As far as I remember, Ventress' background is as follows: she is the daughter of a couple of political leaders who were trying to bring peace to their homeworld (in a state of perpetual war and divided between competing warlords) and got killed for it when Ventress was still pretty young.The Romulan Republic wrote:Though, given the EU's propensity to a) give every little character a huge backstory and b) screw things up royally, it may be a good thing I don't know more about Ventress.
Later, a random wandering Jedi showed up, kind of adopted her (she seems to have been his padawan, despite the lack of official sanction) and together they tried to stop the war in Ventress' homeworld. Once again, the warlords decided that they didn't want this and had the Jedi killed, but Ventress somehow survived.
She blamed the Jedi Order for the death of her master (not sure if there were romantic implications there or not) and started to use the Dark Side. More or less at this point, Dooku met her when she assassinated one of the aforementioned warlords who had invited Dooku to a gladiatorial fight. After showing Ventress who was boss with a fat lot of Sith lightning, Dooku recruited her and sent her offworld to start killing Jedi and such.