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Durandal wrote:Well people, what's you limit? How much older or younger than you can a person be before you consider them too old or too young?

Well I'm 30, I wouldn't even think of a relationship with any woman under 24-25 as ther would be too many social differences, for sex it would probably be 19-20 so they have some form of experience to go with the body. As to oldest, when Iwas 22 I had sex with a 43 year old (she had a great body and knew it), but for relationships I'd say 6 years older thn me would be tops.
Looking at the women I currently have as friends I have sex with, Sandra is 3 years older than me, Lucy is 4 years younger than me, Liz is 2 years younger than me, Wyn is 5 years older than me, Claire is the same age as me and Beth is 2 years younger than me. The reason we stick together is that we can relate to one another, anyone with outside that sort of age range has kind of drifted off.
The annoying thing is that all I've ever wanted, is a woman to settle down and raise a family with, instead I seem to be stuck with lots of women that want friendship rather than a relationship! What the hell do I have to do to find a woman that wants to settle down and commit to a relationship??!!

What the hell do I have to do to find a woman that wants to settle down and commit to a relationship??!!

I second that. Sex is good and all, but what I really I want is a serious relation. Since my two years long girlfriend broke up with me, almost an year ago, that I miss it. Sex is way easier to get than love.

I have a relationship in a freindly on again off again, but always friends manner. part of the static is that with my medical complications, and hectic schedual,. there really isn't time for sex, and I really don't have the ability to perform anymore.

Colonel Olrik wrote:

What the hell do I have to do to find a woman that wants to settle down and commit to a relationship??!!

I second that. Sex is good and all, but what I really I want is a serious relation. Since my two years long girlfriend broke up with me, almost an year ago, that I miss it. Sex is way easier to get than love.

Yeah, when i was in my teens, I'd fantasize about having sex with lots of women, or having a 'harem' of sorts. But now, yeah I like the sex, but I just want a family, and have done for years. I keep hearing about women that complain men don't commit, but no matter how hard I search, I never find women that want to settle down and get married.
Hell, with the women i mentioned before, the friendships are more pivotal than the sex. My last serious girlfriend lived in Montreal, and being stuck in the UK with an injury for 2 years put too much strain on that relationship. *sigh* Ah well, less moaning - more looking.

Oh yes and since this seems the perfect forum for reminding you:

ROB,

You were wrong dude, she is still quite happily living with Iann. By this of course I mean Jamie the Friday's waitress. I know you and Lurker, well you mostly, thought she was flirting away but there ain't nothin there so for once your sex-dar was off.

CmdrWilkens wrote:Oh yes and since this seems the perfect forum for reminding you:

ROB,

You were wrong dude, she is still quite happily living with Iann. By this of course I mean Jamie the Friday's waitress. I know you and Lurker, well you mostly, thought she was flirting away but there ain't nothin there so for once your sex-dar was off.

It's unusual, I'm normally spot on about these sorts of things. Of course for it to have gone anywhere you would have had to do some flirting back, and I doubt you would have done. You're like me, if there's a BF or hubby then they are strictly off-limits. Wait to see what happens if they split up, hopefully they won't, but if they should, don't be surprised if it's your shoulder she cries on.

Anyway, enough of such talk, time for bed, so goodnight goys and birls.