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Kelly Antilles wrote:I love kids. They're great... and even better when you can give them back. I don't want to have any of my own. Besides, I'm getting past child bearing years.

No you're not! You've at least 15 years, Kel.

I plan on having a couple of children eventually, well that is if i can find someone willing to have children with me. I have pretty much always wanted to be a father.

innerbrat wrote: No you're not! You've at least 15 years, Kel.

There are also a LOT of personal reasons that go along with my decision.

Yes. I personally love the idea of eventually getting married, having children, and raising them. It's almost a little embarassing, it makes me feel like a ten-year-old girl sometimes...

I'd like to have two kids, maybe three at the most. But for at least two girls.

I'd love to have kids some day. As a Bisexual man i might or might not end up with a female who'll want kids. I know i love my two god children with all my heart and if my own off spring are any thing like Adam or Danielle i'd be a very proud parent.

Ghost Rider wrote:Don't have them, want them....getting them without a wife so far presents a slight problem given my dating situation(though with my luck I'll marry a lesbian who's only reason is for kids)

Well you won't feel very sad if you find her cheating on you.

Kelly Antilles wrote:

innerbrat wrote: No you're not! You've at least 15 years, Kel.

There are also a LOT of personal reasons that go along with my decision.

Oh yes, I understand that, I was just saying that you could, physically, bear children with no, problems.

Your decision is your own, and I'm not going to pry.

actually I wouldn't mind having children one day. But only when I meet the girl of my dreams. Wouldn't want any children to go through a divorce and all the fights in between. Also I would like to get a stable job, a good education before considering having kids. Don't want them not having a happy life. Wouldn't be able to live with myself if my family didn't have some safety, and security.

I'd like to have a child or two, perhaps three, but I'm kind of afraid of it. I might be a bad parent, the baby might have some disability, or I might not be prepared to raise one when they come. And they can be really annoying at times. Still, I have at least a decade before that will happen.

I would really like to have my own children, maybe even 3 or 4, but not while I'm still young and adventurous, although I don't want to wait until I'm middle aged either. I figure early to mid thirties I'd like to start having them, assuming I've found someone who I'd like to live with for decades by then

the choice to have kids is like a coin toss, there are so many pros and cons for children, having watched my two younger siblings grow up, i can name many many cons but i must admit theer are many positive aspects to kids

i dont really like kids terribly, mainly because theyre brats when theyre real young, and they're a financial drain when theyre my age (i'm rather guilty that i put this burden on my parents).

As for pride, i'd rather be proud of something that took more effort then "insert dick, thrust a bit".

oh and i forgot, I'm a total bottom so its not like i CAN have kids!

Enforcer Talen wrote:do you have them? would you want them? how would you raise them?

Don't have them.
Do want them -- trying to adopt.
Would raise them the best my wife and I know how, based on Biblical principles.

based on Biblical principles.

Just don't kill them cause the bible says to.

I grew up a single child and there were times when I wished I had a sibling, but never did like little kids much. When my best friends had a little girl, I thought "Great, now Im never going to get to hang out with them again!"

So, I see them a little less, but I adore their little girl. She has changed my life, so to speak. I will not be crushed if I never have a child, but I do look forward to the time when I might meet someone to build a family with.