Dilemna

Jadeite · Post by **Jadeite** » 2002-10-10 04:56pm

why don´t you call her?

Cant, her phone line is disconnected, otherwise I would.

Post by **Lagmonster** » 2002-10-10 04:58pm

Jadeite wrote:GRRRRRRRRRR! She wasnt at school today Sick apparently. Damnit! I want to just freaking get this over with.

You're too tense about it. It's human interaction. You do it all the time. By now, you've probably used body language enough to tell half the universe what you want. If you know, and your friends know, she probably isn't dumb enough that she doesn't have a clue. I found that out way back in high school.

It's odd, but I accomplished more by arranging for casual rendezvous, and treating them as such, than in placing girls' expectations for a romantic encounter.

Movie and dinner are the staple of dating because they force you to keep your mouth shut most of the time. Still, I always would find out what she likes to do and offer to take her out or join her to do it. That way you can avoid being too traditional, and you can show her that you really are interested in her and her interests specifically. If you get past the first date, you can do stuff you like. The initial objective is to show her that you'll do the kind of stuff that she likes, just so long as you can do it with HER.

Of course, if you just want to get laid, it doesn't matter what you do. If she's in the mood to screw you just shut up and let it happen. To quote Chris Rock: "A woman knows right away if she's going to have sex with you. She'll be shaking your hand and thinking, 'Oh, I'm gonna give him some. I hope he doesn't say anything too stupid.'."

salm · Post by **salm** » 2002-10-10 04:58pm

damn, is she hot? can you post a pic?

Jadeite · Post by **Jadeite** » 2002-10-10 06:10pm

my scanners not working right now, otherwise i would.

salm · Post by **salm** » 2002-10-10 06:13pm

Jadeite wrote:my scanners not working right now, otherwise i would.

yeah, right...

Post by **Kuja** » 2002-10-10 06:44pm

Akkkk! Shit like this has happened to me too! I HATE it.

Can't you go over to her house? Ask if she's doing okay. You know, just "I dropped by to see how you're doing." You don't even have to ask her, but she'll probably start getting the hint by now.

Jadeite · Post by **Jadeite** » 2002-10-10 09:10pm

Akkkk! Shit like this has happened to me too! I HATE it.

Can't you go over to her house? Ask if she's doing okay. You know, just "I dropped by to see how you're doing." You don't even have to ask her, but she'll probably start getting the hint by now.

Cant, dont have my license, and she lives on other side of town. It seems like everything that can go wrong suddenly is, lol. Im gonna ask her 1st good chance I get tomorrow.

Next of Kin · Post by **Next of Kin** » 2002-10-10 09:20pm

Jadeite wrote:
Akkkk! Shit like this has happened to me too! I HATE it.

Can't you go over to her house? Ask if she's doing okay. You know, just "I dropped by to see how you're doing." You don't even have to ask her, but she'll probably start getting the hint by now.
Cant, dont have my license, and she lives on other side of town. It seems like everything that can go wrong suddenly is, lol. Im gonna ask her 1st good chance I get tomorrow.

Take a cab, ride your bike, scoot over there on your skateboard. Just get there man!

Jadeite · Post by **Jadeite** » 2002-10-10 11:14pm

Take a cab, ride your bike, scoot over there on your skateboard. Just get there man!

Cant, had other things to do unfortunately. But, if shes at school tomorrow, im not going to let anything get in my way

.

Post by **Kuja** » 2002-10-10 11:25pm

Enough with the pussyfoot Feddie-attack crap.

It's time for a Base Delta Zero!

Jadeite · Post by **Jadeite** » 2002-10-10 11:32pm

Enough with the pussyfoot Feddie-attack crap.

It's time for a Base Delta Zero!

Which means.......?

Post by **Kuja** » 2002-10-10 11:44pm

ASK HER!

Sorry, but the connection popped up in my mind and I HAD to say it.

Spanky The Dolphin · Post by **Spanky The Dolphin** » 2002-10-10 11:45pm

It means Buy Her Flowers!!

Knife · Post by **Knife** » 2002-10-11 02:35am

AAAARRRRGH, Its like a soap opera. You keep hoping for him to ask and the universe is against it. Come on dude, you got a shit load of people cheering for ya.

SEE HER
WALK UP TO HER
SAY, HEY BEEN TRIING TO ASK FOR DAYS BUT SHIT KEEPS HAPPENING

LETS GO OUT!!!!!!!!

Jadeite · Post by **Jadeite** » 2002-10-11 04:41pm

I did it. I asked her. Right after lunch, me and her were walking together in the hallway, and I asked her if shed like to go out. She said to give her the weekend to think about it, and that shed probably have an answer for me on monday.

Post by **Kuja** » 2002-10-11 04:43pm

Good for you, man! Don't worry, this weekend is probably just the time she needs to make sure she's ready for another relationship. (she just got dumped after all)

Congrats!

Spanky The Dolphin · Post by **Spanky The Dolphin** » 2002-10-11 04:45pm

Hooray!!

(but just in case there's the small chance she says no, don't take it too hard.)

Jadeite · Post by **Jadeite** » 2002-10-11 06:14pm

(but just in case there's the small chance she says no, don't take it too hard.)

Lol, actually I was expecting her to say no, dont know why, just was, so Im not going to take it hard if she does.

Next of Kin · Post by **Next of Kin** » 2002-10-11 06:52pm

Jadeite wrote:
(but just in case there's the small chance she says no, don't take it too hard.)
Lol, actually I was expecting her to say no, dont know why, just was, so Im not going to take it hard if she does.

You're right! There was no harm in asking. I hope you get your date!

Sothis · Post by **Sothis** » 2002-10-11 07:09pm

All I can say is.... the best of luck to ya

Always nice to see romance blossom... did I just type that? Now I just need a pair of people at work to find that sparkle

Next of Kin · Post by **Next of Kin** » 2002-10-13 12:06am

Jadeite, any news from the dating front???

Post by **Kuja** » 2002-10-13 12:09am

He said Monday, remember?

Stormbringer · Post by **Stormbringer** » 2002-10-13 12:12am

IG-88E wrote:He said Monday, remember?

Obviously not.

Jadeite · Post by **Jadeite** » 2002-10-14 04:36pm

ok, this will explain everything you guys need to know.

Sean-

Hey. Ok look, I dont like you as a person I would go out with. Besides, Im not exactly dating material right now, trust me! I dont think you guys understand what is going on with me right now. I love you as a friend and thats always been the way I looked at you. Sorry, Im kinda depressed right now so I wouldnt make the best GF anyway. Besides I...well you dont want to know why, trust me. It would not be fair to you if I were to destroy if I were to dumbly say yes! I could ruin a perfectly good friendship and the same goes for Andrew. Tell him not to bother. You know, I think of you guys as great friends, and thats why its hard for me to say this. Its like you get hurt either way! Grr, sometimes (well most times) I really hate myself! I dont know what you guys see in me... Well I g2g
Bye!

-Always-

Please shoot me now.....

Post by **Kuja** » 2002-10-14 04:39pm

Sigh, well it's better than going out, breaking up, and not even being friends anymore, that's some consolation.

She's probably right when she says she's not dating material. A lot of people tend to focues on shortcomings after being dumped and are'nt the best of company (personal experience)

Well, I'm sorry things didn't go your way, but as my dad once told me: "There's always more fish in the sea."