chicks got issues

mantakai · Post by **mantakai** » 2004-01-24 07:24am

what does it mean when a female says she loves and cant talk to you cause she is confused as to her feelings then when you do talk to her two days later she says "oops i forgot to tell you i am now dating this guy i just met"

Yuri Prime · Post by **Yuri Prime** » 2004-01-24 07:30am

That's a cop out. You don't forget about people that you care about or are interested in.

Post by **Broomstick** » 2004-01-24 09:17am

Means one of two things:

1) She really is a confused bubblehead with the memory retention of Dory from Finding Nemo

2) (more likely) She isn't confused at all, she wants to dump you, but she's

...a) too chickenshit to tell you directly
...b) wants you to do the breaking up, so you're the bad guy
...c) has some fucked up notion about "nice girls" not saying things to disturb someone or possibly cause confrontation (but apparently acting like an asshat is OK)
...d) a self-centered bitch who doesn't care about your feelings
...e) some combination of a through d

Is this chick really a loss? Find someone of better quality to spend time with.

EmperorMing · Post by **EmperorMing** » 2004-01-24 11:35am

Most people have been through that crap at least once.

Best to let it slide as she is someone who can't come out and tell anyone straight up yes or no. And yes it has happened to me. Fuck 'em. Their loss. I know I have better people to waste my time on.

Superman · Post by **Superman** » 2004-01-24 12:15pm

Look man, she's not interested in you. Get a new chick.

aphexmonster · Post by **aphexmonster** » 2004-01-24 12:17pm

Superman wrote:Look man, she's not interested in you. Get a new chick.

ah the bluntness of superman

Stormbringer · Post by **Stormbringer** » 2004-01-24 12:20pm

mantakai wrote:what does it mean when a female says she loves and cant talk to you cause she is confused as to her feelings then when you do talk to her two days later she says "oops i forgot to tell you i am now dating this guy i just met"

Two possibilities:

1) It's her way of ditching you.

2) She's that fucking stupid

No good can come of either.

Superman · Post by **Superman** » 2004-01-24 12:22pm

You know what's funny? If girls are not 100% clear about everything, then guys are like 'yes but what do you mean?' A girl could say, "...I just don't think we have a future together" and the guy would be like "so does that mean we are still together now..." We guys are like the stray dog that comes around. If you feed it ANYTHING AT ALL, it will just keep coming back.

aphexmonster · Post by **aphexmonster** » 2004-01-24 12:26pm

That, and the fact that we're awfully obedient to our feeder ¬_¬

Mayabird · Post by **Mayabird** » 2004-01-24 12:43pm

Female advice: dump her. Like everyone else was saying, she's either pussyfooting around the issue or a complete idiot.

Is it just me, or are a lot of girls taught to be indecisive or act that way? I had a lot of problems understanding girls at school because they were always pulling crap like that, not just in romantic issues either.

Me: "Hey, joining marching band again next year?"
Girl: "Oh, I don't know."
Me: "What do you mean, you don't know? You DID like it, didn't you? It always seemed you enjoyed it."
Girl: "Well yes, but...I don't know."
Me: "What, were you faking it or something? We always have a great time."
Girl: "I don't know what I think. Maybe I feel like I don't really want to."
Me:

And then we lost the first chair clarinet.

I wasn't brought up that way, so I never understood it. People confuse me.

Superman · Post by **Superman** » 2004-01-24 12:45pm

Girls are better at reading between the lines. In fact, they SPEAK between the lines. The mistake that they make is assuming that guys do this as well.

EmperorMing · Post by **EmperorMing** » 2004-01-24 12:47pm

Superman wrote:Girls are better at reading between the lines. In fact, they SPEAK between the lines. The mistake that they make is assuming that guys do this as well.

Interesting. Something to remember...

muse · Post by **muse** » 2004-01-24 01:35pm

mantakai wrote:what does it mean when a female says she loves and cant talk to you cause she is confused as to her feelings then when you do talk to her two days later she says "oops i forgot to tell you i am now dating this guy i just met"

It means she's been brainwashed from reading too many female lifestyle magazines such as Cosmo. Those things make girls into airheads and give them severely distorted views on relationships and body image. Either that or she's just severely misguided and doesn't know what she wants. It's sad seeing these people, they give females a bad rep.

Queeb Salaron · Post by **Queeb Salaron** » 2004-01-24 02:25pm

mantakai wrote:what does it mean when a female says she loves and cant talk to you cause she is confused as to her feelings then when you do talk to her two days later she says "oops i forgot to tell you i am now dating this guy i just met"

It means she's a filthy ho-bag.

Illuminatus Primus · Post by **Illuminatus Primus** » 2004-01-24 02:27pm

Queeb Salaron wrote:
mantakai wrote:what does it mean when a female says she loves and cant talk to you cause she is confused as to her feelings then when you do talk to her two days later she says "oops i forgot to tell you i am now dating this guy i just met"
It means she's a filthy ho-bag.

Ah Queeb, Queeb, Queeb...where would we be without you?

Queeb Salaron · Post by **Queeb Salaron** » 2004-01-24 02:38pm

Illuminatus Primus wrote:Ah Queeb, Queeb, Queeb...where would we be without you?

I think Newsweek said that you'd be a far more advanced species if it weren't for me.

But hey, who needs advancement when you've got bad comedy?

Rogue 9 · Post by **Rogue 9** » 2004-01-24 08:51pm

I don't know. Where were we for all that time he was gone?

Oh wait, I know. Being the scum of the universe.

Captain Cyran · Post by **Captain Cyran** » 2004-01-24 10:13pm

Hehehe. There are times when I love my bluntness. I asked this one girl if she liked me. It went like this.

Me: So do you like me?
Her: I can but I won't.
Me: You're worming your way out of answering...
Her: I think I need to find dumber friends. But I just don't think I like you that way.

Defiant · Post by **Defiant** » 2004-01-24 10:24pm

Superman wrote:Girls are better at reading between the lines. In fact, they SPEAK between the lines. The mistake that they make is assuming that guys do this as well.

The reason why men and women have such trouble communicating is because of the complex versus the simple.

Women are complex creatures. Complex thoughts that run everywhere, complex words that come out one way, and mean something totally different, and complex actions that are totally different from the thoughts and words.

As for men, however, we're pretty simple. Ask us what we're thinking, and we'll say "nothing" and mean it. It doesn't take much to please us, and we could give a rats ass about most things.

So, the best way to interpret what women say is to ignore everything except the last statement out of their mouths, because that's the one that's usually true.

Of course, I'm currently single, so my advice is suspect...

Post by **Kuja** » 2004-01-24 10:43pm

Captain_Cyran wrote:Her: I think I need to find dumber friends.[/i]

Well, she's got her work cut out for her.

Hehehe.

Captain Cyran · Post by **Captain Cyran** » 2004-01-24 10:51pm

Kuja wrote:
Captain_Cyran wrote:Her: I think I need to find dumber friends.[/i]
Well, she's got her work cut out for her.

Hehehe.

And here everyone was expecting another post of Kuja's going through his extensive sex life with random chicks in random places.

*thinks* Wait... work cut out for her to find dumber friends. Doesn't that mean that I'm smart and that there is a severe lack of dumb people in my area?

Queeb Salaron · Post by **Queeb Salaron** » 2004-01-24 11:29pm

Captain_Cyran wrote:*thinks* Wait... work cut out for her to find dumber friends. Doesn't that mean that I'm smart and that there is a severe lack of dumb people in my area?[/i]

No. It means there aren't many people dumber than you.

C'mon. Even I got that one.

Captain Cyran · Post by **Captain Cyran** » 2004-01-24 11:32pm

Queeb Salaron wrote:
Captain_Cyran wrote:*thinks* Wait... work cut out for her to find dumber friends. Doesn't that mean that I'm smart and that there is a severe lack of dumb people in my area?[/i]
No. It means there aren't many people dumber than you.

C'mon. Even I got that one.

Wow I can't believe I missed that one...

*goes off to sulk at being a total dumbass.*

mantakai · Post by **mantakai** » 2004-01-25 05:32am

ok i only read teh first few posts and i feel i should clarrify some things, we arent even dating she is like my best friend from school and we have been mates for two years and whatnot.

neoolong · Post by **neoolong** » 2004-01-25 06:00am

Could just mean she worked out that she only loves you like a friend, and therefore is open to going out with some other guy.

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