As to your second question, I have these things I call "jackass senses". They set off alarm bells whenever I see somebody on the verge of diving from misinformed anti-feminism into sexism. Now, the problem is that you're insisting that if I have contempt for one opposing viewpoint to my own, then I must have contempt for them all. I'll turn that right back at you. How much respect do you have for Neo-Nazis, Fascists, genocidal maniacs? Do you hear them out fully and give full quarter to their opinions? I'm not going to say, a priori, whether you are a Nazi or not, but I hope you'll understand the analogy. I get that you have a febrile mind, but it shouldn't hamper you quite that much.
I am not going to go down the story tangent as I feel it's unrelated, all I will say is that you missed my point, which is that I doubt you would support changing the etho's so much if it was not to something you personally agree with.
So is it sexist to merely not subscribe to feminism now? And here I thought modern society valued freedom of thought and speech. Have I said I hate women? Sexism is the belief that one sex is inherently superior or better than the other, that is not what I believe.
I have no problem with allowing neo-nazi's or fascists to air their opinions EVEN IF they are not widely accepted by society. Yet here you are, the moment I say something you do not accept, attempting to label me as one of The Bads and associate me with them.
If you do not believe in freedom of speech for those you despise, then you don't believe in it at all.
It's hardly a false wage gap. The gap is there and has been there, the question is of the causes. But you don't grasp that, since you're wrapped up in manufacturing a conspiracy against half of humanity by some fraction of the other half. I don't know how far your imaginary conspiracy extends. You might reach the depths of Dave Sim, and start ranting about how women are trying to steal your male light. You might believe that instead it's a tight conspiracy of the Lesbian Illuminati, seeking to control the entire world. I don't know, and frankly I don't want to descend into your madness any further.
Have I said there is a conspiracy? So in other words you do not intend to have an actual debate about this, but would rather associate me with a straw man and burn it down. How very enlightened. It's not like thats what mobs do or anything. Can I get you anything? A pitchfork and a torch perhaps?
That is a problem. But, when you look at our society as a whole, what we see is that overall the bias is against women and in favor of men, so something like this is probably a result of a deeper factor rather than "feminists cackle with glee at the thought of men not getting Ph.Ds and cast their sapphic spells to ensure this", such as, perhaps, the declining quality of education in a number of areas. It turns out that most feminists also feel that education needs to be revamped in this country. Damn, Retsina, it's like you're assigning beliefs to people they may not actually hold!
The irony of you accusing me of putting words in your mouth after
since you're wrapped up in manufacturing a conspiracy against half of humanity by some fraction of the other half. I don't know how far your imaginary conspiracy extends.
is pretty hilarious, though I'm sure your cognitive dissonance doesn't stop you from sleeping at night.
I could care less whether the fault lies with feminism or not, what I do care about is that the moment anyone brings up an MALE issues, they are brushed aside callously.
But, when you look at our society as a whole, what we see is that overall the bias is against women and in favor of men
Add that might even be true, but it does not make concerns by men worth any less simply because they are not a politically oppressed class. Your crowdism is frankly, sickening.
How about that men have no incentive to go to university? Recent studies have shown that being jobless and not successful doesn't even impact a man's access to sex, and it's known that society's in which females have more autonomy and freedom are much friendlier to males.
Society has been built on the redirecting of peoples passions into working and in reward, receiving them. If men are getting sex without working, why should they? Because they have a DUTY to? Well maybe, but why should they care?
Before you accuse me of being a jobless bum because I brought that up, no, I work, however I also know that I could get laid more if I had more free time. However I have other goals. You hope most men would have higher goals to aspire to, but it appears not. A pity.
Retsina, that was a little thing called an insult. I'm sorry you're so sensitive about your appearance that the very term "ugly mug" used as an off-hand pejorative electronically to refer to you causes you to teeter on the edge of a mental breakdown, such that you cannot even remember how to put links in your posts. I realize that I may be being reckless in continuing to insult you, but I have a degree in Internet Psychology, focusing on e-clinical assaultive therapy, so I foresee no problems.
Again, completely irrelevant. Are ad-hominems a favourite of yours?
But I'm not sorry now, since I read your second paragraph. I'm going to translate this into plain English: Retsina, here, is saying that liking science is genetically controlled and a sex-linked trait that is male-biased. Bingo! Bingo! That outburst of evopsych biotruths just gave me a nice bingo! Too bad you don't have any extraordinary evidence for this extraordinary claim.
Again, you misunderstand or wilfully distort, what I am saying is that your ideology is based on the premise that men and women are the same. And I disagree. Furthermore, we just had a huge thread on transexuals where someone was smacked down -rightly- for saying that people who get sex changes could be socialised out of it.
So which is it? Are we the same or not? You can't have it both ways or whichever way depending on the subject at hand. Either men and women are the same and are simply socialised into gender roles, and thus, transsexualism is socialised (here's a hint, thats wrong). Or they are not, and some of our behaviour is determined by the structures of our brain.
Here's the reasoning: there are few famous female scientists. Those that are famous are still often downplayed compared with others. The overall stereotype of a scientist is an older, white man who fits the "mad scientist" stereotype. So there are few role models for little girls that are science-related. Those that are are often in the life sciences- which are more egalitarian than the "hard" sciences. Toys like chemistry sets, LEGO blocks, and gadgets in general are seen as boy toys. Current scientific areas are generally male-dominated and may or may not have an "old boy's club" feel that discourage women undergraduates from continuing into grad school. That's ignoring the overall pressures against women which contribute. These are just factors I can identify off the top of my head. Now explain why these are all irrelevant, and it's actually the genes that make women shop wear makeup cry like science less.
I knew you would come to this, the very idea that genes may affect behaviour in the slightest ways offends you doesn't it?
In your very own post you said that yes, there was no hiring discrimination found in those fields, company's by law cannot pay the women less so it's not that, that to me says that there is equality of opportunity, is that not good enough?
It has been 30 years since the 70's and the big successes of feminism, and yet the situation in those fields remains the same, if providing role models doesn't work will you agree that maybe the majority of women don't want to work in those fields with geeks and nerds, or will you sigh, find a new thing to blame it on and go running to daddy government?
Furthermore, how exactly do you intend to feminize the culture of science and engineering? Nerds are not known for their social graces, especially around women. Should we put the threat of losing their jobs on them if they say anything that offends the women they are working with? Yes, more oppressive and easily abused laws and working conditions for all! Spread the love!
Who cares that the number of men that are teachers is declining? I do. But unlike your paranoid ass, I recognize that this isn't a grand feminist conspiracy to destroy the male identity or whatever your brain has concocted as reasoning, and I think that the whole "all men are pedophiles" is a combination of traditional gender roles with kidnapping panic. See, in traditional gender roles, men are the sexual aggressors, and so now that we've got to be afraid of the hordes of pedos in vans trying to kidnap our kids, why, they're all male, because women are never sexually aggressive. It turns out that feminism recognizes that stereotypical gender roles hurt men in a variety of ways, and are trying to liberate men from that too, but the position of women affords them less power to mitigate said effects, and so feminists generally focus on women first.
Yes, more freedom is good for both men and women, but when it comes time to pay for the date he's a cheap loser if he doesn't. Not All Women Are Like That, but for the majority, her money is hers and his money is hers, and he better do half the housework regardless of how many hours he works or he's a lazy prick who sits in front of the TV all day.
Maybe I like being the sexual aggressor? And I have found my relationships last longer if I am the dominant partner, oops a man being dominant, I must not respect women. Is blatant self interest not a valid motivation anymore, maybe I should say instead that I am trying to liberate everyone with a smile and a wink so that the bullshit goes down easier.
Further, should not men be educated in how traditional roles are hurting them without the combativeness of typical feminism? Or are you using the traditional belief that women have the moral high ground to say they should make the change.
Equality of opportunity is a lovely trio of words. A nice soundbite. I've got my own. Society should be as fractal as we can make it. You should be able to take any university and it should have similar proportions to the country as a whole. Any career. Right now, American and Australian and Austrian and Belgian and British and Canadian and so many other countries have scientific establishments, CEOs, political establishments, all of which are not really good representations (though some are much better than others) because they aren't all that proportional. Women make up half the population of the world, but at best (in the Scandinavian countries) about 36% of the parliaments. That's not really a good picture of the country, now is it? And that's why I think that settling for some hoary soundbite reappropriated to defend institutionalized discrimination is the hallmark of jackassery.
And here is the root of disagreement, I think people (men AND women) should succeed and fail on their own merits with as little barriers placed in their path as possible. You think that every group of people should be a tiny version of the society it is based in. Crowdism. I do not accept the wisdom of the crowd, most of the proles are fucking dumb shits. Regardless, since not everyone can be at the top, the only way to achieve what you want is to drag others down in the name of ideological purity. Your solutions are social engineering on a massive scale 'for the good of the people' since they don't know any better. Though you will probably attack me for calling most people idiots without a hint of irony.
Bringing up David Reimer, meanwhile, is what we called a cheap shot back when I was younger. I am given to understand by the way in which you brought it up that it's called a "devastating argument" now. But I guess that nothing has changed, and John Money is still considered to have had the last word in studies of gender, and that the real reason why Reimer's reassignment failed was because he didn't have the doll and don't-like-science genes. Really, fuck you for trying to encode gender roles in our genes.
Like I said above, you can't have it both ways cupcake. Take your gender feminism and shove it up your ass you fucking shrike. If you think I will shut up simply because I offend you then you are sadly mistaken.