yes
the photo.
I explained everything to the girl today, she is alright with it, she believed my story, and anything anyone tells her from now on should be ignored. The beauty of honesty *sigh*
Problem is... there is a slight possibility that the person who leaked it just happens to visit this board.... this is one of two public places where i showed the pic... the other place i made a huge deal of getting it removed cos i couldn't edit my posts, here i did it kinda silently. the picture also hasn't been on my server for about 6 weeks, which means it was taken atleast that long ago, why it took so long to surface boggles the mind.
the other place has far too few members and the chances are far too slim... however here, who knows O.o
a friend is finding out for me from the person i suspect did it, or rather, am 99.999999% certain, cos i would actually end up hurting the person if i did it myself.
Sorry ad, i don't have any copies of the photo anymore, so i can't show you, even in a PM.
However, if you want to take a look at the "what do you look like thread" and have a look at some of my posts, look for where innerbrat starts asking for phone numbers
should give you an idea.