InnerBrat wrote:I'm surprised no one's mentioned andrenalin as the cause of this enjoyment. There's been a lot of "but they deserve it" sentiments here, but when it comes down to it, I'm willing to bet the real reason people enjoy fighting is the pure physical rush brought on by the fight or fight reaction.
Agreed, but after some time it splits down and you get used to it. You know, fighting someone who is outclassed by you is not fun, its like breaking the neck of a bird you allredy have in your hand.
Ok, this is now
my point of view on these things.
Getting into a fight can happen through multiple events. And usually you have after the initial trigger, which tells you that fighting
will start, some choices to break off. You can run, let others do the work or surrender and blow the dick of the offender...you know. The shit things...
I fight. I live for it, and i dont just say that. Dont ask me why i choosed that path. I am not overly aggressive, i am not a psycho. I trained in Martial arts since i was 10, my father wanted me to learn from him, after four years i changed from Tea Kwon Do to Traditional Kung Fu. Seven years later i joined the military. And i am still doing my duty. 6 years now.
I see myself as a warrior. You ask "Huh? what the fuck...?". My whole life centers around combat in one form or another.
Am i a dumb brute? No. I was 13 years in school and i had very good grades. But i have no hang for studying.
Long story eh? And why did i tell you this? Because i thought some background on my views could be nice...
I had many fights. Not sparring, but those fights Aerius described so nicely.
I never looked for them, but i also never turned them down. For me its an experience. Looking for someone equal to fight.
And
if you find one, its better than sex. Its not like you have pleasure in the very moments you fight, but the emotional sensation is surpassing everything sex could offer. This is different for everyone of course, and i am sure not even a handful will share this with me.
For me it is a focussing of mind, i can only be sure to reach in this setting.
The thoughts blank out, adrenaline starts rushing in. Everything blurs out and you only concentrate on your opponent...and if you are the last one standing, all is streaming back in. The fear, the pain, the easement, the feeling of being the better one. THIS is better than sex. This moment when all is over...
But there must be a reason to fight. Self defense, or in defense of others. There is no excuse to beat someone up, just to see him suffer. And even with a reason, you have to respect and honour your opponent. That is at least what i feel about it.
Of course, there are exceptions. Like the exception Metrion Cascade stated. If that happend to me in any form i would have crippled him. So he would suffer for the rest of his life...
I did this once after something happened to a friend of mine. And i would do it again, even if jail would await me. This is called loyality.
Btw. no matter how good you are, being in a fight means you
will get hurt too. And no matter how god this one moment will ever be, if all the leaves you only the pain remains... You, your bed, the night and the pain....