Ahhh well, bye bye friendship, not that you ever where real.

His Divine Shadow · Post by **His Divine Shadow** » 2004-03-10 09:45am

Yeah, ended the cause of nearly a year worth of being depressed now, or atleast I feel alot better about it, told my ex. to stuff it to put it bluntly, don't wanna be her friend, don't wanna have her around me, and I know what kind of manipulative bitch she is and how she used me.

This was a relationship that ended last summer, but not because I wanted it too.

She kept me hooked for a long time really, pretended we where friends, I wouldn't mind buying her a beer, or stuff like that, but that was also all I was there for apparently.

I kinda suspected that the last few months, but not until one her friends, who is also my friend, told me what she had said about me (something like, "well if he doesn't want todo these things he doesn't have to, but atleast I get beer and alcohol if I want" this is also a part of what made her "best" friends secretly hate her) did I know for certain.

So enough with this bitch, she's dug her own grave, nobody of her best friends even likes her anymore, but noone says anything because they are real friends with her BF who they don't want to alientate or hurt.

I don't care though, I told her something like this over a mail, yes a mail, she don't deserve a real conversation:
Why do you keep me on that special friend list of yours(online community thing) anyway? It's not like we are friends now is it? We just know each other, thats all.

Come to think of it, I doubt we ever where friends, or anything more than that either, I was just usefull to you because I was over 18, had a car and could buy beer.

Just thought you should know that I know, too.

Then there was some whining and such and other stuff, but I don't care nor believe anything she says.
This was to me like taking off a leash, I feel much more free now.

Oh well, carpe jugulum.

Comosicus · Post by **Comosicus** » 2004-03-10 10:40am

Good luck in finding someone who is fitted for you.

Cornelius · Post by **Cornelius** » 2004-03-10 12:50pm

People llike that are assholes. They try to make you a door-mat if you let them. I once had a friend that "pretended" to be all nice untill he learned 2 drive and didn't need me anymore.

Illuminatus Primus · Post by **Illuminatus Primus** » 2004-03-10 01:07pm

That's fucking rough.

Sounds like my disgusting-excuse-for-a-human-being ex. I know how those kind of using, revolting, selfish egomaniacs are.

Fuck 'em. You're a kind guy, HDS, and good for you for standing up for your shit.

aphexmonster · Post by **aphexmonster** » 2004-03-10 02:54pm

YES! GOOD LUCK! FIGHT THE POWER.

Theres nothing wrong with being involved with woman, but theres a shit load wrong with being controled and minipulated by them >_<

good fucking job, and good fucking riddance. You're better off

Anarchist Bunny · Post by **Anarchist Bunny** » 2004-03-10 06:31pm

Yeah, I got a ex and a "friend" hanging on me like that right now for help in school. I'm cold shouldering both of them right now so they don't try to spend too much time with me(have classes with them that I think would be more uncomfortable if they were pissed off at me), and am already thinking of what I'm gonna say to them. For the "friend" it goes along the line of "Oh my god, I'm so happy, guess what" 'what?' "I'm never gonna have to talk to you again, I've seen lemmings with better decision making skills than you and I'm tired of you only trying to be nice to me when your depressed because your on an almost purposeful path to ruin your life."

GoldenFalcon · Post by **GoldenFalcon** » 2004-03-10 07:12pm

I know the feeling, know many..uh, "friends" in school that don't talk to me for anything except to get homework.