Posted: 2003-11-29 12:30pm
I only made my move after she made it utterly obvious that she was waiting for me to do so. I've known her for quite a while, and the change in attitude was pretty noticable.Rogue 9 wrote: Okay, I admit to suffering a religious bias here. But I hope I'm not the only one who sees a major problem with this. You seduced a friend who trusted you,
If it wasn't stopping her, it certainly wasn't stopping me. He's no friend of mine.and got her to betray her boyfriend to whom she had presumably made some sort of commitment. That is immoral by almost anyone's standards.
Oh please, she has better sense than to date a homicidal maniac. The most it might have come to was a fistfight, and I'm a foot taller and sixty pounds heavier than he is. Anyway, she's now technically "broken up" with him, yet they still live together with his parents. Whatever, not my problem. Given the chance, I still wouldn't mind getting with her, but here's the important part: I'm not waiting around on it. Hell, I dated one of her friends a while back.Besides that, if her boyfriend ever finds out, he might just kill you. And maybe her too, depending on what he's like. And you have no regrets?
So to jenat-lai, all I say is this: Quit investing all your energy into this woman who's unavailable, and go find a real girlfriend. It's your only healthy option.