Help! Possible Pregancy Advice!

UltraViolence83 · Post by **UltraViolence83** » 2004-03-29 01:07am

I talked to my girlfriend tonight...she's LATE!

And yes I did use protection. But I had my dick rub her clit without a rubber first, though. No, I didn't orgasm while actually fucking her.

She was on her period when this happened and 3 weeks later had another one. Now she's late. Is it possible she's pregnant?

Sorry if my questions portray my ignorance of the female reproductive system. I find their innards so...messy.

Superman · Post by **Superman** » 2004-03-29 01:14am

If you're having sex with her, yes, it is possible. You can even pull out and still get her pregnant.

What kind of protection did you use?

Post by **Darth Wong** » 2004-03-29 01:22am

How regular are her periods under normal conditions? Some women have highly variable periods, thus leading to a lot of unnecessary tension and hand-wringing when one comes in late. I wouldn't worry about it until it's several weeks late.

If her previous period was only 3 weeks long as you say, I suspect that she's one of those women whose period frequency varies from month to month, so "late" is a relative term. If she's a month late, be worried.

UltraViolence83 · Post by **UltraViolence83** » 2004-03-29 02:00am

Superman: Trojan rubber.

Darth Wong: It's usually 3 weeks. Her pills sometimes vary the time of her periods.

In all reason, niether of us feel she's really pregnant, as the second period should have washed out the egg, but we're both paranoid and she already has a kid to take care of.

InnerBrat · Post by **InnerBrat** » 2004-03-29 03:50am

Wait up, you had sex over seven weeks ago?

If she was seven weeks pregnant, she'd know about it.
But get her to go to the clinic and pee in a cup anyway, just for her peace of mind.

Ravenwing · Post by **Ravenwing** » 2004-03-29 10:48am

during her period? then the egg wouldnt be able to stay as strange as this sounds its true, even a fertilised egg would be washed out with the blood. its poss but you may as well start a religion.......
the lateness could be stress or something, check how regular her times are cause maybe they may have just fallen out of whack for a while

General Zod · Post by **General Zod** » 2004-03-29 10:56am

get a pregnancy test. that's the only way to be sure at all about this type of thing. missing a period isn't exactly an obvious indication, even though it may be a sign of it.

UltraViolence83 · Post by **UltraViolence83** » 2004-03-29 12:29pm

Thanks, everyone. This is putting my mind back at ease.

As for the period/pregnancy thing, I've heard everything from it's impossible to it's the best time to get pregnant while menstrating. Of course most of that is anecdotal evidence, but still I didn't know what to believe. She's due to the gynocologist next month anyway so we'll know for sure.

A much worse problem however is the reason she's going in the first place: she's had cervical cancer in the past. If she has it again, they'll need to remove it, and she can't have a kid without much help from modern medicine i.e., surrogate mother/stitching up her uterus.

Post by **The Yosemite Bear** » 2004-03-29 01:43pm

another reason why the resident diabetic is fairly happy about being reduced to fingers...

Ravenwing · Post by **Ravenwing** » 2004-03-30 10:22am

poor thing. that must suck to know you might get it taken out. my mum had to after i was born cause she had endometriosis and shes told me shes just lucky she managed to have me at all cause she really wanted kids. must suck to know you cant have them full stop.

salm · Post by **salm** » 2004-03-30 10:29am

i went through all of this testing once. damn, the 10 minutes you have to wait for the test do react really suck. the relief afterwards (at least if the test is negative) is fantastic though.

i recomend to kick away the trojan rubbers and get her one of these little contraception sticks which are inserted into the woman´s arm. they last about 3 years and are even slightly cheaper than pills.

Keevan_Colton · Post by **Keevan_Colton** » 2004-03-30 10:39am

Such implants arent suitable for everyone...particularly those on some other sorts of medications.

Ravenwing · Post by **Ravenwing** » 2004-03-30 10:47am

salm wrote:i went through all of this testing once. damn, the 10 minutes you have to wait for the test do react really suck. the relief afterwards (at least if the test is negative) is fantastic though.

i recomend to kick away the trojan rubbers and get her one of these little contraception sticks which are inserted into the woman´s arm. they last about 3 years and are even slightly cheaper than pills.

what about that before pill that guys can take? and there are several temp treatments for men, the thing is, why is it our job? if your gonna participate then you should worry about the after too

salm · Post by **salm** » 2004-03-30 10:56am

Ravenwing wrote: what about that before pill that guys can take? and there are several temp treatments for men, the thing is, why is it our job? if your gonna participate then you should worry about the after too

pills for men are fine with me. but i think the pills are not effective enough yet and still have to go through a couple of years of testing. i read that in an newspaper article a while ago. perhaps i´m wrong.

anyway, i like the idea of the stick in the arm because it won´t lose the effect if the woman forgets to take it, throws up or has diarrhea.

UltraViolence83 · Post by **UltraViolence83** » 2004-03-30 08:02pm

Good news! She's NOT pregnant!

*extreme sigh of relief*

Post by **The Yosemite Bear** » 2004-03-31 08:45am

You have failed in your duty to pass on your genetic inofrmation and secure immortality for your own set of sequence....

jenat-lai · Post by **jenat-lai** » 2004-03-31 09:20am

The Yosemite Bear wrote:You have failed in your duty to pass on your genetic inofrmation and secure immortality for your own set of sequence....

but succeded in having fun failing.

Ravenwing · Post by **Ravenwing** » 2004-03-31 10:33am

jenat-lai wrote:
The Yosemite Bear wrote:You have failed in your duty to pass on your genetic inofrmation and secure immortality for your own set of sequence....
but succeded in having fun failing.

on a lighter not, i heard tell that the chances of a baby getting intelligence from the mother is much higher, so what about all those smart people dating supermodels?

Post by **The Yosemite Bear** » 2004-03-31 10:50am

A possible source for the continued emergance of idiots who seem to be dodging the natural selection process....