Where's that sweet girl I thought I knew?

[His Divine Shadow]

Found out yesterday one of my friends had been doing drugs for several months now(she told me)... Her? I still have a hard time believing it, she's one of the sweetest girls I know, or I thought I knew, whoa...

This is what she wrote on her profile now in this online community:

• I am stupid, because I have taken drugs •
• Not even my closest friends have seen that I have been different! •
• I had taken drugs for maybe three months and nobody noticed! •
• What kind of friends do I have... •
• Don’t take me wrong, I love them! •
• But some of them said that they would know if some of their friends were on drugs •
• But they didn’t. •
• The Kid helped me with avoiding drugs. •

I dunno who "The Kid" is, but thanks alot to him I say!

[Shinova]

..........hhmmm is all I'll say for now.

[revprez]

Found out yesterday one of my friends had been doing drugs for several months now(she told me)... Her? I still have a hard time believing it, she's one of the sweetest girls I know, or I thought I knew, whoa...

What's she doin?

Rev Prez

[His Divine Shadow]

..........hhmmm is all I'll say for now.

Howcome?

[His Divine Shadow]

What's she doin?

You mean what kind of drugs? I have no idea, I've asked, no answer.

[Shinova]

Howcome?

? I am stupid, because I have taken drugs ?
? Not even my closest friends have seen that I have been different! ?
? I had taken drugs for maybe three months and nobody noticed! ?

hhmmm

? What kind of friends do I have...

hhmmm

? Don?t take me wrong, I love them!

hhmmm

? But some of them said that they would know if some of their friends were on drugs ?
? But they didn?t.

hhmmm


So basically she took drugs cause she hoped that would make her friends pay more attention to her???? And then she says what kinds of friends she has??? And so she's pissed at her friends cause they didn't know she was on drugs???

What the hell was she thinking??? As if destroying oneself is the right way to grab attention and sympathy from others. Why don't she just commit suicide then? I'm sure someone will definetly notice that.

[Spanky The Dolphin]

I don't think she did it to get their attention. I think she's saying that she thinks that they should have noticed something that gave away that she was. Nor does she sound pissed. Upset, yes, but not pissed.

[Shinova]

I don't think she did it to get their attention. I think she's saying that she thinks that they should have noticed something that gave away that she was. Nor does she sound pissed. Upset, yes, but not pissed.

Okay, that's true, she was upset.

In that case she's upset that bringing harm to herself hasn't caught the attention of her friends. If she got sucked into drugs, then I would think she'd probably have at least tried to talk with one of them.

[His Divine Shadow]

So basically she took drugs cause she hoped that would make her friends pay more attention to her???? And then she says what kinds of friends she has??? And so she's pissed at her friends cause they didn't know she was on drugs???

I dunno about any of those conclusions, nor is she pissed or anything.

I do know she's had alot of trouble lately, a few months ago she broke up with her BF, I think he cheated even.

[revprez]

What's she doin?

You mean what kind of drugs? I have no idea, I've asked, no answer.

Well, if it's weed, then no big. She's just in danger of going to sleep early.

Rev Prez

[jenat-lai]

Girls with problems often have bigger problems... and breaking up with a boyfriend isn't good enough reason. Being raped by someone is. So is childhood abuse

[His Divine Shadow]

Well, if it's weed, then no big. She's just in danger of going to sleep early.

Fuck weed.

[Darth Wong]

Some drug addicts are very good at covering up, which is why you can have stockbrokers who continue to function despite a coke habit (until it gets so bad that they spiral out of control, but she obviously didn't reach that point).

[Col. Crackpot]

i did some drugs when i was younger. weed mostly. laced with dust once....that was scary. I gave it up when i started dating Melissa. I grew out of it i guess. My point is , the drug use maybe isn't the issue. Shit, i can't think of very many friends that haven't at least treid them and they are well adjusted sucessful members of society...... bankers, lawyers, engineers, salespeople, teachers. She's acting out to bring attention to a larger problem. Don't freak out and run off because she smoked a bit or popped a pill.

[His Divine Shadow]

Drugs are a big deal where I come from, I still cannoth fathom you americans liberal views on drugs.
You have to be seriously fucked in some way here todo things like that, it's very serious.

And I absofuckinglutely hate drugs, and even more the mentality that drugs are ok and that you can "just do a little" and other shit like that, it makes my blood boil.

But I won't run off or anything, I'm not angry at her or anything, just shocked, maybe just angry in general though.
If I find out there was someone who got her to start this shit(such people are NOT friends, lowest scum on the planet perhaps) so help me god wheter he exists or not, if I meet him.

[Rye]

Drugs are a big deal where I come from, I still cannoth fathom you americans liberal views on drugs.

Well, cigarettes and alcohol are legal there right? Not think that's a wee bit hypocritical?

the mentality that drugs are ok and that you can "just do a little" and other shit like that, it makes my blood boil.

You sound indoctrinated, you can do a little, that's why opiates like morphine are used in hospitals. And some marijuana can help out with arthritis immensely.

But I won't run off or anything, I'm not angry at her or anything, just shocked, maybe just angry in general though.
If I find out there was someone who got her to start this shit(such people are NOT friends, lowest scum on the planet perhaps) so help me god wheter he exists or not, if I meet him.

Well, if she needs someone, be there, that's what i'd do.

[Darth Wong]

I can't believe she's mad at her friends for not realizing that she was doing drugs. This suggests a rather high level of self-absorption on her part.

[His Divine Shadow]

Well, cigarettes and alcohol are legal there right? Not think that's a wee bit hypocritical?

Well yes, but I don't see any reason that more drugs should be allowed onto the market than what we already got, and atleast cigarettes do not impair the user in any sense, some people would probably say thats bad, but it's good to my viewing at it.

As for alcohol, it can be taken without intoxication, so thats a plus to me as well, there's no such thing with pot or coke or heroin and so on, and you don't go out to have a pizza and say wash it down a little heroin on the side do you?

You sound indoctrinated, you can do a little,

I'm not, I have come to this on my own, in a country far more liberal than america, and I think the can do a little is a shit attitude to have, fuck drugs.

that's why opiates like morphine are used in hospitals. And some marijuana can help out with arthritis immensely.

Medical uses, neccesary evils if you ask me.
It's the whole point of taking it to get high thats disgusting to me.

[His Divine Shadow]

I can't believe she's mad at her friends for not realizing that she was doing drugs. This suggests a rather high level of self-absorption on her part.

She's not really mad at us, well atleast not me.