for that stage, going by girls I know.

I really hope that you're not saying what I deep down think you might be...

[aphexmonster]

meh ... ive had more fucked up friends, your female aquantance isn't that bad really, i suppose shes just experemental. i'de say she just hangs out with the wrong crowd ... i would hardly call her the fucked up one, that would be a fundamental attribution error

[Anarchist Bunny]

I'm reminded of Mena Suvari's character from American Beauty.

The fact that she is telling you these things, in an almost prideful way, is defintily meaning she is doing it for the attention. Girls with low self esteem often are slutty because being fucked/desired by men makes them feel good about themselves, especially when its older men. That and she probably has serious psychological issues. Eventually either she'll crack or something very bad will happen to her. But thats pretty much a given.

I wouldn't say it was prideful, most of it went down over a month ago before she told me, was kind of embaressed by it, and told me not to tell anyone she knew.

[Asst. Asst. Lt. Cmdr. Smi]

Wow. It's just unbelievable that someone like that goes to your high school. If someone told me that, odds are they're bullshitting and think I'm as gullible and stupid as the other guys I hang out with.

[Rye]

In response to the OP, i've met people like that too, she's making up for something (could be parental, or something from her past) with all the sex and just lumping it on you to get attention and to vent, probably.

God, I just hope it's not a cry for help or something, cause I'm the wrong person to do something like that with. I just don't like to get involved in other people's shit, and it would take something really, really serious to get me to interviene.

Nah, it just sounded more like average attention grabbing stuff(especially adding the lesbian sex), in my experience, people like that would end up practically moving into your house to indicate that you are their "cry for"helper.

[Tsyroc]

And with that it's time for me to jump out of this thread and never come back before the story-swapping begins...

Don't worry. I'm sure someone will keep you up to date on the thread via private message, especially if it gets really good.

[zombie84]

I wouldn't say it was prideful, most of it went down over a month ago before she told me, was kind of embaressed by it, and told me not to tell anyone she knew.

In that case then i would say it would probably be like a cry for help. You should probably tell her that tha kind of thing is not normal and that she should get herself together and that you'll always be there for support. You know what i mean? I dunno, if she is confiding in you and confessing all these things but is afraid of others knowing about it...well, thats a sign isnt it?

[Spanky The Dolphin]

And with that it's time for me to jump out of this thread and never come back before the story-swapping begins...

Don't worry. I'm sure someone will keep you up to date on the thread via private message, especially if it gets really good.

You sould keep in mind that I have an insanely high level of zero tolerance when it comes to pedophilia, statutory rape, and other examples of such sickening perversions...

[Anarchist Bunny]

Wow. It's just unbelievable that someone like that goes to your high school. If someone told me that, odds are they're bullshitting and think I'm as gullible and stupid as the other guys I hang out with.

Yeah, well my school has a lot of fucked up people, someone in my circle of friends that diddled with another friend's 10 year old sister, this chick that lost her virginity in a ditch, got caught masturbating with a sink after he parents took the faucet off their shower cause she was masturbating with it, wants to have all her kids before she's 18 so she can get her belly button pierced at 18, a black friend that robbed a chicken joint armed twice the second time killing a father of two, etc. etc. etc.

So yeah, this hit me by surprise from this person, but in general isn't something shocking to me.

[Gandalf]

You sould keep in mind that I have an insanely high level of zero tolerance when it comes to pedophilia, statutory rape, and other examples of such sickening perversions...

As do I, I stand by the claim that that is fucked beyond anything I've seen outside of a movie.