
However, you have to admit that some of the IG nerfs have not been received well in the community: as can be seen in this thread over at the Relic forums, veteran IG players are now abandoning their race in droves, and there is clearly quite a lot of dissatisfaction (to say the least) with the new patch.
Your other observations, however, are valid. I freely admit that I'm not the sort of person who really thrives on competition, which is why I never play any games online. The general unfriendliness of DoW community, in particular, reminds me far too much of the hyper-aggressive, "frat boy" sort of demographic that Halo enjoys, and I avoid that franchise's online games like the plague as well. Also, one of the unpleasant legacies of I picked up from other RTS games like Age of Empires was the compulsion to turtle and only attack with "pretty" and "complete" (fully upgraded) armies, which DoW punishes quite severely...